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say u have been in bad luck with the opposite sex all these while... from classmates to fren's sisters/brothers, to forumites, to the one u try to pick up from MOS.... even the one working at tenpenis mall oso not interested in u....
would u ever consider joining a dating agency or sign up at a dating site to widen ur social circle?
wat's ur view on ppl who go for such activities?
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i have seen couple of fine people out there who doesn't seem to have any luck in terms of "love"... and sometimes they'll make you wonder why are they still single when they are so ready for one - like myself. frens ard me are either married / attached and i'm sort of the last one standing "single". how brilliant.
i have friends suggesting that I go online / dating agencies... I wld but it'll be my last resort.
but still, i hope not.
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Methinks there are other avenues to widen your social circle. Call me narrow-minded, but I tend to see people who head to dating agencies as desperate. Besides, even if you're joining one just to widen your social circle without holding any hopes of finding your life partner, the same cannot be said for all of the people there. It shudders me when I think of the mindset of the people I meet, and it shudders me when I think of why my marriage (if any) will possibly take place (for the sake of getting married?).
Edited by Cz 12 Mar `08, 10:49PM
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i can't say much... as much as im tempted to try it out... bcos of having people thinking that we are "desperate"... that's part of the reason why it's stopping me.
so, what other avenues can we widen our social circles?
think again, i shd probably change a job. my current job is sucking up 80% of my time... not good. *mumbles to herself*
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Originally posted by blurvixen:
i can't say much... as much as im tempted to try it out... bcos of having people thinking that we are "desperate"... that's part of the reason why it's stopping me.
so, what other avenues can we widen our social circles?
think again, i shd probably change a job. my current job is sucking up 80% of my time... not good. *mumbles to herself*
Even if you're not desperate, there might be people there who are.
Yeah it certainly doesn't help to be busy
with work most of the time! You can always pick up a new course
that offers you opportunities to meet people of the opposite gender
e.g. aikido? hehehe. Or how about volunteering (for some
excitement, maybe one that takes you overseas to places such as
Cambodia)...
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I think first seeking feedback from others to find out whether there is anything seriously wrong in terms of appearance, action or speech etc, prior to taking any other measures makes more sense.
Even if he/she were to opt for the agencies, while these negatives are still within them, i believe the result will still be the same.
"More haste, less speed", remember?
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