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haha okay, i will try them out on some unsuspecting members of the female species..hehehh.
the site obviously gives tips on how to carry yourself and what women want in men, what turns them off,amongst other useful tips.
well anyway, i'll post back here again when i manage to use the method successfully! check back here soon :)
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Here's a sample from the page about reading body language
Reading Body Language Correctly
When you DO catch a woman looking you over, verify her interest to eliminate the possibility that she just caught your gaze by mistake. How? If you catch her looking at you and she holds your glance, smile at her. If she turns her gaze away from you, don’t be dejected; wait if she sends any more looks your way. If she finds you appealing, she will definitely want to look at you again and when she does, smile at her again! She’ll either smile back or glance away with a blush of embarrassment. If she looks back at you for the third time, you know you’ve got her attention. Take note that this does not happen every day but the more you circulate and the more women you meet, very likely you will find one that is interested in you. It takes practice, man!
Once you have met a woman in this manner you need to make the next move. By then she would know that you’ve successfully picked up on her nonverbal language and she’ll expect you to come her way. Don’t go rushing in and always take your time but don’t take too long otherwise she might think you did not catch her signal. Prolonging your approach gives you the benefit of making her anticipate meeting you. The more chances you give a woman to look forward to something, the happier she will be.
Never approach a woman directly and don’t introduce yourself right away rather it is best to make a comment about something in your environment. If she responds in a friendly manner, immediately engage her in a friendly banter.
Most common body language women send and their meanings:
All Systems Go! These nonverbal and verbal signals can take on the form of a wink, subtly turning her body in your direction, displaying her body to best advantage, leaving her group of friends to go to the powder room, holding your gaze for 2 seconds or more, accidentally touching you or letting you touch her (accidentally, of course!), playing with her hair, stroking her wineglass, smiling at you or talking animatedly with her friends within your hearing. If, after you approach her and engage in a friendly banter, she allows you to lead her away from her friends to a quieter spot or if she sits next to you with her body turned towards yours, it means all systems go!
Proceed with Caution. These are tentative nonverbal and cues which include nervous laughter, body turned to the side and not talking much. It’s up to you to stoke the fire and make it a flame.
Stop! These signals are silence, frowning, avoiding eye contact, turning her body away from you, back off, constantly checking out the room around you, persistent interruption of your conversation to talk to someone else, crossed arms and sitting with a straight back with her legs tightly crossed.
If you will be very observant and pay attention to a woman’s body language, you can tell outright if she’s interested in you.
Common signs of how a woman shows interest in a man:
· If she smiles at you frequently and at times reveals her teeth in a relaxed manner when she smiles.
· Looks you in the eyes with interest.
· Occasional biting of her lips and reveals her tongue to lick her lips or touch her front teeth.
· A slow and deliberate caress of her glass while having a conversation with you.
· Frequent adjustment of posture to project herself in the best way possible.
Crossing of her legs with the crossed leg pointed towards you or rocks back and forth at your direction.
Raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours, mimics your actions and gestures.
Blowing smoke from between her lips towards your direction, winking at you while talking to you or from a distance.
Use these basic guidelines on women’s body language to make it easier for you to approach women. With constant practice you would soon become a master of the art and remember to always send out feelers first before approaching a girl.
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How To Tell if a Woman is Interested in You!
Reading Body Language is Essential In Sealing The Deal!
All you've read, learned and worked so hard at would be useless if you can not tell who and when the members of the opposite sex are checking you out in a crowded area.
Firstly, you have to know if a woman or women are eyeballing you. One very important thing to know is that women communicate differently than men! Women send signals to men all the time but they get frustrated because we are so slow we can't get the hint!
It is because women communicate with their body - a flip of the head, their legs, their hands, even the way they sit! However because they are communicating to us through nonverbal language in a perfectly clear manner, it's very difficult for us to know what they're saying because we do not know what they mean!
Men should have the eyes of an eagle to be able to decipher the very subtle signals that women use when sending out nonverbal signals to men!
You need to learn how to spot it when a girl's interested in you. You need to learn to read her signals so that you don't lose out on opportunities that are staring you in the face.
Open your eyes so that you'll see girls who are looking at you. Doing so gives you numerous advantages: you'll see how many hot women are out there; you'll be able to check your surroundings at a glance and a lingering gaze into a woman's eyes will not seem out of place - in fact you put yourself in a better position to intercept their glances as they check you out!
Wherever you may be, make it a habit to keep your eyes open!
Dating Dynamics and the Female PsycheEdited by kiltdscot 01 Apr `08, 11:07AM
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