if ur gf...
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hi guys , i am asking ...if u are into a relationship with a gal , in future , her ex come back find her wanting to be with her again , what would u do ?
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ask her ... love is between 2 person ...
if both of you feel loved each other i think she will not bother about the ex -
Hmm? Yet another post from AntoH!Originally posted by antoh:ask her ... love is between 2 person ...
if both of you feel loved each other i think she will not bother about the ex
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I would ask to meet up and talk...
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kns m@square ..
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Lolx!!!Originally posted by antoh:kns m@square ..
Good 1, Mc sq!
As for da main topic. if U trust yr GF, let her settle it on her own. If she cant, step in loh... if she wanna go back? Well, curse them loh... Lolx!!! No lah... watever it is I wan her to be happy mah... -
nothing much u can do..........choice is still hers......
u can oni prove tt u are a better bf than the ex......... -
yes! i believe my gf trust me 100% i m in sg she is in malaysia ... i trust her tooOriginally posted by Bontakun:Lolx!!!
Good 1, Mc sq!
As for da main topic. if U trust yr GF, let her settle it on her own. If she cant, step in loh... if she wanna go back? Well, curse them loh... Lolx!!! No lah... watever it is I wan her to be happy mah... -
Wahahahaha!!! Good chance at AntoH!Originally posted by Bontakun:Lolx!!!
Good 1, Mc sq!
As for da main topic. if U trust yr GF, let her settle it on her own. If she cant, step in loh... if she wanna go back? Well, curse them loh... Lolx!!! No lah... watever it is I wan her to be happy mah...
I won't curse people one lah....just wait for a better one along lor. -
i would do nothing.
just becos i'm "threatened" doesn't mean i should treat her differently. scarli i treat her better only becos got threat, then no threat that time she complain i dun treat her the same anymore then how?
the best bet is always for her to know my true self. actually, if the reln is good enuff, she will KNOW how i'd react/feel when i find out about this.
but in all honesty, i dun worree about such things. i have a pretty big ego that doesn't allow me to worree about losing my girl to another.
that said, it's happened to me b4, not to her ex, just another guy. -
at this point, if she wants to get back to her ex, then it shows how impt u r to her.
It is her choice now
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stay cool abt it cos trust she will make the right decision...
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Let the gal choose who she wants to go to... Even if you force her to stay with you and she wants to return to her ex-bf, there is nothing you can do.. Just let her be...
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so far,hwo u meet her??anyway i think if i trust my gf,i should let her make the decision.if she want to go back,i will let her go if i love her.if her heart not with me,she will not be happy with me.if she really like me,she will stay with me.it depend on her decision eventually..Originally posted by antoh:yes! i believe my gf trust me 100% i m in sg she is in malaysia ... i trust her too -
If she sincerely loves you, nothing and nobody will be able to 're-take' her back. It really depends on why her ex-relationship broke. If it happened that she was v much in love with her ex even after the relationship broke off (before she met you), then there's a slim opportunity the flame may be rekindled. In this case, then, a little intervention from you may be needed...in which you remind her that you were the one who 'mended' her once broken heart and has been there for her.Originally posted by Wen^Chu:hi guys , i am asking ...if u are into a relationship with a gal , in future , her ex come back find her wanting to be with her again , what would u do ?
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Do everything to discredit the ex,but do it subtlely.Try to accentuate his "weaknesses" and show your "strengths"eg lets say the gal is an animal lover,but the ex is not.Try to show her that you're one while at the same time hinting that her ex is not,but never mention his name explicitly,just drop hints here and there.Subconsciously,she will begin to make comparisons and that's good for you.Find out everything about the ex that might be helpful to you and act accordingly.
Yes,this method might sound a bit "immoral",but as long as it works,who cares!!!
Realpolitik and Social Darwinism is what this world is about. -
hey pls.. dis is da kind of qs u and ur gf will settle among urself. if the days do come, u haf to ask ur gf where her hearts still be.Originally posted by Wen^Chu:hi guys , i am asking ...if u are into a relationship with a gal , in future , her ex come back find her wanting to be with her again , what would u do ?
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What happend to me was... my ex had second thoughts when she met her ex. (painful
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I let her go... to love is not to possess. Everyone have the right to choose.
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Originally posted by jOhO:i would do nothing.
just becos i'm "threatened" doesn't mean i should treat her differently. scarli i treat her better only becos got threat, then no threat that time she complain i dun treat her the same anymore then how?
the best bet is always for her to know my true self. actually, if the reln is good enuff, she will KNOW how i'd react/feel when i find out about this.
but in all honesty, i dun worree about such things. i have a pretty big ego that doesn't allow me to worree about losing my girl to another.
that said, it's happened to me b4, not to her ex, just another guy. 
WOohOooooOooooOOOOOoooOOOoo!
WHY ARE YOU STEALING WORDS FROM MY MOUTH!
/me add a huge X2
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ya i very curious how u guys will react.. dun usually i get the scolding if such things happen...
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It's his decision... should he wants to leave me for his ex...
Then i guess I would have to settle with the fact that my guy prefers ugly women to preetty me?? ... -
if its as a friend why not? though there is a very high possibly that their drowned out light may ignited again. But in cases if your gf is willing to befriend her ex again, would you rather let her lie to you and go out with him behind your back or be honest with you everytime they go out.
Of course on your part just maybe try to limit their outings which from my point of view is good enough. -
U'll haf 2 ask her liao loh... C watz her final decision. If she feels she stil love tat guy den let her go... No pt clingin on 2 a fruitless r/s. If she decides ur e one 4 her, den gd 4 u!
So it all depends on her decision n choice... -
no matter wat it's up to her to decide.. and she will have to be the one to bear the consequences... not an easy choice... and even harder to bear the consequences...
been there, done that... -
Tell her a *anology ...
A mirror which have broken will always bave a crack ...
no matter how small it is, it can never be back to its original form.
Once a relationship that have soured / broked down; it is over and the relationship will not stand the test of time.
Lastly, u may do your homework and find out why in the first place your gf past relationship have broken down... but never in the interest to pin-point whose wrong is it ...
May u persist to the end, and happiness be round the corner.
Just take this as a test to your relationship .... -
i wil let him make the final decision
no matter who he had choose to be with
i will not blame or even hate
i will respect his decision