sleep with ur best frenz???
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U haf sex with ur best frenz, and it's agreed no-string attached.. but still, after a few times of sex, u fell in love with him. and only to realised tt he's newly attached, and only treat u as normal frenz..
hw would one normal person handle this scenario?im so curious.. is it really so easy for gal to develop feeling for guys after a few sex-making session? -
People who are experienced in the field will tell you the same advice: "Just enjoy the sex and get out of there". Don't look for any further complications.
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I strongly feel he's juz a Ba$tard... Looking 4 free S#X
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Originally posted by gentlerock:People who are experienced in the field will tell you the same advice: "Just enjoy the sex and get out of there". Don't look for any further complications.
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It's complicated to explain.Originally posted by [S]tay:U haf sex with ur best frenz, and it's agreed no-string attached.. but still, after a few times of sex, u fell in love with him. and only to realised tt he's newly attached, and only treat u as normal frenz..
hw would one normal person handle this scenario?im so curious.. is it really so easy for gal to develop feeling for guys after a few sex-making session?
But to put it simply. YES, it is easier to develop feelings for another person regardless of which Gender. -
well i think in such "game" lady is always at the losing end...
we always like to self deny..thinking that in this era hving sex doesnt mean girl will lose out...man can wan nu ren, so y cant woman wan nan ren...
man need to satisfy his desire,woman also nid mah..
but in the end.. woman is such emotional earthlings that build up strings so easily...
n when the so call good friend really buy the ideal of no string attached start to see other girls ,the woman is so buay tahan but cant do anything cos the ego is there...
haiz.. sometime ppl fall by triping his ownself -
Wah, you not bad leh....first post only know how to get around the profanity filter hor?Originally posted by Sagitt:I strongly feel he's juz a Ba$tard... Looking 4 free S#X
Anyway, the original poster did mention that the sex was mutually agreed upon by both parties (they're human after all). There was no indication that any one side had the upper hand leh. -
Look at it this way...the longer you stay, the more complicate and harder it becomes (which means the more hurt you will feel).Originally posted by [S]tay: -
who dun understand, but it's hard... i'm just a stupid gal who hope miracle will happen.. but perhaps, it's time to let go...Originally posted by gentlerock:Look at it this way...the longer you stay, the more complicate and harder it becomes (which means the more hurt you will feel).
one advice for all gals: never play with fire if u don't know hw to handle e consequences... hais -
Well, the problem is that very often, we don't even know its fire we're playing with till we get burnt (it always starts because we think we can handle it).Originally posted by [S]tay:who dun understand, but it's hard... i'm just a stupid gal who hope miracle will happen.. but perhaps, it's time to let go...
one advice for all gals: never play with fire if u know u don't know hw to handle e consequences... hais
But take it easy lah....you'll get over it. Maybe distract yourself like mixing around with your friends lor...helps to keep your mind off the problem. -
my 2 cents worth.. the cause of aroused emotions out of lust have nothing to do with gender.. sex was ordained and created for two to become one in every way so it's natural to form emotional bonds through sex..
on the other hand, although some claimed and acted as if sex was nothing to them but conscience often has the last say..
curiously, in some cases, the more badly hurt / more sensitive conscience convinces oneself that emotions are involved so sex becomes justified; in the other case, another relationship usually becomes the sacrifice etc.
hence in the above scenario , the gal involved may not be really feeling for the guy. for this, she must search her heart and be honest and clear on what love is to her.
In whichever case, it's far wiser for the gal to stop and not indulge in her emotions or lust. It's a choice and she must be persuaded that there's freedom to break free from these damning circumstances.
at the end of the day, casual sex can hurt in every aspect of a person's life in the long or short term. most often, self-respect is totally taken away in casual sex and the consequences are beyong what a soul can bear. not to mention the physical and moral aspects of the issue involved.
All the best. -
1stly, who initiated the s#x and the "terms and conditions"?
2ndly, if he's the one who initated it, think abt it this way, when he's having s#x with u, and not long after, he's newly attached.. will he do the same thing to this gal?
I understand u r "burnt", and i understand most gals dont get it over easily. Just try...
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sleep liao still normal frenz meh?
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Haiz poor girl. I think it's not your 1st time ler, you did it so many times..
Some guys will get sensitive when it comes to issues like this. -
terms and conditions apply already ma. u can just give them ur blessing and stop having sex with him or give him a slap and still don sleep with him.
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you say already wat...
no strings attached... so of course the guy is in only for the sex...
since he got gf liao... better leave him...
dun be the 3rd party... -
u set the trap for urself... wat to do...Originally posted by [S]tay:U haf sex with ur best frenz, and it's agreed no-string attached.. but still, after a few times of sex, u fell in love with him. and only to realised tt he's newly attached, and only treat u as normal frenz..
hw would one normal person handle this scenario?im so curious.. is it really so easy for gal to develop feeling for guys after a few sex-making session? -
U are just a sex buddy to him. In short, u are being connedOriginally posted by [S]tay:U haf sex with ur best frenz, and it's agreed no-string attached.. but still, after a few times of sex, u fell in love with him. and only to realised tt he's newly attached, and only treat u as normal frenz..
hw would one normal person handle this scenario?im so curious.. is it really so easy for gal to develop feeling for guys after a few sex-making session?
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dunno who con who???Originally posted by SnowFlag:U are just a sex buddy to him. In short, u are being conned
jus a little retribution for being self deniel... -
Aiyah, give chance a bit lah...people so depressed already don't add salt to wound lor.
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bo bian leh...bo tia buay wake up...Originally posted by gentlerock:Aiyah, give chance a bit lah...people so depressed already don't add salt to wound lor. -
i think u need a new best fren right?? pm mi ok?
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Hmmm.... what is done is done..... right or wrong doesnt matter much anymore isnt it, at least u r much wiser now.
Besides, if u really love him, perhaps the intimacy may remain as a
nice memory....
But as of right now.... move on and close the chapter....
All best and cheers. -
personal opinion:
I had not known that many women who can detach themselves totally and see the other person as a sex object: ie as men can see prostitude and a sexualy transaction is just like buying a cup of coffee.
Women, most of them, will even attach an emotion/feeling on the process and the cup of coffee she purchases. Everything can become emotional.
BTW, in my opinion, sex is one of the worse way to get a guy and lose your self respect. -
My personal stand:
i do not feel cheated at all cos it's already agreed no-string attached.
we get what we both want, it's just tt i happen to put in a bit more - emotion
and well, i'm NOT using sex as a way to get the guy, it's the dumbiest thing to do in this modern society...
after realisin tt i might actually fall for him,i stop having sex with him...
i'm just confused.. whether it is really feelin involved, or just my conscious trying to convince me tt there is emotion involve when i bedded him..