Would You Kill Yourself Over A Failed Love Affair?
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read an article in yesterday's Lianhe Wanbao, about a pretty girl who killed herself over a failed relationship because she just can't let go.
she was the mistress of some married rich guy in his 40s or 50s [she knew he's married when they were together] while she's only 30 this year, she was ditched 2 years back and had to be on medication since. she was beautiful and had no lack of suitors and yet she loved only him, is love really that blind?
pure speculation here, i've no idea why she decided to die, perhaps she made a final attempt to get him back and was rebuffed and couldn't take the blow or did she think that committing suicide, he'll feel contrite and guilty and realised what he has lost and pine for you? er, wake up, it's been 2 years, he has moved on [probably to other young gullible gals] ... so should she actually.
but the fact is he ditched her 2 years back, would her death affect him? probably. but will he be guilty all his life? not likely.
to die in this manner in the name of love, i think it's extremely not worth it and if i may say so, extremely stupid.
perhaps i've never loved as she has and i don't understand but i hope that should i be ditched in future, i've the strength and character to learn to let go and get on with life for there are many other possibles out there. perhaps i may not love the new him as much but then again, i may be surprised, i may love the new him much more than the one i thought i love most.
life is unpredictable, why cut it short when your turn is not up yet? -
Hee. *grin*
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I've got no shame.
I'm this cheap.
Throw me a one-cent coin to buy my pride and I'll still owe you change. -
the problem is love doesn't lasts, okay, i admit it, i'm cynical about love.
if love is love and lasts, then there won't be so many breakups and affairs going on. how many truly find true love? given enough time, most love palls, familiarity sets in and contempt creeps in. maintaining a love relationship is such a tough thing to do and to just give it all up simply because the other don't love you in return, that's so ... i don't know the word for it. and there's a BIG possibility that someone else may come along to fill that void sometime in the future.
like everyone else, i hope to find someone to love truly and who loves me back but should i love him and he doesn't love me, why should i kill myself? i'm loved by others and it's no one's loss but mine and those who care for me should i decide to end it all. -
another question, had she not brood on him and her feelings but instead learnt to let go, wouldn't she have suffered less and perhaps even find new love?
why focus on the pain? -
(Jia Liao B)----Waste the Rice..
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nah, i think it's just stupid...Originally posted by Ruth|E:Dear MS colette,
This is either STUPID or BRAVERY!!!
Being brave means the girl will live on and start again, which she definitely never did. So, anyone who wants to commit suicide becoz of a failed relationship, dont. You will be labelled a coward, and a stupid one at that.
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-=^Wynternight^=-
None as blind or deaf as those who refuses to see or listen. -
It's the most stoopid thing in the world to commit suicide over someone who doesn't love you.Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and commiting suicide for love ranks as the most stoopid thing to do in this world next to bungie jumping with a rubber band tied to your leg,ahaha
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Theory Of Relativity
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