Re: Is sitting in a bus with ur bf's arm around ur waist ind
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Today, I went on 171 after school to go to Orchard Road with my bf. We sat down and as usual, my bf just put his arm around my waist, and was talking softly near my ear.
( No, we don't wear school uniforms, he was dressed decently in a polo shirt and pants, whilst I wore a highnecked white tee with jeans)
I noticed a woman in abt her mid twenties or so glaring at me, had no idea why, so peacably decided not to stare back and cause a confrontation.
Suddenly she got off her seat, walked over and started yelling at me ( I say me, cos she directed all her words at me, and not at my bf)
She said:'This is a public transport and there are children! If you want to do this, do it at home!', all the while glaring fiercely at me. In order to prevent himself from making a scene and scolding that woman all the unflattering things that he wanted to say, as not to ruin our day totally, he simply got up and dragged me towards the exit of the bus. I was in shock, and was quite reluctant to get off as I wanted to clarify what was so scandalous abt his putting his arm around me.
I'm still quite mad at her, cos I don't understand what caused her to fly off the handle like that. I wanted to give her a piece of my mind, but I guess its not worth my effort.
What do u guys think? Were we in the wrong? I just feel that she shouldn't have gotten away with this, since she threw a tantrum and we just let her get away with it. She was still yelling stuff at us after we left the bus... The rest of the passengers were giving her weird looks though...Don't know what to think now... -
You've got to be kind to the mentally retarded, arianna
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Doesnt matter -
mabbe the anut is still in the traditional type of mind...cannot touch here, hands OFF, NO kISSING! like my mom...*shivers...looks around..*
Lucky she's not here... *OUCH!! MOM..MM*
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That auntie is behind the times,eheeh
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Theory Of Relativity
Eating a lot of good food will make 1 hour seem like 5 minutes while eating lotsa horrigible cooked veggies will make 5 minutes seem like 1 hour
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The aunty lacks a bit of...*A-hem* in her life!! One of those "Lau(3) Cu(4) Nu(3)" or in English "old virgins"
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Lao goh is lao goh lah,wahahaha
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Theory Of Relativity
Eating a lot of good food will make 1 hour seem like 5 minutes while eating lotsa horrigible cooked veggies will make 5 minutes seem like 1 hour~~~
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Live and let live. BTW, pardon me for asking but how old were u and ur bf??? The only reason why your actions caused such a serious reaction from the aunty may be because u guys were/looked too young.
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Maybe that age 20+ lady is a victim of sexual abuse. That's why she cannot tahan when she seen a male anyhow touches a female?
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Well, I'm 20 and he's 22, and we do not look underaged (lol)
The funny thing was that she wasn't that old...about 25... and she had a ?fake? angmoh accent...
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Ariana, are you a student of NP?
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So she's a angmoh wannabe lao goh?ahahaahOriginally posted by aRiaNa:Well, I'm 20 and he's 22, and we do not look underaged (lol)
The funny thing was that she wasn't that old...about 25... and she had a ?fake? angmoh accent...
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Theory Of Relativity
Eating a lot of good food will make 1 hour seem like 5 minutes while eating lotsa horrigible cooked veggies will make 5 minutes seem like 1 hour~~~
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There was once I was with my gf on a bus also... we were standing up at where a public phone is usually installed on the lower deck of the bus. She was facing me and back-facing the seats. I was holding on to the railings and she was holding on to me lar. Then suddenly one Indian lady sitting down said in my direction, " You all got no house to make love is it? Public places behave like that. " Then those pple sitting down started to look at me. And throughout this ordeal, my gf din realise what was happening... neither did she hear what the Indian lady said. I din wanna tell her to spoil the day, so I pretended nothing happened.
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haha badboy, so we're in the same boat. ah well...luckily ur gf didn't hear man!
I'm not sure if we were right in just leaving the bus, maybe it looked guilty or something... dunno. But I bet that woman got funny stares thru out her bus trip
erm, nope I'm not from NP, I'm in uni
AnGmOh SpeakING Lao Goh ? *rofl* Thats a good one that I didn't think of
thankz guys... was feeling quite upset about this whole thinggy. But I feel much better thanks to u all -
You from SMU? Bukit Timah campus...
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She a angmoh wannabe, mentally retarded, eyes-stare-very-big lao goh.
Ariana:
Either you are SMU Clementi Campus (or SIM?) student or NUS student taking bus 151 to transfer onto bus 171.
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Personally I don't think it's wrong, neither the 'whispering in ear' part, if I got it right. Perhaps she was pissed off with that whispering intimacy or something..
It's also quite possible that she wanted to try for an entry in the Strait Times or some local tabliod for her 'moral values'.
However I almost overlooked something.. That is I commend your boyfriend for keeping his calm, swallowing his ego and proceeding to make a quiet exit even when his pride was being challenged publicly. Good job bf!!!
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aRiaNa, maybe you look too young... That's why she stares at you... For me is alrite, juz cross my arms to her waist and let her rest on my shoulder after a tiring day...
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Personally i don't think there is anything wrong with that. Me and my bf does this too, just that he normally put his hands over my shoulder. Maybe she just came down from the mountains...hahahaha
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i don't think sitting in a bus with your bf's arm around waist is any indecent behaviour. I myself also do that to my gf whether in train or bus but haven't had any bad encounter like yours.
Maybe there are some other issue that irritate that woman like misunderstanding of the woman that your bf was kissing you when he was just whispering to you near your ear. -
Huh... that 20++woman must be mad... ancient... outdated...maybe she isn't that innocent as she seemed???
Well, what's the big deal? My bf always hug me around the waist if we're sitting down in bus/train... unless there's kids around,then I'll be a little self-concious and not get too intimate...
Really, I dun find anything wrong with 20++ years old couples behaving intimately... But it will be different if the case is with 15++ kids in uniform... -
if is me..
i will most prob engage in a deep hot wet kissing session wif my bf..
then stare back and her and say,"at least i got bf to do this...u have onot? dun haf then diam diam"
shd haf kick her in the arse wif a tight slap as interest...
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FireIce so violent... but anyway for my case it was an Indian... din wanna go near her... scared of the smell.....
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oredi bery ke qi liao ok..Originally posted by badboy:FireIce so violent... but anyway for my case it was an Indian... din wanna go near her... scared of the smell.....
=PPP
if i relli bad mood or pissed i will call all my jie-mei down and give her a good whacking..
and most prob will use needle and thread to sew her BIG MOUTH up...
hiaK~
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~~EviL AngeL~~
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more affectionately known as...
tHe eXtrA-oRdiNaRy eCCenTriC PaRanOid BiTch wiF thE PaiZaBor aTTiTudE
(that happens to love prata...and Quickly PearlTofu) -
i see nothing wrong with that...but ariana, if i remembered how u looked like, i think u look like a kid (no offence), maybe that's why the auntie are not happy...
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I'm frm NP...so i often took 171 or 174 to orchard....but my bf seldom put his arms ard me...he just hold my hands or sumtimes just hold me by my arms. Ariana....just ignore her lah, she's a bit retarded & siao liao....nothing to do got free show also wan to complain....let her be...maybe she just got ditched by her ex....or even worse got her ex doing other things wif anor woman.
As for that indian i think in her position she tot u 2 might be "f....." or doing hahahahha....but i believe who would do that in ublic....treat her like siao za bo....sum pple are very kaypo....dun care....