Dun understand her but i hope my guess is wrong
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Got to know a girl recently. It's normal pure friend between us so i guess that's nothing much or special to 'hide' betwwen us. No, she not those beautiful or those cute type btw.
However, after some days, i found she kinda like mysterious. I have to admit, i dun know much about girls but she's kinda 'special' to me in that mysterious way.
Well.. she has a BF which i'm sure as i heard her mentioning it to her friends but when i talked to her about it, she deny it. ??? I was like...geee.. wtf. oh well nvm. And she was like always joking to me about introducing some 'potiental' bf to her which through time i was kinda PO. I mean... yeah no harm knowing more friends but it's like "potiental bf"? wtf...
Few moments, i've incidentiall overheard about her mentioning asking her 'suckers' "Kai zi (in chinese) to pay for her bills and such. So.. more or less i can deduce a bit about her but i really hope i'm wrong in this.
I hint to her sometimes that i knew a bit and dun mind but she still pretend innocence... geez.
I dun really mind if she's what i think she's doing as a friend but i can't stand the way she hides from me. Afriad of me looking down on her? or i'm like a potiential next 'sucker' Sigh....anyway dun think our friendship gonna stay coz i dun like people who are insincere in dealing with frienship.
Another disappointment in another girls i've met. Somehow i'm getting more and more disappointed in the way a lot of girls are thinking nowadays. Just sharing another section of my life with you guys and do comment if what i'm thinking might be wrong. -
some gals are just like that.
forget about getting to know her better or changing your friendship to relationship with her. unless you are willing to be a 'kai zi'. you will meet better girls in future. -
Nah... my believe in relationship has long ceased. I love being single, carefree and easy.
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Virrus,
My reply here will be short & sweet, since I believe u're intelligent enuff to noe in ur heart wat u muz do.
So, my advice is: Stay away from her.
RPOriginally posted by Virrus:Got to know a girl recently. It's normal pure friend between us so i guess that's nothing much or special to 'hide' betwwen us. No, she not those beautiful or those cute type btw.
However, after some days, i found she kinda like mysterious. I have to admit, i dun know much about girls but she's kinda 'special' to me in that mysterious way.
Well.. she has a BF which i'm sure as i heard her mentioning it to her friends but when i talked to her about it, she deny it. ??? I was like...geee.. wtf. oh well nvm. And she was like always joking to me about introducing some 'potiental' bf to her which through time i was kinda PO. I mean... yeah no harm knowing more friends but it's like "potiental bf"? wtf...
Few moments, i've incidentiall overheard about her mentioning asking her 'suckers' "Kai zi (in chinese) to pay for her bills and such. So.. more or less i can deduce a bit about her but i really hope i'm wrong in this.
I hint to her sometimes that i knew a bit and dun mind but she still pretend innocence... geez.
I dun really mind if she's what i think she's doing as a friend but i can't stand the way she hides from me. Afriad of me looking down on her? or i'm like a potiential next 'sucker' Sigh....anyway dun think our friendship gonna stay coz i dun like people who are insincere in dealing with frienship.
Another disappointment in another girls i've met. Somehow i'm getting more and more disappointed in the way a lot of girls are thinking nowadays. Just sharing another section of my life with you guys and do comment if what i'm thinking might be wrong. -
Originally posted by Virrus:Got to know a girl recently. It's normal pure friend between us so i guess that's nothing much or special to 'hide' betwwen us. No, she not those beautiful or those cute type btw.
However, after some days, i found she kinda like mysterious. I have to admit, i dun know much about girls but she's kinda 'special' to me in that mysterious way.
Well.. she has a BF which i'm sure as i heard her mentioning it to her friends but when i talked to her about it, she deny it. ??? I was like...geee.. wtf. oh well nvm. And she was like always joking to me about introducing some 'potiental' bf to her which through time i was kinda PO. I mean... yeah no harm knowing more friends but it's like "potiental bf"? wtf...
Few moments, i've incidentiall overheard about her mentioning asking her 'suckers' "Kai zi (in chinese) to pay for her bills and such. So.. more or less i can deduce a bit about her but i really hope i'm wrong in this.
I hint to her sometimes that i knew a bit and dun mind but she still pretend innocence... geez.
I dun really mind if she's what i think she's doing as a friend but i can't stand the way she hides from me. Afriad of me looking down on her? or i'm like a potiential next 'sucker' Sigh....anyway dun think our friendship gonna stay coz i dun like people who are insincere in dealing with frienship.
Another disappointment in another girls i've met. Somehow i'm getting more and more disappointed in the way a lot of girls are thinking nowadays. Just sharing another section of my life with you guys and do comment if what i'm thinking might be wrong.
In astrology, the girls you will meet this lifetime, for good or for ill, depends heavily on placing of your Moon and Venus. Sometimes, its not about them, its about us. But this would be in another topic.
Art of seduction - the only way to counter them is to know what they are doing. Under Art of War (zi ji zi bi, bai zhan bai shen) - knowing how your 'opponent' operates almost guarantee you a victory in war because you can create a move, acting like a counterspell in all her schemes.
She is mysterious because she hasn't knew you enough. There are many thingy about her which she may/may not wants you to know because she isn't too sure of her intention to you yet. If she sees you are a potential friend, probably things would be as simple as it is now. If she sees you as a bf material, then probably she would work out a way to attract you. If she sees you as a kai zi, similiarly, she will also work out a way. She is the kind of people, who always desire to stand at an advantage, while keep herself shut.
To avoid being a kai zi is to avoid employing wealth as a medium to foster good relationship.
