http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 en-US 60 <p>If a particular person kept pissing u off, tell urself that it's not worth getting angry over such a person.</p> <p>And also tell urself that by keeping your cool, it shows that ur EQ is higher than the fellow who keeps scolding and shouting at u like a nutcase.</p> Wed, 14 May 2008 17:00:20 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8086107 Miss Tiny http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by rlsh07:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i'm sure all of you have been hurt by people's words or have hurt people with words when you lose your temper. how do you move on from there? how do you learn how to keep your cool?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>i would love to hear your views regarding this</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>hmm.. i stay away. but as you can see from my encounters with 25 year old idiots. this tactic totally relies on your resolution not to come in contact with ppl who pisses you off</p> Wed, 14 May 2008 16:47:07 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8086070 dumbdumb! http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>Try staying in an air con room or move to the poles...</p> Wed, 14 May 2008 16:29:26 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8086019 EarlNeo http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>RHK him/her?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Wed, 14 May 2008 16:24:33 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8086005 rey619 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>just walk away,</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>OR</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>see what wrong i did and apologize?</p> Wed, 14 May 2008 16:16:00 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8085981 monkeynut http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by ghast.:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>walk away and swear damn loudly</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>i dun swear and it's not gd to swear though.</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 22:06:45 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8076520 rlsh07 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>walk away and swear damn loudly</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 00:08:39 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8074683 ghast. http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>i always tell myself to rem to breathe</p> Tue, 29 Apr 2008 21:57:04 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8048555 alfagal http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>This problem bothers me alot. But recently i have thought of a way to deal with such circumstances.</p> <p>Sometimes, i do look and reflect on my own personal actions and words, that i might unintentionally do that hurt people.</p> <p>At times, when i felt when i'm pissed off and my actions are justified i don't really think twice about it. But there is a certain sense of loneliness whenever you do that, you really isolate yourself from the person whom you quarrelled/disagreed/fall-out with.</p> <p>I'm just sharing what i think, you may consider what i have written, to offer from my experiences and wisdom,&nbsp; i feel sometimes when you have been pissed off by someone who intentionally/unintentionally makes you angry, its because that they want some sort of consolation for the hurt they recieve OR that they feel really insecure that they have to lash out towards someone.</p> <p>It's hard, and for everyone else it can be a torture. It is for the best to come to accept and understand instead of having to retaliate. Though it is not always easy, it is for the best.</p> Tue, 29 Apr 2008 21:55:10 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8048543 Puutan http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by rlsh07:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p><br /> very profound words indeed, i wonder who can live up to it</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> act profound</p> Mon, 28 Apr 2008 15:52:18 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8044918 TehJarVu http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>对己lah对自zzz</p> Mon, 28 Apr 2008 15:51:29 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8044916 TehJarVu http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>walk away or ignore.</p> Mon, 28 Apr 2008 15:47:47 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8044911 escadaraindrops http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>i dont listen to them in the first place.</p> Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:39:11 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8043128 ChingAlvin http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>Tell yourself "Relax, let go, let go". If we come&nbsp;to understand where they are coming from, they are probably not having a good day and most of the time&nbsp;does not mean what they have said.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:35:11 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8043113 ^C ^ http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>Means show kindness to anyone and bring them to reflect on themself</p> Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:03:07 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8043029 SquarePants http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by SquarePants:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>U must learn to practice the&nbsp;ultimate arts of 以德服人 。</p> <p>Next time he scold u jia liat jia liat , just buy a box of chocolate and state a note that it is from u</p> <p>:)</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>huh? wat do you mean?</p> Sun, 27 Apr 2008 17:30:25 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8042945 rlsh07 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>U must learn to practice the&nbsp;ultimate arts of 以德服人 。</p> <p>Next time he scold u jia liat jia liat , just buy a box of chocolate and state a note that it is from u</p> <p>:)</p> Sun, 27 Apr 2008 17:29:36 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8042944 SquarePants http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>i guess so ba. oh well....</p> Sat, 26 Apr 2008 22:17:37 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8041208 rlsh07 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>calm yourself down by not saying and doing anything for 10 secs.</p> <p>take deep breaths at the same time.</p> <p>after that u will control your temper a bit.</p> <p>mayb will still b in ager lah, but at least the effect not tht serious.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Sat, 26 Apr 2008 13:26:03 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8040297 winnie^_^ http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>keep quiet, and think lor</p> Sat, 26 Apr 2008 04:00:42 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8039906 gigabyte14 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by seotiblizzard:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Fight fire with fire. The stronger fire wins. Hahaha. <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_twisted.gif" alt= "icon_twisted.gif" /></p> <p>Seriously, i wont bother much.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>fire fighting with fire is just stupid...</p> <p>but if there is an fire vs fire fight, the clever fire will tackle not using fire, but using water... ^^</p> Fri, 25 Apr 2008 20:27:19 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8038920 popikachu http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by MyPillowTalks:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>对人宽容，对自而严</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> very profound words indeed, i wonder who can live up to it</p> Fri, 25 Apr 2008 19:30:32 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8038839 rlsh07 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>对人宽容，对自而严</p> Fri, 25 Apr 2008 19:12:15 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8038815 MyPillowTalks http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by rlsh07:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i'm sure all of you have been hurt by people's words or have hurt people with words when you lose your temper. how do you move on from there? how do you learn how to keep your cool?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>i would love to hear your views regarding this</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> if I m hurt by people's words, then tat person must be some1 that I care lor... or else, I will usually ignore them...</p> <p>if I hurt people with my words, means that I care for that person lor... or else, I wont even be bothered.</p> <p>Case by case basic lah... But for first, I will always believe that words from people that u care or people that care are words true&nbsp;from their heart. I wont treat it lightly if words are true from their heart.</p> <p>How do I keep cool ??? nah... I m not a cool person... I m like a leashed wild animal in agony... I need tranquilizer (touching words) to calm myself down...</p> <p>:lol: :lol: :lol:</p> Fri, 25 Apr 2008 11:53:16 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8038022 ispyyy http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392 <p>Fight fire with fire. The stronger fire wins. Hahaha. <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_twisted.gif" alt= "icon_twisted.gif" /></p> <p>Seriously, i wont bother much.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Fri, 25 Apr 2008 03:09:13 +0800 www.sgforums.com:2788:315392:8037751 seotiblizzard http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/315392