Toy Soldier (Breaking People Heart)
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There is this pharse which is best to describe a couple feeeling when they meet each other till the day the break apart.
Because they donn understand each other they get close to one another.And Because they know each other too well deeply is the reason they break apart.
Who can share with mi their stories...
or views by this statment.
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i know of couples who break off becos, they claim, there was no more sparks, as they knew each other too well.
i dont think dat is the real reason. if u know that person very well, isnt it easier to be together? cos u understand each other's likes and dislikes, character, how to cheer each other up, how to complement one another, to solve conflicts better..
isnt the courting stage all abt knowing each other more?...so when it comes to the stage when u know each othere very well...it is whether u r willing to accept the person the way he/she is dat is the deciding factor whether the relationship will continue or break.
Most people do not show their 'true' colours at the beginning of the relationship, so when they know each other well, faults and weaknesses start to appear.
So, whether or not knowing each other very well is the cause of break up, is dependant on the fact on the level of acceptance of each other, good AND bad points. -
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Where relationships are concerned..it has to deal alot with maturity and the state of where u actually are...Let us say that u are at a stage of vulnerability and u need the emotional support, the person who comes along whom is u good fren might be the one who is there for u where u are at ur worst but yet the person is able to let u feel loved and cared for..though he might not be the perfect person u are looking for...but that is the emotional stability u can attend to.. when couple break up eventually due to some external reasons or excuse..there is no use lamenting the fact that both of u are not a couple anymore..so there is no use saying who is in the right or in the wrong...There are simply too many reasons of break ups but the question is can u handle the truth of the cause of the break up?
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Very simple:
- see person, like person (physical attraction)
- after a while, physical attraction wears off, and character attraction becomes more important.
- find out character doesn't match, split up loh -
Very simple but a bit too simple liaoz!
Dun u all agree?
Humans are much more complex than that!
There r a lot of factors involved.
Originally posted by BluErf:Very simple:
- see person, like person (physical attraction)
- after a while, physical attraction wears off, and character attraction becomes more important.
- find out character doesn't match, split up loh -
knowing each other well is good...provided u know how to use it to both's advantages..
juz refrain from stepping over the line..tt is...usin that to "control" the other party...
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hai.. i ask a qn.. wat if u knew y u used to like the person.. but dunnoe y everytime that person talks to you or everytime u see that person.. u loathe him / her. Wat does it mean?