Avoid or not doesn't matter. But seriously, you may not want to go anywhere further other than a causal friendship.
P.S: She, being mysterious, is turn off for you. When you sit down and think about it - it is this unique quality that attracts you in the first place.
Is she a Scorpio?
Cheers -
It's a friendship... You choose the kinda people you wanna mix around with?Originally posted by Virrus:Got to know a girl recently. It's normal pure friend between us so i guess that's nothing much or special to 'hide' betwwen us. No, she not those beautiful or those cute type btw.
However, after some days, i found she kinda like mysterious. I have to admit, i dun know much about girls but she's kinda 'special' to me in that mysterious way.
Well.. she has a BF which i'm sure as i heard her mentioning it to her friends but when i talked to her about it, she deny it. ??? I was like...geee.. wtf. oh well nvm. And she was like always joking to me about introducing some 'potiental' bf to her which through time i was kinda PO. I mean... yeah no harm knowing more friends but it's like "potiental bf"? wtf...
Few moments, i've incidentiall overheard about her mentioning asking her 'suckers' "Kai zi (in chinese) to pay for her bills and such. So.. more or less i can deduce a bit about her but i really hope i'm wrong in this.
I hint to her sometimes that i knew a bit and dun mind but she still pretend innocence... geez.
I dun really mind if she's what i think she's doing as a friend but i can't stand the way she hides from me. Afriad of me looking down on her? or i'm like a potiential next 'sucker' Sigh....anyway dun think our friendship gonna stay coz i dun like people who are insincere in dealing with frienship.
Another disappointment in another girls i've met. Somehow i'm getting more and more disappointed in the way a lot of girls are thinking nowadays. Just sharing another section of my life with you guys and do comment if what i'm thinking might be wrong. -
u are rite girls just want to be showered with love and attention and they dun intend to reciprocate it in any ways...Originally posted by Virrus:Got to know a girl recently. It's normal pure friend between us so i guess that's nothing much or special to 'hide' betwwen us. No, she not those beautiful or those cute type btw.
However, after some days, i found she kinda like mysterious. I have to admit, i dun know much about girls but she's kinda 'special' to me in that mysterious way.
Well.. she has a BF which i'm sure as i heard her mentioning it to her friends but when i talked to her about it, she deny it. ??? I was like...geee.. wtf. oh well nvm. And she was like always joking to me about introducing some 'potiental' bf to her which through time i was kinda PO. I mean... yeah no harm knowing more friends but it's like "potiental bf"? wtf...
Few moments, i've incidentiall overheard about her mentioning asking her 'suckers' "Kai zi (in chinese) to pay for her bills and such. So.. more or less i can deduce a bit about her but i really hope i'm wrong in this.
I hint to her sometimes that i knew a bit and dun mind but she still pretend innocence... geez.
I dun really mind if she's what i think she's doing as a friend but i can't stand the way she hides from me. Afriad of me looking down on her? or i'm like a potiential next 'sucker' Sigh....anyway dun think our friendship gonna stay coz i dun like people who are insincere in dealing with frienship.
Another disappointment in another girls i've met. Somehow i'm getting more and more disappointed in the way a lot of girls are thinking nowadays. Just sharing another section of my life with you guys and do comment if what i'm thinking might be wrong. -
she's weird.
no point sticking ard people who have lots to hide. -
yes.. indeed.. that's exactly what i feel too. Initially i thought well we're just friends.. if she dun wanna tell, it's not nice to ask to know. But later come to think of it.. hmm it's too weird for this matter. I mean what's the big deal? I always like to treat people with sincerity and i do hope my friends can treat me the same too.Originally posted by fish&chipz:she's weird.
no point sticking ard people who have lots to hide.
Most of you suggest can do without with such friend. Thks for your advice, i do know better now if i'm thinking of it the 'mass way' or it's just my stupid stubborn,"xiao qi" and 'wu liao'.
yes. i do admit it's just a friend but i treat all my friend well and i certainly dun wish to wrongly lose friens for nothing, even guys. -
there's a diff between not wanting to tell, as in mabbe she's a private kinda person,Originally posted by Virrus:yes.. indeed.. that's exactly what i feel too. Initially i thought well we're just friends.. if she dun wanna tell, it's not nice to ask to know. But later come to think of it.. hmm it's too weird for this matter. I mean what's the big deal? I always like to treat people with sincerity and i do hope my friends can treat me the same too.
Most of you suggest can do without with such friend. Thks for your advice, i do know better now if i'm thinking of it the 'mass way' or it's just my stupid stubborn,"xiao qi" and 'wu liao'.
yes. i do admit it's just a friend but i treat all my friend well and i certainly dun wish to wrongly lose friens for nothing, even guys.
n delibrately withholding some facts that all knows but u?!
she's certainly up to sthg if she so denies e obvious facts.
u're not being xiaoqi. -
play safe dude, just treat her as a normal acquaintance...
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play safe dude, just treat her as a normal acquaintance...
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Hi there,
From what I know, girls can really 'act' when they want to... so as you have overheard some news...it is much better to stay away from her...before you end up in her 'claws' unknowingly...unless she comes clean with it... -
Not necessarily...? Depends on how ya see it? 'Up to something' might not really be something which is that serious or that bad sometimes?Originally posted by fish&chipz:there's a diff between not wanting to tell, as in mabbe she's a private kinda person,
n delibrately withholding some facts that all knows but u?!
she's certainly up to sthg if she so denies e obvious facts.u're not being xiaoqi.