R most girls like this?
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after a few months in a relationship. they sort of get bored of it and hence they PRIORTISE their friends more than they priortise their bf ?
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some girls are like this......
guys oso have their part to play..... -
unless u come out with some ideas that can amuse her..
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No... I got a friend... She is wif her bf for about 2yrs liao... N still her bf is her priority on top of her friends...
See lah... Tis kind of thingy... Depends on whether the gal wants to make the commitment or not...
Most gals r willin to do tat... But when they chose to priotise their friends first... Things may be goin wrong??? -
There will come to a point where comparisions are inevitable. Especially if she have guy friends.
If u dun work on it, who would want to continue the r/s if hanging out with friends are more fun/better?
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Not when her friends are all guys. Like someone said, it's the commitment level and how much they love you back. My case was my ex chose to prioritise because she thinks I was holding her back but what I did not know was she was sleeping with 1-2 of them behind my back. And that's just wrong
So if you feel something ominous is gonna happen, just bail. Don't wait 3years like me to find out 
Yes although there ought to be mutual respect, a guy SHOULD theoretically be the one pulling the strings and calling the shots here. Sorry ladies but that's what I think based on my own failure, it's in no way related to anyone else in particular
Just my 2 cents worth
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Too sticky all the time not very healthy, very soon run out of things to say to each other. This way is good, you do yur thing she does hers.Originally posted by freestyle:after a few months in a relationship. they sort of get bored of it and hence they PRIORTISE their friends more than they priortise their bf ? -
If a girl is seriously in love with a bloke, she will give him priority in everything, time especially.
If not, alarm bells should ring. -
Originally posted by freestyle:after a few months in a relationship. they sort of get bored of it and hence they PRIORTISE their friends more than they priortise their bf ?
Are you sure it because she is bored with the relationship?
And not her 'actual' behavior when dealing with relationship?
P.S: There is a huge difference.
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not really lahz... i got gal frens with their bf for almost 3 yrs or 1 yr liaoz and still their bfs is their no1 priority over others... can call tis 'nian' ba...Originally posted by freestyle:after a few months in a relationship. they sort of get bored of it and hence they PRIORTISE their friends more than they priortise their bf ? -
her friends are gal friends. however i still feel that as her bf i shld be priortised. but she know her frds longer than she know me.
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If gal pals why u worry? Should let her meet up with them once in a while cos girls like to gossip & shop. U only worry if she is meeting with guy friends very often cos some guys will still make a move even though the girl is attached
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maybe you're just boring
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Surprise her now and then.
Sometimes a girl rather spend more time with her friends because she finds the relationship is falling into a routine and getting boring.
Find new things to do together, learn something new or go to new places. A holiday helps
It takes 2 to clap for the level of commitment but sometimes, one party has to take the first step to spice up the relationship. -
My friend has a plain looking close friend/best friend C who gets jealous when she spends too much time with her bf. She will complain that she is being neglected so my friend has to tell her bf she can only see him once a week
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Really? hmm from my observation, seems like all girls worship their bf. They rather be with their guy than to go out with friends once they are attached.
The frequency of meeting their guy is 5 times more than meeting anyone else. -
Your observation from whom and where may i ask?Originally posted by strawberry lush:Really? hmm from my observation, seems like all girls worship their bf. They rather be with their guy than to go out with friends once they are attached.
The frequency of meeting their guy is 5 times more than meeting anyone else. -
Err your friends bf are all really lucky then. From my side there are those who are very close to their bf but still have a good social life, and there are those who are double, even triple timing their bf/husband (more common phenomenal), but I have yet to see one who is so sticky to their partner.Originally posted by strawberry lush:Really? hmm from my observation, seems like all girls worship their bf. They rather be with their guy than to go out with friends once they are attached.
The frequency of meeting their guy is 5 times more than meeting anyone else.
To what I see these days, I think less and less girls worship their bf. Usually its the other way around. Haha
Just my own point of view
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You're not far from truth.Originally posted by elindra:Err your friends bf are all really lucky then. From my side there are those who are very close to their bf but still have a good social life, and there are those who are double, even triple timing their bf/husband (more common phenomenal), but I have yet to see one who is so sticky to their partner.
To what I see these days, I think less and less girls worship their bf. Usually its the other way around. Haha
Just my own point of view
But good social life - where does the social circle come from? There have got to be certain source like Club spots or schools. -
Ex-classmates, ex-collegues, from clubbing, friends of ex-classmates, ex-collegues. None of us join any clubs. Sometimes from the internet.Originally posted by M©+square:You're not far from truth.
But good social life - where does the social circle come from? There have got to be certain source like Club spots or schools. -
the thing is she spend more time wiv them than she spend wiv me. tts the prob =/Originally posted by gerrykoh:If gal pals why u worry? Should let her meet up with them once in a while cos girls like to gossip & shop. U only worry if she is meeting with guy friends very often cos some guys will still make a move even though the girl is attached -
hw true....Originally posted by elindra:Err your friends bf are all really lucky then. From my side there are those who are very close to their bf but still have a good social life, and there are those who are double, even triple timing their bf/husband (more common phenomenal), but I have yet to see one who is so sticky to their partner.
To what I see these days, I think less and less girls worship their bf. Usually its the other way around. Haha
Just my own point of view
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Why don't you get to know here friendsOriginally posted by freestyle:the thing is she spend more time wiv them than she spend wiv me. tts the prob =/
That way her friends are now your friends
This way you guys can go out in a group as well.
I mean if it is a problem to you. Have a heart to heart talk with her that although you respect her privacy and her having to spend time with her friends, you feel left out and would like to spend more time with her.
Anyway if you guys have been together for some time, it is always healthy to k now each other's friends. -
i know her frds. but not in the least close to them. i dunno i just feel very frustrated everytime she wants to go out wiv her frds and not me.
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Have u found out what they usually do when they go out? If her gal pals are single, maybe u can intro some guys & have group dates. Try & find out what they like to do. Also make your dates with your gf more interesting so she will go out with u more often