Originally posted by Natty:
Would you consider a lover relationship or a steady couple relationship? Reason?
I happen to know that alot of ppl are resorting to lover relationships to get away from the word 'committment". Care to share your views?
in the first place u dun call a couple a steady couple... no such things as bf or gf being called a stead..
lover or couple also are both known as relationship no matter wat.... even frens also got r/s mah... its known as friendships... alright..no crap.
lovers means theres not much commitments at all.... its means u are free to sleep ard wif others and go out wif anybody, the other party is in no position to care abt wat u do... but u both do behave like a normal couple when u go out and not only sex time, but other than tt if not together .. .both of u are like good frens..in the other words its like very good frens who haf sexual intercourse.
as a couple (girlfriend and boyfriend) there is a certain level of commitments and depending on how strong ur r/s is... if strong enuff to take tt both parties is free to go out wif anyone u want den its good.. but if not den better not and most of the time such couples have lesser frens than before being attached to each other. as long as the other party do not sleep ard or physically flirt wif another person, there is no harm but den some couples do mind. and being together theres a tendency to get married after sometime... they haf plans and goals..
so theres the brief difference between a couple and a pair of lovers....