I am dating a younger man, so shoot me
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I am dating a younger man, so shoot me
SEXLESS IN THE CITY
NO buts about it, I am guilty. At least in the eyes of most of my friends and family members.
For the first time since they have all been suspecting and accusing, I have admitted that, yes, I am in love, in love and proud of it, with a wonderful man.
And my sin?
He is seven years younger than I am.
Let me put things in perspective: I am 29, recently divorced, with a beautiful and precocious 5-year-old daughter.
And I have fallen in love with someone who hasn't even gone through his National Service.
As my best pal Joannie puts it, in between mouthfuls of her favourite Boon Tong Kee chicken rice: 'Aiyoh girl, you might as well be living in the middle ages and be accused of witchcraft.
'This is Singapore in 2004. D is such a sweetie but you will die a death worse than being burnt on the stake if you tell anyone!'
I have denied how I felt and thought about how society, my family and my loved ones would judge me.
I have read articles about Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher; I devoured articles about Tim Robbins and Susan Sarandon, Madonna and husband Guy Ritchie, Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake.
For heaven's sake, the females are all more than a decade older than their male counterparts.
Hello, my guy is definitely less than a decade younger than me.
I thought that in this age of modern social mores, dating a younger man was okay, all right and definitely acceptable. Man, I was so wrong!
From the moment I introduced D to my closest friends and to my parents, he might as well have been Exhibit No 326 in the museum of Freaks and Weird Creatures.
They were all cordial, nice, warm even. But my acute sixth sense, honed from years of spotting lame lies from 'sick' staff with MCs, told me otherwise.
I may have been married before to someone I knew and loved since college days. I have dated men my age, older than I am, and some even one or two years younger than me. I have never felt the level of freedom and comfort D gives me.
For the first time, I think I know what it truly feels like to be loved with no pressure, no expectations and no demands.
The most common question my pals ask is: 'What can you guys talk about? How can you both connect?'
My answer is always: 'I don't need to connect. I don't need to talk. I am happy being with him.'
Coming from a hardened, worldly, single mother who has learned life's painful lessons through personal experience, this statement and justification seems lame.
Well, this is really how I feel.
What can an educated, accomplished, confident and (ahem) attractive woman like me find in a 22-year-old, who hasn't even done his degree course, much less finished his compulsory National Service?
I cannot give a scientific answer. All I can offer is my heartfelt and honest testimonial: I know he feels right for me at this moment.
For the only time in my life, I intend to throw caution to the wind and go with my heart. Whatever comes after, no-one but I will be responsible for it.
However it ends, it will only add interest to my life's experience bank. I can only grow stronger.
Perhaps if more Singaporean women would start thinking with their heart, and with their natural-born instinct to love and give without fear, our little nation may not be facing the 'headache' of procreation activities.
Okay, you may all start shooting now.
Source: NP -
who's dat older woman..? i want..!!
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gurl u noe this woman??
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I like ur frankness, there's nothing to be ashame of. I like ur attitude. Gan zhuo gan dang!Originally posted by The Hobbit:I am dating a younger man, so shoot me
SEXLESS IN THE CITY
NO buts about it, I am guilty. At least in the eyes of most of my friends and family members.
For the first time since they have all been suspecting and accusing, I have admitted that, yes, I am in love, in love and proud of it, with a wonderful man.
And my sin?
He is seven years younger than I am.
Let me put things in perspective: I am 29, recently divorced, with a beautiful and precocious 5-year-old daughter.
And I have fallen in love with someone who hasn't even gone through his National Service.
As my best pal Joannie puts it, in between mouthfuls of her favourite Boon Tong Kee chicken rice: 'Aiyoh girl, you might as well be living in the middle ages and be accused of witchcraft.
'This is Singapore in 2004. D is such a sweetie but you will die a death worse than being burnt on the stake if you tell anyone!'
I have denied how I felt and thought about how society, my family and my loved ones would judge me.
I have read articles about Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher; I devoured articles about Tim Robbins and Susan Sarandon, Madonna and husband Guy Ritchie, Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake.
For heaven's sake, the females are all more than a decade older than their male counterparts.
Hello, my guy is definitely less than a decade younger than me.
I thought that in this age of modern social mores, dating a younger man was okay, all right and definitely acceptable. Man, I was so wrong!
From the moment I introduced D to my closest friends and to my parents, he might as well have been Exhibit No 326 in the museum of Freaks and Weird Creatures.
They were all cordial, nice, warm even. But my acute sixth sense, honed from years of spotting lame lies from 'sick' staff with MCs, told me otherwise.
I may have been married before to someone I knew and loved since college days. I have dated men my age, older than I am, and some even one or two years younger than me. I have never felt the level of freedom and comfort D gives me.
For the first time, I think I know what it truly feels like to be loved with no pressure, no expectations and no demands.
The most common question my pals ask is: 'What can you guys talk about? How can you both connect?'
My answer is always: 'I don't need to connect. I don't need to talk. I am happy being with him.'
Coming from a hardened, worldly, single mother who has learned life's painful lessons through personal experience, this statement and justification seems lame.
Well, this is really how I feel.
What can an educated, accomplished, confident and (ahem) attractive woman like me find in a 22-year-old, who hasn't even done his degree course, much less finished his compulsory National Service?
I cannot give a scientific answer. All I can offer is my heartfelt and honest testimonial: I know he feels right for me at this moment.
