Guys (strangers ) who ask for girl's numbers...
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Okay, this one is for the ladies.
What do u girls think of strange guys, who out of the blue, ask for ur number?
Would u feel that this guy is desperate or wad? -
to get the woman, need to think like the woman. Be one with the woman.
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If the guy is attractive... the gal will think that he is charming.... and bold and hence be flattered.
if the guy is ugly, the gal will think that he is desperate.... and will feel disgusted. -
that sounds so Zen...Originally posted by alexkusu:to get the woman, need to think like the woman. Be one with the woman. 
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Everything is Zen, Zen is everything.Originally posted by ^spidee^:that sounds so Zen... -
Zen? Zen Micro? Zen Neeon?Originally posted by ^spidee^:that sounds so Zen... -
Give number to call Police
At least get to know the girl a little first mah ... -
Okay... what about guys? Would u all do sometihng like that?
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Do girls give their own numbers in the first place?
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Some do. But usually they would do it more covertly. pass u a piece of paper etc.
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Used to give to people who I know after a couple of sessions. But the guys who got the numbers do not understand I only want Normal friends. But these guys want a Fuck Buddy. They obviously are very stupid and think all sg girls are cheap Wh0res. But I am not surpirsed of their impression since lots sg women throw themselves onto any Foreign (colored) "talents" who can splash on alcohol. They started to call for alcohol sessions in an attempt to make me drunk. when I turn down these invites, the abuses came and then the prank calls and etc. Anyways, these low life come from all walks of life, from Police force whose a CID, to computer programmer who booast he's a manager (ha ha - I am not born yesterday), to former Author Anderson employee, to some freaky white African and whole bunch of people (married/troubled and everything in between) trying to look for ONS, Fuck Buddies, and Orgies ... basically, there's a lot of people with bad ulteria motives out there.Originally posted by redstone:Do girls give their own numbers in the first place?
Its pays to play safe. -
Woah, I think u hit the nail on the head.
In otherwords, those cheesey "can i have ur number" pick ups have been resoundly thrashed already.
So now, what is the best way for guy's to make friends with a girl that's a total stranger? -
Depends on situation isn't it.Originally posted by Shotgun:Woah, I think u hit the nail on the head.
In otherwords, those cheesey "can i have ur number" pick ups have been resoundly thrashed already.
So now, what is the best way for guy's to make friends with a girl that's a total stranger?
She's in a book shop. You can offer to buy her a coffee and get to know her better and what she likes to read and ask if she will come back to the book store again...
In pub... people are on high alert .. chances of getting a r/s started is low unless you want those messed up girls/guys for ONS and then pray you didn't get aids.
But then I should not be tell you guys. You guys should go out and learn. Rejection is part of the process of learning. Hell I myself was rejected by guys for asking. Was informed I was not good enough for him. HAHA - Now he cannot stay in any single R/s !!! HAHAHA !!! -
Huh?? so direct one ah... not good enuff for him. A bit the, cold right?
Hmmm I guess its all fated, the friends that u meet. Sometimes i wonder for guys to approach for number or getting to know them... would it be like fighting against fate. -
Originally posted by mistyblue:
Soooo Evil.
Depends on situation isn't it.
She's in a book shop. You can offer to buy her a coffee and get to know her better and what she likes to read and ask if she will come back to the book store again...
In pub... people are on high alert .. chances of getting a r/s started is low unless you want those messed up girls/guys for ONS and then pray you didn't get aids.
But then I should not be tell you guys. You guys should go out and learn. Rejection is part of the process of learning. Hell I myself was rejected by guys for asking. Was informed I was not good enough for him. HAHA - Now he cannot stay in any single R/s !!! HAHAHA !!!
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If girl rejects guy's asking for phone number if she's attached or she knows he's attached, I kinda understand why.
But if both are single, would girl reject? -
Originally posted by TooFree:Soooo Evil.
But when we met up in groups again... he would go on and on about some girl he's dating and how pretty and angel like etc... He made sure he spoke very loud and the whole group hears ... but others pull me aside and tell he that he's not been able to keep the girl... 
Not my fault leh... -
Erm, thats the reason why i post this thread.
To find out what girls think of guys who approach like that lor. -
Even friendship is two way. No one is obligated to make friend with a Guy when the Guy wants.Originally posted by redstone:If girl rejects guy's asking for phone number if she's attached or she knows he's attached, I kinda understand why.
But if both are single, would girl reject?
Being single does not mean that a girl must accept every invite to become a couple
And being Single don't mean the girl is unhappy.. She might be well adjusted and do not want any more friends. People have a choice you know.
And guys also reject girls what .. like too fat, too ugly, too stupid, too smart, too small, too tall, too big, and anything... also can use as excuse to reject what. -
Okay, this one is a classic tho... this excuse was for a break up. This kinda excuse is the kind that makes u want to stab urself.
"You're too nice, too good to me, I don't deserve it." -
Not everything is "fated". everything comes and goes.Originally posted by Shotgun:Huh?? so direct one ah... not good enuff for him. A bit the, cold right?
Hmmm I guess its all fated, the friends that u meet. Sometimes i wonder for guys to approach for number or getting to know them... would it be like fighting against fate.
How many guys would stay friends once they got to know this girl and the girl is not suitable? Zero.
How many guys have girls as friends and keep in contact with them?
Not many.
How many guys treat the Female friends as "guy buddies" but born in the wrong gender?
Many.
How many guys actually know how to comminicate with different types of people?
So little
How many guys want to expand more effort to acheive what they want than to wait and complain or talk about it but no action?
Many
How I got my current bf is cause I used to organize outings for net people. Of course that's how I met lots of unsavoury people as well. I didn't organize to find BF.. I organize to find company to have fun and go see shows and spend the weekend outside of office. It was a lot of effort and I know some people actually hit off and became GF/BF.
Why I stop? -> SG People are unappreciate creatures. -
Ic. Actually I was playing with an idea of setting up a forum based dating agency. Of course, some registration fee required.
naturrally, it would provide more platforms other than forums... hahhaa, but to tell u the rest, I need u to sign an NDA.
J/k. Still haven thot it thru how to go about setting it up. -
i tot u were learning how to pick up girls?Originally posted by Shotgun:Ic. Actually I was playing with an idea of setting up a forum based dating agency. Of course, some registration fee required.
naturrally, it would provide more platforms other than forums... hahhaa, but to tell u the rest, I need u to sign an NDA.
J/k. Still haven thot it thru how to go about setting it up.
eh..u wan join to! sounds like fun! -
LOL! Must do a bit of research first wad. Hahhaa
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aww..misty got bf liaw..off limits liawOriginally posted by mistyblue:Not everything is "fated". everything comes and goes.
How many guys would stay friends once they got to know this girl and the girl is not suitable? Zero.
How many guys have girls as friends and keep in contact with them?
Not many.
How many guys treat the Female friends as "guy buddies" but born in the wrong gender?
Many.
How many guys actually know how to comminicate with different types of people?
Not many
How many guys want to expand more effort to acheive what they want than to wait and complain or talk about it but no action?
Many
How I got my current bf is cause I used to organize outings for net people. Of course that's how I met lots of unsavoury people as well. I didn't organize to find BF.. I organize to find company to have fun and go see shows and spend the weekend outside of office. It was a lot of effort and I know some people actually hit off and became GF/BF.
Why I stop? -> SG People are unappreciate creatures.