What's your view on homosexualtiy in Singapore
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johannes, i rly agree with u! so wat if kids are gonna be gay/les?
does it mean parents should or will disown them or love them any lesser?
to those parents out der, always rmbr, no matter wat hpns, they r still ur children!
n wat johannes says is true, better to be gay/les than a drug addict or gambler who will one day have ur house mortgaged!
n to those out der who says gay/les do not have a future, wat mks u think/say so? wat diff from a hetero couple from buying a hse & staying together w dual income goin thru everyday life?
legal marriage is but a pc of paper for goodness' sake! it doesn't
mean if u're in a hetero relationship/marriage means husband can't & won't
cheat on wife & vice versa! it doesn't mean you will stay together forever either cos der's such a thing called D-I-V-O-R-C-E!
so let me ask u, wat's e legal paper for? to get 2 persons' CPF to share the burden of paying for a HDB flat? or fighting for legal assets wen fighting in court for divorce? -
So what's the future or a hetersexual couple when the husband bed other woman behind the wife's back and the wife had a wild affair with the neighbour next door? That's more sick I think.Originally posted by nitedrifter:what future does gays/les relationship have
sick...
I've known of les couples who had been together since they are in their 20s and now they are old woman in their 80s and still as loving. That kind of love is what I admire and respect. It's not about being homosexual or hetersexual but more like how much do you love your partner and how much are both willing to give each other and for how long. -
Honestly, I'm more of a bisexual myself and I never rule out the possibility of me being parent to my child. No matter how my child is, he/she will always be my child and the one and only I love and protect with my life. Who am I to tell him/her what is right and wrong when there's no definitions to that? All I can tell them is, don't break the law and being homosexual isn't breaking the law. It's the sex that breaks the law.Originally posted by Johannes:dude i totally agree with you so as long as they don't poke anything into our biz i think they are ok....
i hope i don't have a son or a daughter like that but if come one day they suay suay become gay i will still love them lah... i would only be sad for them and their suffering.... better to be gay then a drug addict or mass murderer or something evil.... -
i dun want any children. this world is soooo full of bigotry that it just seems cruel to bring in children into this sort of world.Originally posted by nitedrifter:if u think gays/les is alrite...would u someday wan ur sons,daughters to be like this
too much human rights
one fine day...they will tell u its ok for a human/animal relationship -
Sad but true.Originally posted by HENG@:i dun want any children. this world is soooo full of bigotry that it just seems cruel to bring in children into this sort of world.
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HOMOPHOBIA is...
...the irrational hatred, intolerance, and fear of lesbian, gay and bisexual people.
its like calling someone a "faggot", "butch". Its the belief that being gay, lesbian or bisexual is "just a phase", that same sex attraction is unnatural, sick abnormal.
Homophobia hurts EVERYONE. Like racism, sexism and other forms of prejudice, homophobia makes society a much more unsafe and restrictive place for people to live.
HETEROSEXISM is...
...the assumption that everyone is heterosexual and that being heterosexual is better, preferable or superior to being lesbian, gay or bisexual. It's the belief that heterosexual or mixed sex relationships are somehow better than same sex relationships.
It's the belief that only straight people should be allowed to marry or raise families. It's the idea that lesbian, gay and bisexual people are demanding "special status" when they ask for basic civil rights such as the right to safety at work, in the home or on the street. Heterosexism allows straight couples to walk down the street holding hands, whilst same sex couples are accused of "flaunting" their sexuality by doing the same thing.
TRANSPHOBIA is...
...the irrational hatred, intolerance, and fear of transgender and transsexual people.
It's the belief that transsexual women are not "real women" and that transsexual men are not "real men". It's the assumption that transgender people are sick or psychologically unstable. It's the belief that transsexual people are only acceptable if they "pass". It's the belief that transsexuals are gay people who cannot accept their sexual orientation and so undergo gender reassignment to hide their true nature.
Transphobia hurts EVERYONE. Sexism and gender stereotypoing are some of the root causes of homophobia, forcing everyone into strict gender roles.
I conclude by saying anyone who is into transphobia, heterosexism or homophobia, are no better than the white people when they were being racist in Africa, nor are they better than the KKK.