For the only time in my life, I intend to throw caution to the wind and go with my heart. Whatever comes after, no-one but I will be responsible for it.
However it ends, it will only add interest to my life's experience bank. I can only grow stronger.
Perhaps if more Singaporean women would start thinking with their heart, and with their natural-born instinct to love and give without fear, our little nation may not be facing the 'headache' of procreation activities.
Okay, you may all start shooting now.
Source: NP
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im in luv with a older woman too.... she's just soo... attractive.... she's the only bright spark in office...
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That sounds more of being in lust a.k.a [/b]fetish with an older woman.Originally posted by butterflyray24:im in luv with a older woman too.... she's just soo... attractive.... she's the only bright spark in office... -
I just read the article a while back.
I daresay there's nothing wrong with the relationship, if they're both serious about each other. After all, even 'ma-di'(mother-brother) and 'jie-di'(sister-brother, loosely translated) affairs have bourne fruit.
Though i remember one 70 year old grandma marrying a 16 year old. Now THAT is the limit.~ -
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wat??
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Well I can only say I myself wouldn't mind an older girlfriend but the chances of this in Singapore is low. And like you said lady, having no degree in Sg for a life is almost equivalent to a condemm and death setence. Oh well what the hell. When I get rich I going to migrate from this hell hole with or without my familyOriginally posted by The Hobbit:I am dating a younger man, so shoot me
SEXLESS IN THE CITY
NO buts about it, I am guilty. At least in the eyes of most of my friends and family members.
For the first time since they have all been suspecting and accusing, I have admitted that, yes, I am in love, in love and proud of it, with a wonderful man.
And my sin?
He is seven years younger than I am.
Let me put things in perspective: I am 29, recently divorced, with a beautiful and precocious 5-year-old daughter.
And I have fallen in love with someone who hasn't even gone through his National Service.
As my best pal Joannie puts it, in between mouthfuls of her favourite Boon Tong Kee chicken rice: 'Aiyoh girl, you might as well be living in the middle ages and be accused of witchcraft.
'This is Singapore in 2004. D is such a sweetie but you will die a death worse than being burnt on the stake if you tell anyone!'
I have denied how I felt and thought about how society, my family and my loved ones would judge me.
I have read articles about Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher; I devoured articles about Tim Robbins and Susan Sarandon, Madonna and husband Guy Ritchie, Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake.
For heaven's sake, the females are all more than a decade older than their male counterparts.
Hello, my guy is definitely less than a decade younger than me.
I thought that in this age of modern social mores, dating a younger man was okay, all right and definitely acceptable. Man, I was so wrong!
From the moment I introduced D to my closest friends and to my parents, he might as well have been Exhibit No 326 in the museum of Freaks and Weird Creatures.
They were all cordial, nice, warm even. But my acute sixth sense, honed from years of spotting lame lies from 'sick' staff with MCs, told me otherwise.
I may have been married before to someone I knew and loved since college days. I have dated men my age, older than I am, and some even one or two years younger than me. I have never felt the level of freedom and comfort D gives me.
For the first time, I think I know what it truly feels like to be loved with no pressure, no expectations and no demands.
The most common question my pals ask is: 'What can you guys talk about? How can you both connect?'
My answer is always: 'I don't need to connect. I don't need to talk. I am happy being with him.'
Coming from a hardened, worldly, single mother who has learned life's painful lessons through personal experience, this statement and justification seems lame.
Well, this is really how I feel.
What can an educated, accomplished, confident and (ahem) attractive woman like me find in a 22-year-old, who hasn't even done his degree course, much less finished his compulsory National Service?
I cannot give a scientific answer. All I can offer is my heartfelt and honest testimonial: I know he feels right for me at this moment.
For the only time in my life, I intend to throw caution to the wind and go with my heart. Whatever comes after, no-one but I will be responsible for it.
However it ends, it will only add interest to my life's experience bank. I can only grow stronger.
Perhaps if more Singaporean women would start thinking with their heart, and with their natural-born instinct to love and give without fear, our little nation may not be facing the 'headache' of procreation activities.
Okay, you may all start shooting now.
Source: NP -
BANG!!!! U R DEAD
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There is nothing wrong in love with a woman older than u.
Like my wife,she is older than me.
As long as we are happy together,who cares? -
you're wrongOriginally posted by skynet272:There is nothing wrong in love with a woman older than u.
Like my wife,she is older than me.
As long as we are happy together,who cares? -
Originally posted by Tarvo:
i prefer older men, they are more in control, better when exercising, and are more emotionally stable. but i do wish they can sustain their hardness longer. i am very particular about men who goes soft.
That sounds more of being [b]in lust a.k.a [/b]fetish with an older woman.[/b] -
MILF! MILF!
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WTF?!
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hmm. don't really care man.
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wtfOriginally posted by jaimeyeo:i prefer older men, they are more in control, better when exercising, and are more emotionally stable. but i do wish they can sustain their hardness longer. i am very particular about men who goes soft. -
Shut out the others.
The problem is actually in your head.
People are entitle to their opinions, just as you are to yours.
You become a problem to them when you impose yours on them.
Those not happy with your beau. Let them be. They are not the one dating him.
They are not happy with your choice. You know how to retort.
Live it while you can.
Make the best of the moment.
It won't come again.
Know that he will grow up.
Be willing to move on to a new phase in your life accordingly.
With or without him.