If your parthner shouts at you always...
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Will you stick by her/him despite the constant shouting, or leave her/him even though you love her/him?
My friend in a dilemma... -
shout back
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shout back no use... the parthner wont tolerate this shouting...
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is it a he or she?Originally posted by shoeling:Will you stick by her/him despite the constant shouting, or leave her/him even though you love her/him?
My friend in a dilemma...
diff situations one lar -
Leave tt person. Who would shout at the person he/she really loves? Even though u love him/her, tts not the way to get through, as time goes by, u will find it harder and harder to communicate. Its not a good way to start everyting witha shout.Originally posted by shoeling:Will you stick by her/him despite the constant shouting, or leave her/him even though you love her/him?
My friend in a dilemma...
Y not let some other ppl who wont shout at u treat u better? -
Yesterday after jogging, I saw a dude scolding her girlfriend (or sister but can't be) non-stop.
kaoz.
Want to tape up his mouth man, so noisy. -
tolerate first...if too frequent...haiz...say him or her lo..
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i canot tahan ppl shouting at each other. my neighbour is one fine example. mother shout father shout den the boy oso shout. realli buey tahan them. y cant they tok properly?! their family business mus let the whole world noe?!?!
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If a girl shouts at her boyfriend constant, it goes to show that her boyfriend is weak, no backbone. Such relationships wouldn't work. Please break ASAP to prevent anymore unhapinessOriginally posted by shoeling:Will you stick by her/him despite the constant shouting, or leave her/him even though you love her/him?
My friend in a dilemma...
As for a case of boy shouts at girlfriend constantly, the boy is violent or siao ting tong. The girl should leave immediately or the boy might become even more violent.
To those males out there, DO NOT EVER HIT A WOMEN unless in self-defense. -
this sound very familiarOriginally posted by shoeling:Will you stick by her/him despite the constant shouting, or leave her/him even though you love her/him?
My friend in a dilemma...
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wat is a PARTHNER?
anyway..
shouting to partner or friend or relative or colleague or subordinates or watever is uncalled for, unless it's in a disco or a construction site/factory. -
Originally posted by wuming78:i canot tahan ppl shouting at each other. my neighbour is one fine example. mother shout father shout den the boy oso shout. realli buey tahan them. y cant they tok properly?! their family business mus let the whole world noe?!?! They think loaud voice=power......
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more like powderOriginally posted by Parka: They think loaud voice=power...... -
Originally posted by shoeling:Will you stick by her/him despite the constant shouting, or leave her/him even though you love her/him?
My friend in a dilemma... Must apply law of polarity - he shouts, she must be firm and speak softer. Be serious in her tone, but keep the volume low. She has to depend on critical, rational and intellectual methods to counter him. Look into his eyes when speaking and do not show sign of fear. This is to communicate.
BTH Complication:
Can't stand it, use powerful body language. (Nothing is louder than body language). Simply walk away. If he grabs her arms/hands, don't shake it off at first - simply giving deathly stare (not into his eyes liao, this is another tactics totally, look somewhere else, talk firm and serious and ask him to let go.)
Scenario:
Girl >> *Walk off*
Guy>> *Grab arm*
Girl >> *Turn 45degree right, corner of eyes look and return as quickly* Let me go - Tone farking serious, dead and firm.
Guy >> *Continue to hold on*
Girl>> Stop holding me before I scream. *Same tone, expression as above. If guy continue to hold - scream the hell out of your voice for about 3 seconds and give one huge shake off his clutches. NEVER run away - maintain image and walk cooly into the direction you are going.
Remember, the girl must be cool, firm and dead serious. This can only be used as a last straw and once it is employed, there mustn't be any half-hearted effort on her part.
P.S: Nothing is louder than dead-serious body language.
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The girl should leave her boyfriend, he had shouted at her. This is an violent, rude and a disrespectful act. There is a possiblility of him becoming increasingly violent if no actions are taken, hence leaving her exposed to more violence.
If the girl can't bear to leave her boyfriend, there's no harm trying yunhaier's methods so as to convey a strong message to her boyfriend. This will goes to show that she is a strong women that deserves to be respected and cherished.
Anyway, if a boy shouts at her girlfriend constantly, do you think the boy still LOVES or feel ATTRACTED to her girlfriend. -
push him/her into the toilet bowl n flush him/her away
n have peace
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if u shout at a dog too often it will bite back...no person should tolerate such nonsense...Originally posted by shoeling:Will you stick by her/him despite the constant shouting, or leave her/him even though you love her/him?
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hmmm... depends on the situation... maybe perhaps the guy is used to talking loudly at times and the gal might mistaken it as shouting... but if this has been going on for quite a long time, talk to him... tell him that you are hurt when you used such a loud voice to talk to me... NEVER EVER ask him "why you shout to me?" instead, "why you talk so loudly?"
Trust me... i've been through this before... now everything is ok liao... -
nods nods!!
guess i'm like tat... can't help it tat i have naturally loud voice... especially when i get excited... plus, i'm kinda deaf, so i tend to speak abit louder than normal to hear myself...
heee...
but most of time ok lah, if i remember to speak softer... -
I think it's all about showing respect for the other party...
What is 1 party trying to prove by shouting at the other...