advise on girl problem.
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i got to know a girl about two weeks ago and recently she has been msging me and approaching me a lot. My classmates and friends kept teasing me about her but I have no interest for her at all coz I already liked someone else. How should I ask her not to be so close to me politely? I dont wish to offend her but at the same time want to tell her Im not interested in her.
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errr, dun reply her msg or wad lor. or ask her who she likes,then if she saes its u,u juz dun reply. and oso can ask ur fren who noes her to tell her lorOriginally posted by rouko:i got to know a girl about two weeks ago and recently she has been msging me and approaching me a lot. My classmates and friends kept teasing me about her but I have no interest for her at all coz I already liked someone else. How should I ask her not to be so close to me politely? I dont wish to offend her but at the same time want to tell her Im not interested in her. -
u can say that she can find someone better n she will remain ur best fren
or u can leave her to me..ha -
diaoz..... juz be fren can le lah.Originally posted by ha8n:u can say that she can find someone better n she will remain ur best fren
or u can leave her to me..ha -
Later u 'biao cuo qing'...
Does the one you like know you like her? If so, try to make this new fren of yours ask you who you like then say its her lo...
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does she look like a dinosaur?
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Take your pick:
"I think of you as a sister."
"There's a slight difference in our ages."
"I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way."
"My life is too complicated right now."
"I've got a girlfriend."
"I don't date girls from the same school."
"It's not you, it's me."
"I'm concentrating on my studies."
"I'm celibate."
...and the best and most common excuse given by guys:
"Let's be friends." -
go 933 dedicate jacky chueng's "let me go" to her.
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Maybe just treat her as a friend... & as a friend.. let her know about he girl you're interested in... hmm faking some questions to ask her.. e.g "I'm interested in this gal from ...... her bday is coming soon.. don't know what girls like as presents... blahblah " ask her for some ideas.. indirectly letting her know that u've someone in mind liao... after that it all depends on how she's gonna react... what she's gonna do.. if you're lucky.. she'll move aside bah.... but if she becomes more agressive.. then.... too bad... don't whack me =XOriginally posted by rouko:i got to know a girl about two weeks ago and recently she has been msging me and approaching me a lot. My classmates and friends kept teasing me about her but I have no interest for her at all coz I already liked someone else. How should I ask her not to be so close to me politely? I dont wish to offend her but at the same time want to tell her Im not interested in her. -
No need to tell her anything lah....just ignore, ignore, ignore.....and sooner or later she'll get the hint. Thats the most gentle way I can think of to tell her.
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life is so miserable. the girl i like does not like me and im being liked by someone else i do not like. to protect their real identities i'll call myself B, the girl i like A and the girl whom i suspect has an interest C... I known A roughly a week before I knew C, if you have been reading my previous thread, you will know how much I love this girl. we havent spoke for more than two weeks already, sometimes when i walk pass her in school she didnt even bother to say hello. I wish she isn't ignoring me but all i want to say is that my heart is still with her. on the other hand, C has been causing a lot of unneccesary trouble for me. for almost all the time, i get associated with her. now even my teachers laugh at me.
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at least let her know whats going on mah... it doesn't feel good getting ignored... its just like hanging in mid air...she'll not even know why she's being ignored and what she should do...it'll be more torturous. why not just drop a clear hint...and the rest depends on her..Originally posted by gentlerock:No need to tell her anything lah....just ignore, ignore, ignore.....and sooner or later she'll get the hint. Thats the most gentle way I can think of to tell her. -
Its always the case.. life isn't a bed of roses... & as perfect as dramas...Originally posted by rouko:life is so miserable. the girl i like does not like me and im being liked by someone else i do not like. to protect their real identities i'll call myself B, the girl i like A and the girl whom i suspect has an interest C... I known A roughly a week before I knew C, if you have been reading my previous thread, you will know how much I love this girl. we havent spoke for more than two weeks already, sometimes when i walk pass her in school she didnt even bother to say hello. I wish she isn't ignoring me but all i want to say is that my heart is still with her. on the other hand, C has been causing a lot of unneccesary trouble for me. for almost all the time, i get associated with her. now even my teachers laugh at me. -
Originally posted by silv3rgal:Its always the case.. life isn't a bed of roses... & as perfect as dramas...
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relax mate, you'll meet alot more ppl in future, in poly, work or jc.. there's a lot more.. trust me.. enjoy yourself first..Originally posted by rouko: 
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you fu cking old man/ old maid! quit laughing or prepare to recieve a warning letter from MOE!!!Originally posted by rouko:life is so miserable. the girl i like does not like me and im being liked by someone else i do not like. to protect their real identities i'll call myself B, the girl i like A and the girl whom i suspect has an interest C... I known A roughly a week before I knew C, if you have been reading my previous thread, you will know how much I love this girl. we havent spoke for more than two weeks already, sometimes when i walk pass her in school she didnt even bother to say hello. I wish she isn't ignoring me but all i want to say is that my heart is still with her. on the other hand, C has been causing a lot of unneccesary trouble for me. for almost all the time, i get associated with her. now even my teachers laugh at me. -
try talking to her as a normal friend...then slowly tell her that you like someone else and other than the girl you will not like anyone else lor~Originally posted by rouko:i got to know a girl about two weeks ago and recently she has been msging me and approaching me a lot. My classmates and friends kept teasing me about her but I have no interest for her at all coz I already liked someone else. How should I ask her not to be so close to me politely? I dont wish to offend her but at the same time want to tell her Im not interested in her. -
ehh, u said it urself, it's ur frens who have been teasing u abt her. it doesnt means that she likes u...lolxOriginally posted by rouko:i got to know a girl about two weeks ago and recently she has been msging me and approaching me a lot. My classmates and friends kept teasing me about her but I have no interest for her at all coz I already liked someone else. How should I ask her not to be so close to me politely? I dont wish to offend her but at the same time want to tell her Im not interested in her. -
yala,don do anything,wat if she don likes u,then u malu sia...
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im asexual
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hahaha do u always have this type of situation?Originally posted by Tuatau:Take your pick:
"I think of you as a sister."
"There's a slight difference in our ages."
"I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way."
"My life is too complicated right now."
"I've got a girlfriend."
"I don't date girls from the same school."
"It's not you, it's me."
"I'm concentrating on my studies."
"I'm celibate."
...and the best and most common excuse given by guys:
"Let's be friends."
Just tell her straight in the face? I know its gonna be hurtful if she really likes you but well... Its a fastest and best method... -
Juz stop replying to all her msgs...Originally posted by rouko:i got to know a girl about two weeks ago and recently she has been msging me and approaching me a lot. My classmates and friends kept teasing me about her but I have no interest for her at all coz I already liked someone else. How should I ask her not to be so close to me politely? I dont wish to offend her but at the same time want to tell her Im not interested in her.
She will gt the hints...rem dun lead her on...if U dun like her...
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haha here's an idea.
if the gurl who likes u is close enuff to u..
and u confide ur probs in her..
why not TELL her tht u like some other gurl?
tell her as tho you are confiding yet another problem with her..
if she likes u.tht'd be strong enuff a hint fer her shes got no chance, and yet preventing any chance of any embarrassment should she have no liking for u in the first place if u had told her face on tht u dun like her.-shrug.
justa suggestion! =DD -
Hmm..maybe C could be the one for you..that's life..we chase after something elusive not knowing we are being chased by someone else.
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But how u know she is interested in u?Mayb she is jus tooooooo friendly? dun kena bang hor..Coz from wat i know, ppl always mistaken friendly..So make everything clear 1st,is she interested in u, Or she is jus being friendly..... b4 u tell her Anything..