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how you know if this specific person is meant for you???
for a start, you most likely won't find the answer to this question in the Bible
forget about all those that says........The Holy Spirit tells me this or that that this is the person, or God gives me a sign about this relationship... type of mumbo jumbo.... all by feeling only... most likely cannot pass testing one..
you will know when you meet her, and the confirmation will comes from her...
I started dating my wife back in 89, we got married in 96... till today, I am still courting her... is she the perfect one for me or I, the one for her???
to be honest, .... probably there is no such as perfect partner/couple, since both are not perfect to start with..................
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Originally posted by vince69:how you know if this specific person is meant for you???
for a start, you most likely won't find the answer to this question in the Bible
forget about all those that says........The Holy Spirit tells me this or that that this is the person, or God gives me a sign about this relationship... type of mumbo jumbo.... all by feeling only... most likely cannot pass testing one..
you will know when you meet her, and the confirmation will comes from her...
I started dating my wife back in 89, we got married in 96... till today, I am still courting her... is she the perfect one for me or I, the one for her???
to be honest, .... probably there is no such as perfect partner/couple, since both are not perfect to start with..................
thumbs up!
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If you cheat and she's with you she's the one....to be dumped
That's my darkside telling you
My goodside is telling you:
ask God for a sign. But you must already have a close/intimate relationship with God to do that....I've personally never asked god for a sign for a mate though i did ask for a sign for something else.....and was given literally 3 seconds after i asked....so God does answer your request..no matter how silly it might be.
a bit of advice if you ask for a sign be sure to ask for one which leave no room(as little as possibe/statistically very improbable) for coincidence so you can be sure.
If the sign is given believe it otherwise you're testing God. Don't ask for more signs. One is enough.
And oh yea after you asked for a sign DO NOT DOUBT whether God would answer it otherwise you are testing God and God will not allow Himself to be tested. Your attitude must be: Waiting for God to give you the sign whatever that you asked before. If you think you have waited long enough and no sign is given that is the sign that was given: NO. Don't play when asking for sign. Be dead serious about it. Ask or don't ask never try to ask.
Do not think that asking for a sign is a must. A lot of times God makes the first moves(God always have the initiative) i.e, sign given to you before you asked. Most of the time through dream or vision in a dream that eventually happens.
Perhaps you see the one in that dream.
Or you can rely on your intuition if you are a straight man.Edited by Miracles&Prophecies 07 Jan `08, 3:46PM
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:its a question i ask myself everyday. lol.
but what i heard from a sermon, is that blessed is the man who finds a good wife. or something like that.
we have to find, and not just sit around and wait. or something. wat do u guys think?what is a "good" wife?
is she good because she fits into what you define a woman to be?
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is she good because you are willing to accept whatever quirky idiosyncrisis she has?
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:its a question i ask myself everyday. lol.
but what i heard from a sermon, is that blessed is the man who finds a good wife. or something like that.
we have to find, and not just sit around and wait. or something. wat do u guys think?I am very blessed
Originally posted by Chin Eng:what is a "good" wife?
is she good because she fits into what you define a woman to be?
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is she good because you are willing to accept whatever quirky idiosyncrisis she has?my wife is a good wife, cause I love her
beauty and goodness are in the eyes of the beholder
Edited by vince69 13 Jan `08, 11:37PM
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Originally posted by Chin Eng:this is the standard answer. reality is - is there someone the fits into this definition (whatever it may be)?
you need to put it in your own words.hmm as long as she isn't naggy and she takes good care of the household. lovingly supports the husband and watch out for his and the family's welfare.
like my mum!
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:hmm as long as she isn't naggy and she takes good care of the household. lovingly supports the husband and watch out for his and the family's welfare.
like my mum!question:
these descriptions... whether she have these qualities or not, you probably will only find out after wedding day... (before that, no husband and definitely no need to watch out for his and the family's welfare)
so what happen if after wedding, find she don't have all these qualities or not up to expectation?????
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:hmm as long as she isn't naggy and she takes good care of the household. lovingly supports the husband and watch out for his and the family's welfare.
like my mum!Hey I like what u say. I really second that. But if she cannot get along well with my family then i think I don't see any future ahead of us. I hope this won't happen to me, I really dread this kind of situation the most. It must be very painful.
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