I have seen many couples who stay married even after 7 years. In fact, my parents have been married for nearly 23 years now...Originally posted by Exhibitionist:Sometimes I wonder, what's the point of getting married?? 'Coz most marriages start to flail after 7 years or thereabouts anyway. Let's face it, there's no such thing as true love that will last a lifetime....right...?
Can someone EVER find love that will last? Coz there's absolutely no such thing.
And I've always thought that for gals, marrying your best guy friend is the best way to go.
Hmm...any thoughts...?
same 1 for 60 years see whether you sian anot...Originally posted by usck:marry is gd. so that i can cut down on porn..
can exercise with ur love one at night/day.![]()
I agree.. a marriage is indeed a union between a man and a woman before God.Originally posted by icyprincess:I have seen many couples who stay married even after 7 years. In fact, my parents have been married for nearly 20 years now...
I think what matters most is to have faith in the marriage. If you bring your insecurity in and think that it will fail, it will. It is the self-fulfilling prophecy at work. So if you believe that the love will stay strong, you will strive to make it stay that way. So marriage nowadays fail not because true love doesn't exist, it is just that the couple goes into it too fast and then after the marriage, lack the passion and efforts to keep the flames burning.
I strongly do believe that true love does exist. And I do not think I am naive in thinking this way. Because only when you believe, you will find what you are looking for. If you don't, even if it hits you in the eyes, you will still miss it.
I will marry my best guy friend, yes, because that's what my sweetheart will be![]()
i.c.y
I find you to be very shallow.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:same 1 for 60 years see whether you sian anot...
tats why its necessary to find a gd looking life partner..
if not u see ugly face for life..![]()
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Hey Icy....you are pretty idealistic....Originally posted by icyprincess:I have seen many couples who stay married even after 7 years. In fact, my parents have been married for nearly 23 years now...
I think what matters most is to have faith in the marriage. If you bring your insecurity in and think that it will fail, it will. It is the self-fulfilling prophecy at work. So if you believe that the love will stay strong, you will strive to make it stay that way. So marriage nowadays fail not because true love doesn't exist, it is just that the couple goes into it too fast and then after the marriage, lack the passion and efforts to keep the flames burning.
I strongly do believe that true love does exist. And I do not think I am naive in thinking this way. Because only when you believe, you will find what you are looking for. If you don't, even if it hits you in the eyes, you will still miss it.
I will marry my best guy friend, yes, because that's what my sweetheart will be![]()
i.c.y
i agree with you!Originally posted by usck:marry is gd. so that i can cut down on porn..
can exercise with ur love one at night/day.![]()
Being pessimistic like this will bring you nowhere near the true love you are seeking to find. I have been pessismistic like this before, and it didn't do me any good. Sure there are some guys who are out to toy with your feelings, but I also believe that there are some good ones out there. Don't generalize just because some of them are.Originally posted by Exhibitionist:Hey Icy....you are pretty idealistic....
It's quite impossible to remain in love after,say,10 years. Your marriage may last but that doesn't mean your love is still there. You might be together for the sake of kids or coz it's convenient to remain married or whatever.
And let's face it, men are naturally promiscuous- you may still be in love with him after 20 years but he may be screwing ard with other women for all you knowSighhhhhhhhhhh......the problem is, it's hard to find a man who will stick to you for life.
Sad but true. Right guys......?
Me n my wife cohabited for 4 yrs before getting married. Think u got a funny reasoning.Originally posted by shade343:The point of getting married is to cohabitate.
To remain in love for more than 10 yrs impossible? Dun tell me u dun love ur mother anymore? I'm sure u're more than 10 yrs old rite? Dun tell me u're gonna go running to other women n call them mother? Sorry if I offended u, not trying to say anything about anybody's mother. Just using mothers as eg cos they're the closest woman to most men's heart.Originally posted by Exhibitionist:Hey Icy....you are pretty idealistic....
It's quite impossible to remain in love after,say,10 years. Your marriage may last but that doesn't mean your love is still there. You might be together for the sake of kids or coz it's convenient to remain married or whatever.
And let's face it, men are naturally promiscuous- you may still be in love with him after 20 years but he may be screwing ard with other women for all you knowSighhhhhhhhhhh......the problem is, it's hard to find a man who will stick to you for life.
Sad but true. Right guys......?
coz we humans hv no perm storage sys neither do we hv an energy generating sys n therefore we need constant supply of foodOriginally posted by 798:This remind me that:
what's the point to eat when all of us will become hungry again?
you and your life science again.Originally posted by hopy:coz we humans hv no perm storage sys neither do we hv an energy generating sys n therefore we need constant supply of food