how to change a lifestyle of a ger..part2
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she alway sound so ptiiful...and she kept sayin she no choice and ask me to help her...how to help??
tell her to leave taht guy ...she say she cant..coz she owe tt guy -
She seem unwilling to receive the help you give. Forget her. Don't be too nice. I think thsi is too melodramatic.
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It's none of your concern.Originally posted by Match20:she alway sound so ptiiful...and she kept sayin she no choice and ask me to help her...how to help??
tell her to leave taht guy ...she say she cant..coz she owe tt guy
You can't save everyone in this world. Plus she doesn't want to be 'saved'.
Leave it.. she is not your responsibility. What does she want you to do? Smuggle drugs?? -
got pic?
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girls only need two things from a guy: emotional support and security.
if it's like what you said, she can't leave her boyfriend for some reason. and she has no one to cry her heart out to. hence she lacks emotional support. [i don't know whether her bf provides a sense of security.]
and then you came along and showered her with your care and concern. you provided her the emotional support that she needs. she realises that she can get her emotional support from you, hence she looks for you whenever she's troubled.
when she's gotten enough of the emotional support, she disappears without a word and you can't seem to contact her. she only appears again when she's low on emotional support.
in short, you're like an emotional tampon: used when needed, discarded when not.
bro, get this straight: you cannot change her because:
1) your position in her heart is not great enough to affect her thinking.
2) it is near impossible to make a person have a 180 degrees change in personality.
like what the other guys said, both of you belong to two worlds. just be glad that she crossed your path, because you wouldn't have learnt so much without her.
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Somehow she is involving in drug trafficking, this kind of gal is not worth at all. She might not mind to be a prositute out of money. She might say she wants to give this monie to friends to help them. What a stupid! Maybe she is pretty right now as she is young. Imagine 10 yrs or 20 yrs down the road, her looks has gone and her ugly character stays, my god, that's so horrible! There's someone so much better than her. Cut the string to free yourself. Sms her that you will never contact her again. Be firm not to contact her. Your action will save you from the misery of having her around.
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Match20......
don be sad.... you have your own life... and she has hers.....
One day, she will realized her world is just a dream... and the reality will fall on her.
Take the time, to heal your wounds.. and lead your own life! One day, she would wake up! Let her learn the hard way thru........ -
Originally posted by PrettyDajie:Match20......
don be sad.... you have your own life... and she has hers.....
One day, she will realized her world is just a dream... and the reality will fall on her. For her, she really was being led astray..... If I am not wrong, she is becoming more and more materialistic.... which is quite common for girls nowadays..... Maybe, someone that has got a bit of money... influence, and she took that person as a role model. Don try to help her financially.. coz, the money you are giving her, will not come back...
Her change would be drastic.... so does her ending.... let her "zi sheng zi mie"! Don try to help her... becoz, whatever she says.. wont be 100% geniune..... She's just want you to help her.... only....
Take the time, to heal your wounds.. and lead your own life! One day, she would wake up! Let her learn the hard way thru........ -
seriously do you think she LOVE you?
i really doubt so
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KILL HER