how to get rid of the thought?
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I feel embarrassed when I see the bust of a colleague of mine. What should I do so that my eyeball will look straight ahead and not dart around and aim at her bust? Will more communication help? Must I buy something that resembles those so that I can control my eyeballs from darting around? Will buying steamed chinese buns for my family to eat help? Will eating steamed chinese buns help me get rid of the thought! I feel so embarrassed, cause she looks pretty.
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Maybe you are too sensitive to 'those matters'. Why don't you take up a hobby that interest you that can make you distract your attention.
Or you can focus on other parts of her body like her hair,eyes,ear,mouth,cheek other than her private parts! -
I think hor, how you feel and how you behave is human nature.
But after the first look, your self control should come in. This is something you need to learn and train to do.
Do not embarase your colleague by keeping on the stare at the bust. Do concentrate on her other assets, such as eyes, nose, mouth, etc.
Of course you can say some words of praise such as "your are dressed bery bery pretty today, or for that matter everyday".
Buying more buns for your family members will definitely help. Should extend this good habit to your friends also. Of course not forgetting the forum mates here.
Enjoy yourself. -
See your friends as blood and souls. As people of spirits for who they are. The body they're trapped in are just their bodies. Whenever they 'design' or beautify it, it's all in your HEART. Close your eyes, rest your mind, your soul. Think of yourself. One who you don't crave for. Think of others you don't crave for. Think of who you crave for. Think of the difference. Then REALISE. It makes no DIFFERENCE.
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You give the best advice.Originally posted by Devil1976:See your friends as blood and souls. As people of spirits for who they are. The body they're trapped in is just their bodies. Whenever they 'design' or beautify it, it's all in your HEART. Close your eyes, rest your mind, your soul. Think of yourself. One who you don't crave for. Think of others you don't crave for. Think of who you crave for. Think of the difference. Then REALISE. It makes no DIFFERENCE. -
Napster, this guy sounds like you.....
Anyway, why not u be like my fren napster, he enjoys doing wat u do.... n he just continue doing it. for all u noe, ur colleague is enjoying the attention u give her !!!! -
i think it does not just happen to u. Most guys have the same faults and gals to like to comment on guys butts. Well somethings will never change, humans have some urges and desiresOriginally posted by jliu:I feel embarrassed when I see the bust of a colleague of mine. What should I do so that my eyeball will look straight ahead and not dart around and aim at her bust? Will more communication help? Must I buy something that resembles those so that I can control my eyeballs from darting around? Will buying steamed chinese buns for my family to eat help? Will eating steamed chinese buns help me get rid of the thought! I feel so embarrassed, cause she looks pretty.
HELP
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Maybe its best to think of a girl as a ship and myself as a stranded person in the sea...rather than shout for help, I should swim towards it..Originally posted by maestro:i think it does not just happen to u. Most guys have the same faults and gals to like to comment on guys butts. Well somethings will never change, humans have some urges and desires -
Why bother to waste your energy to swim if you're already struggling to float in the sea? Moreover, a girl's not a ship. It's you who think of her as one.....Originally posted by jliu:Maybe its best to think of a girl as a ship and myself as a stranded person in the sea...rather than shout for help, I should swim towards it..
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Originally posted by Devil1976:
because if the ship wouldnt move, I've gotta swim to it.
Why bother to waste your energy to swim if you're already struggling to float in the sea? Moreover, a girl's not a ship. It's you who think of her as one..... -
One very effective way to get rid of yur lustful thoughts, it might be a little painful though....
Cascrate yurself! -
One very effective way to get rid of yur lustful thoughts, it might be a little painful though....
Cascrate yurself! -
eat bak pao??
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Busts of old ladies.. YUCKS!!!!Originally posted by Ruth|E:ehh.. i guess u look at her not becos of her big bust, but becos she is chio...
in other words, do u look at those kan si lang ugly auntie wif big boobs???
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I bet the sea is rough and the storm is terrible out there... Don't just swim towards it because you THINK it is a ship.... Please make sure that it is one before you realise that you're only wasting your energy for nothing.....?Originally posted by jliu:because if the ship wouldnt move, I've gotta swim to it.
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