Three nice guys
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I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
what should i do
I think i shall remain single....................... -
this is a typical example of being spoilt for choice!
just follow ur heart... and yeah u could be right too, being single can be great too.
however, if you're choosing to be single but actually u don't want to be, because u do have genuine feelings for one of them, but just don't want to choose, because u might hurt someone, then maybe it's not so right. if you don't fight for ur happiness, no one will. -
thanks for your advice. i suppose you have such dilemma before ?Originally posted by jOhO:this is a typical example of being spoilt for choice!
just follow ur heart... and yeah u could be right too, being single can be great too.
however, if you're choosing to be single but actually u don't want to be, because u do have genuine feelings for one of them, but just don't want to choose, because u might hurt someone, then maybe it's not so right. if you don't fight for ur happiness, no one will.
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whatever i wanted to say, has been said by jonno
slowly slowly.. follow your heart -
wah~~ so popular har~~~
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hmm not really lar, being a guy, i don't really get many girls expressively chasing me. during my days girls also not that daring?Originally posted by Princesscutie:thanks for your advice. i suppose you have such dilemma before ?
and knowing me, i'm the type of guy that needs to do the chasing. all of my past relns were from me chasing them, and those that chased me (if any!!), never really got to me. *shrug*
unless of course, u are talking about me, together with other guys chasing the same girl, then yes. during army days, 4 of us from the same coy was chasing my ex gf. guess who managed to touch her heart?
bear: for once i can answer in AA b4 u do. -
what a popular gal.
Think you should have a certain amount of understanding and knowing the character of the 3 guys. Choose the one that you find most worthy of your love. As for A and B, if they are mature enough, they won't fell out because of you lah.. but will wish the one whom you choose.
If remain single is what you most comfortable with.... so be it -
Originally posted by hopy:wah~~ so popular har~~~
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i am very confused now. i shall remain single till i sort out my thoughts.Originally posted by X-men:what a popular gal.
Think you should have a certain amount of understanding and knowing the character of the 3 guys. Choose the one that you find most worthy of your love. As for A and B, if they are mature enough, they won't fell out because of you lah.. but will wish the one whom you choose.
If remain single is what you most comfortable with.... so be it
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Follow ur heart and choose wisely. Ur heart says B, then if u really want to be with him, just go with him. Theres no need to think tt u will hurt A or ur bro fren cos this will go on and on and nvr ending.Originally posted by Princesscutie:I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B are know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
what should i do
I think i shall remain single.......................
They will get thru the hurt or watever soon de. -
hey, sounds so familiar. same thing happens to me. but if i were to count, got 4 tat happen abt the same time.
but take ur time and choose gal. no hurry. see who u most comfortable wth. go for dates wth each of them. but when i say date, i really mean dating, no hanky panky hor, if not u'll be labled a s1ut for gog out wth a few guys at the same time.
then eventually u'll find the one tat u like most and is most comfy wth. i narrow mine down to one now liao -
lucky!
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follow ur heart, dun wori abt other party... its better tat u make a decision cos it might lead the them on...Originally posted by Princesscutie:I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B are know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
what should i do
I think i shall remain single....................... -
my feeling is dat u like B.....someone is sure to be heart broken one way or another..this is wat the love game is all about...sometimes u win sometimes u lose... but make a choice soon or u will end up with nothing ..(quite unlikely cos guys are idiots when it comes to this sort of thing...even kena rejected also die die nice to the ger they like....)Originally posted by Princesscutie:i am very confused now. i shall remain single till i sort out my thoughts.
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agree with the rest.. follow yr heart... in any case, if u chose any particular guy, im sure the rest will be mature enough to respect yr decision.....
if none suits you, then remain single.....
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oh, wat i also did was to make sure all of them noe i'm not interested in starting anythign wth any of them untill i'm sure. n they all noe the other exists. so i'm frank and dun hide abt it. works tat way.
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Can I be the 4th party?
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Actually if you didn't post your choice that you would undertake, deep down in my heart, I already knew that you wouldn't choose anyone of the three.Originally posted by Princesscutie:I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B are know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
what should i do
I think i shall remain single.......................
Reason being:
Guy A - expressed liking, yet no chemistry and feel on your side (Regardless of how much/little you wish to debate, under my term, its considered no, or at least not enough to create an impact.)
Guy B - You are attracted to him - yet there is something missing in him, or its you personally or a little of both. Something missing in him is the last step needed for you to fall and enter into a relationship with him (if he is wise enough to discover it soon enough, he may gotten you - though other factors comes in as well. Personal factor refers to your psychological needs for love. I shall not explain on this one, for it could seemed a little on the offensive side if you view it personally)
Guy C - worst among the three - give presents (material items), yet no feeling and chemistry. (Out of questions)
So in the end who will win?
Guy D - jerk-like, but treats you well. (Or rather, hot-cold treatment) Guy A/B/C will complain to the world saying that girls only like 'bad guys' and if they chance across sgforums, they would begin their first topic saying 'Why girls like bast@rd guys?' or similiar.
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Anyway, you already posted what you wanna do... so just stick with it.
P.S: Are you a Libra?
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wow lau. so many pple like you ah.. so lucky.. pick the one whom u like most lor.. if u not sure, then pick the richest, smartest, most caring one, most yandao one lor..Originally posted by Princesscutie:I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B are know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
what should i do
I think i shall remain single....................... -
Yeah, I think you should stay single.
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Which is why I don't chase anyone anymore. Every girl will have at least 1 other guy chasing her, there is no point.
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Try an auntie for a change? You probably would have better luck that nobody's chasing her?Originally posted by men_@_arms:Which is why I don't chase anyone anymore. Every girl will have at least 1 other guy chasing her, there is no point. -
Yun!! Why did you post three times?
