need advice badly
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hi ppl,
really need guidance badly...
okie, let's start...
I just got to know this gal about three weeks ago...
we went out as friends as per normal, things were all great, we chat bout life relationship and many many things.
one day i decided to pop out the question!!!
which she agreed to be my gal. i was overjoyed!!
but normally at the start of a relationship, there wld be honey period!!!
but she seems to be heck-care, so i decide to ask her if there's is something bothering her.
she told me it's regarding his ex-bf. she do not wish to continued the relationship with me as she couldn't forget bout his ex. i was pretty much upset.
they had actually been together 4 2 years, and had juz broke off 3 months ago. she was his first bf.
some plus factors that she told me
1)she knew it's impossible between her and her ex
2) her ex has a gf now(bout 1 month)
3) she told me she did like me
this points had gave me the strength to wait for her.
she told me to give her some day to cool herself. it had been one day since call or sms her... i really miss her very much. kept thinking of her every now and then. i dunno wat to do. I am really confused
guys, wat's ya opinion?
to wait or not to wait?
to call or not to??
pls help
Best Rgds
David -
Originally posted by UrbanSoul:
I think u should tell her how u feel and give her some time,maybe 1-2 weeks to think and then ask for a reply? cause i think she doesn't want to be unfair to you and her heart is still hurting
hi ppl,
really need guidance badly...
okie, let's start...
I just got to know this gal about three weeks ago...
we went out as friends as per normal, things were all great, we chat bout life relationship and many many things.
one day i decided to pop out the question!!!
which she agreed to be my gal. i was overjoyed!!
but normally at the start of a relationship, there wld be honey period!!!
but she seems to be heck-care, so i decide to ask her if there's is something bothering her.
she told me it's regarding his ex-bf. she do not wish to continued the relationship with me as she couldn't forget bout his ex. i was pretty much upset.
they had actually been together 4 2 years, and had juz broke off 3 months ago. she was his first bf.
some plus factors that she told me
1)she knew it's impossible between her and her ex
2) her ex has a gf now(bout 1 month)
3) she told me she did like me
this points had gave me the strength to wait for her.
she told me to give her some day to cool herself. it had been one day since call or sms her... i really miss her very much. kept thinking of her every now and then. i dunno wat to do. I am really confused
guys, wat's ya opinion?
to wait or not to wait?
to call or not to??
pls help
Best Rgds
David
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i had told her how i feel, she knows it's unfair to me...
but i say i dun mind it.
one week or two week is it too long!!!
i just afraid the feelings from her to me will go off -
ok,maybe 2 weeks is a bit long but 1 week is mostly okOriginally posted by UrbanSoul:i had told her how i feel, she knows it's unfair to me...
but i say i dun mind it.
one week or two week is it too long!!!
i just afraid the feelings from her to me will go off
besides if she is true to you,regardless of 1-2 years,the feeling won't go away...
my thinking if i were you is to stay with her when she needs helps,be with her,show her that u are a bettr guy than her ex -
okie thanks.
i 'm not a despo.
just that this few days while i'm out with her. i 'm very happy very happy with her...
sob sob -
how does she feel or whats her behaviour this few days?Originally posted by UrbanSoul:okie thanks.
i 'm not a despo.
just that this few days while i'm out with her. i 'm very happy very happy with her...
sob sob -
damn it i juzt ruin myself...
i went to her blog and added comment.
and there's my profile pic in it... -
depends on what comment u said.....Originally posted by UrbanSoul:damn it i juzt ruin myself...
i went to her blog and added comment.
and there's my profile pic in it...
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she's feelin low and down...
i can't do much to help her -
well...u spoke ur true feelings...i think u must be honest with her and urselfOriginally posted by UrbanSoul:she's feelin low and down...
i can't do much to help her -
i commented in consoling her... nothing much damn....
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my feelings for her true, and i still get her to forget bout her ex, am i usseless
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sometimes its not whereever u are good or not,its her heart,some ppl can remember their ex for a long timeOriginally posted by UrbanSoul:my feelings for her true, and i still get her to forget bout her ex, am i usseless -
i wan to be there for her.
but i cannot sms her
cannot call her
and she won't even go out with me... -
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there's nothing i can do
now tt i can only tok to her on msn
it seems she 's trying to sympathasing me while we chat... -
wish u luck
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is your internet lagging?
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thks
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if you think yr feelings for someone will just go away in just one or two weeks... you do not really like her in the first place... come on... then what will happen if she go hoilday or something liike that... you will look elsewhere???Originally posted by UrbanSoul:i had told her how i feel, she knows it's unfair to me...
but i say i dun mind it.
one week or two week is it too long!!!
i just afraid the feelings from her to me will go off -
hi guys thks for all ya advie, i think it's timw to close this thread
that's it i guess,
enough is enough!!
that gal i earlier mention, thinks i always sweet talk to other gal.
fine!!!
ya ya, i'm poor and stupid. but do u think i care
of all the things that i had done, i still dunno know why she's that way
told me she actually got a bf.
u think i believe.
that's the biggest joke i eva heard.
i dun give a shit now.
this is world is beautifel.
I'm pissed, fustrated, devastated, annoyed.
thks all for all the wonderful advice u given me....
god bless all.... i love u all. -
wow.. you actually get serious replies in chit chat....
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cheer up
if she dun wan u, i wan u le u soo cutee -
tell her you are waiting for her and just leave her alone for a while but keep in contact ask her how she is once in awhile. and hor relax lah brother dun so sticky apart awhile wont die one must be brave
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Ya i think you should tell her that you are waiting for her but on the other hand you should not stress her to the extend that she got pissed off. And on the other hand you must show her care and concern so as to let her know that you are always there for her during the hard times and i think in time to come she might accept you.