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There's a theory that all people express themselves and learn best
through one of three ways: Through audio, visual, or kinesthetic.
That means they learn and express themselves best through hearing
and speaking, seeing and imagery, or touch and feeling. Touch is
very important for meeting and getting women who express themselves
kinesthetically into your life.
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Kino is short for "Kinesthetic", and it's something that every man
should learn how to do well. There's three really good kinds of kino:
1. Playful Kino: This is touching that is light and fun, that makes
everyone involved enjoy themselves more.
2. Protective Kino: Touching her in a way that makes her feel
protected and safe.
3. Incidental: Kino that's "just happening" because you two are
very comfortable with each other.
To be continued...
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Introducing Playful Kino
Playful Kino is a spice like a high quality pepper. In small
quantities, it can really make a meal, adding a sense of
refinement, luxury, complexity, and excellence to it. A little bit
too much pepper starts to drown out the meal and becomes a bit
distasteful... dousing something in pepper makes it inedible.
So you SPRINKLE playful kino into your interaction. A little
playful kino soon after opening sets you apart from other men who
are afraid to touch, and then you can add in a little every now and
then to inject some energy into the interaction.
Common types of Playful Kino:
-Tickling her
-Ruffling her hair
-Spanking her
-Hip-bumping her
-Hot hands
-A light (very light!) shove
-Kid-like games like thumb wars
-Salsa spins
-More complicated spins
-Picking her up and throwing her over your shoulder
-A light (very light!) punch in the arm or leg
Playful Kino is light and fun. Sprinkle some into the interaction
and watch what your interactions get more charged up.[/b]
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Protective Kino
Knight in Shining Armor time. Protective Kino makes her feel
protected and safe, and is great for attraction. After just a few
moments and a bit of connection, protective kino becomes
appropriate and powerful.
One of the best kinds of touching ANYWHERE is where protective kino
was derived from. Placing your hand on her lower back as you move
through a crowded bar or cross a street is EXTREMELY attractive and
makes you seem very, very powerful and masculine. As you move
through the bar or across the street, gently but firmly place your
hand on her lower back, "escorting" her onwards. It will make her
feel warm and safe, and like you're an absolute stud.
Other kinds of protective kino include going arm-in-arm like you're
promenading, taking her hand as you move through a venue, holding
her closely to you as you're sitting, or putting your arm out in
front of her to stop her from moving forwards as you get to a
street crossing. Engaging in protective kino signifies that you
protect your own, that you're a confident masculine man, and is a
huge boon for attraction.
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Incidental Kino
The best for last, incidental kino is the most subtle of the three
kinds. It's where you and the girl are touching but neither of you
are consciously trying to do so. It happens naturally with couples
who are comfortable with each other all the time. You're going to
replicate that by generating incidental kino.
You want to build incidental kino throughout the interaction by
closing space. If your and her touching breaks off, do not rush to
reengage it. You should break off and reresume incidental kino
yourself. Again, you're not trying to manufacture it. It's "just
happening", because you two are so comfortable with each other.
Common forms of Incidental Kino:
Kneels interlocked sitting on barstools, brushing shoulders up
against each other as you walk down the street, sharing an
umbrella, speaking into her ear if it's loud and all the touching
associated with that, sitting next to each other on a couch,
leaning over her to converse with her friend or your friend, taking
something from her or handing something to her, and so on.
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Some Rules For Touching
All Kino should seem either Spontaneous or Subconscious. That means
it should never seem premeditated, planned, or forced. Some helpful
tips for you:
Playful kino is always spontaneous, and being done lightly in the
spirit of the moment. Sprinkle playful kino in, it's best used as a
spice in small doses.
Do protective kino like you make it. No waffling on whether you're
going to put your arm around her. Playful kino can either be
spontaneous or subconscious, but make sure you're doing it in a
masculine, protective way.
Incidental kino is supposedly not being consciously generated (even
though both you and the woman are aware of it). It's "just
happening" because you two are comfortable with each other. As
such, it's always subconscious on your part - if she breaks it off,
don't immediately scoot back in to her. Let it rest and restart it
in a moment. Make sure you break off incidental kino from time to
time as well, then restart it.
Lastly, never look where you touch. It "asks for permission" so to
speak. Just go for it, ***if your hand is in the wrong place she'll
let you know. (***Take note, do not apologise. Unless you really need to,
by then, you should already know that she is not in the frequency)
Touching is absolutely fantastic for your game. Employing solid
touching and kinesthetics will capture her mind and body. It's
especially powerful and necessary for some of the most fun,
passionate girls and works well on all girls. Remember to engage in
incidental kino before you go to kiss, because it's a win/win
proposition.
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Originally posted by M©+square:more importantly, do you like him?

Oh, Hello udon, long time no see.i like his daughter more than him...
and
yeah...ltns u in sgf....
no lar...just wanna know how come i always get whacked...
i tried to ask! but the only replies i get are things like 'because
u deserve it'
do u guys
take joy in 'inflicting pain' to xmms?????????
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ah square, ni hui lai le~!!!
haha..
i agree with u leh...
as i read, i can figure out a few frens of the opposite gender who falls under the different categories...
and to me personally, men who fall under these categories are...
playful kino type - good for romance
protective kino type - good for a life partner
incidental kino type - good for a close fren
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