wad's her motive for calling u up so often...Originally posted by soulness:actually, i still keep in touch with her after break up
but recently she called me quite often, then we talk on phone and go out..initially it was just normal, i already gotten over her
then now she also have bf liao whereas i am still single
then she kinda keep showing me their photo
this makes me feel uneasy, i dont know how to explain the feeling
is it jealous? or wat? but i thought i already gotten over her liao![]()
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can u ppl here tell me wat to do?
she called me more than i call herOriginally posted by jOhO:then u contact her so frequently for wat?
if u want her back, chase her back (might be unethical to some), if not then i'm SURE there are heaps of other friends that u can relate to and be close to.
i'm not saying u can't be friends with her, but wat's the purpose? anyway i'm not a person that believes in platonic friendship between exes after the break up. sure i'm "friends" with my exes, if u consider one sms per month, 2 five-minute icq chats per month, and seeing each other once a year, for her wedding.
that time , i was dumped by her...Originally posted by *evanesence*:wad's her motive for calling u up so often...
n wad's with the pics?? tryin 2 spite u? who dumped who??
Anyway, if im u, i would still feel uneasy cus afterall this was some1 u had loved before or at least someone whom u had a relationship with... it doesnt have 2 mean tt u are jealous n not over her...
but like tat u will feel worse mah, jz distance yourself bit by bit lor, n keep in mind to avoid contacting her if possible lor.Originally posted by soulness:but if i do that, then i might just lose a friend just like that!..
im in dilemma now, as i also don want to lose a friend like that
i was wondering if it is just a transition periodOriginally posted by BrUtUs:but like tat u will feel worse mah, jz distance yourself bit by bit lor, n keep in mind to avoid contacting her if possible lor.
Originally posted by soulness:Neither can we be sure if it's only a transition period? It's no perfect world. You take some, you lose some. If not? You take CHANCE.
but if i do that, then i might just lose a friend just like that!..
im in dilemma now, as i also don want to lose a friend like that
i was wondering if it is just a transition period
after a while i will get used to it.. not sure...
any comments?
Originally posted by soulness:actually, i still keep in touch with her after break up
but recently she called me quite often, then we talk on phone and go out..initially it was just normal, i already gotten over her
then now she also have bf liao whereas i am still single
then she kinda keep showing me their photo
this makes me feel uneasy, i dont know how to explain the feeling
is it jealous? or wat? but i thought i already gotten over her liao![]()
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can u ppl here tell me wat to do?