Originally posted by UrbanSoul:I think u should tell her how u feel and give her some time,maybe 1-2 weeks to think and then ask for a reply? cause i think she doesn't want to be unfair to you and her heart is still hurting
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hi ppl,
really need guidance badly...
okie, let's start...
I just got to know this gal about three weeks ago...
we went out as friends as per normal, things were all great, we chat bout life relationship and many many things.
one day i decided to pop out the question!!!
which she agreed to be my gal. i was overjoyed!!
but normally at the start of a relationship, there wld be honey period!!!
but she seems to be heck-care, so i decide to ask her if there's is something bothering her.
she told me it's regarding his ex-bf. she do not wish to continued the relationship with me as she couldn't forget bout his ex. i was pretty much upset.
they had actually been together 4 2 years, and had juz broke off 3 months ago. she was his first bf.
some plus factors that she told me
1)she knew it's impossible between her and her ex
2) her ex has a gf now(bout 1 month)
3) she told me she did like me
this points had gave me the strength to wait for her.
she told me to give her some day to cool herself. it had been one day since call or sms her... i really miss her very much. kept thinking of her every now and then. i dunno wat to do. I am really confused
guys, wat's ya opinion?
to wait or not to wait?
to call or not to??
pls help
Best Rgds
David![]()
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ok,maybe 2 weeks is a bit long but 1 week is mostly okOriginally posted by UrbanSoul:i had told her how i feel, she knows it's unfair to me...
but i say i dun mind it.
one week or two week is it too long!!!
i just afraid the feelings from her to me will go off
how does she feel or whats her behaviour this few days?Originally posted by UrbanSoul:okie thanks.
i 'm not a despo.
just that this few days while i'm out with her. i 'm very happy very happy with her...
sob sob
depends on what comment u said.....Originally posted by UrbanSoul:damn it i juzt ruin myself...
i went to her blog and added comment.
and there's my profile pic in it...
well...u spoke ur true feelings...i think u must be honest with her and urselfOriginally posted by UrbanSoul:she's feelin low and down...
i can't do much to help her
sometimes its not whereever u are good or not,its her heart,some ppl can remember their ex for a long timeOriginally posted by UrbanSoul:my feelings for her true, and i still get her to forget bout her ex, am i usseless
if you think yr feelings for someone will just go away in just one or two weeks... you do not really like her in the first place... come on... then what will happen if she go hoilday or something liike that... you will look elsewhere???Originally posted by UrbanSoul:i had told her how i feel, she knows it's unfair to me...
but i say i dun mind it.
one week or two week is it too long!!!
i just afraid the feelings from her to me will go off