Beware of your wife - A true Story
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This is the true story about a close friend of mine who passed away about 6 months ago. What saddens me is the actions of his widow after his death. Is all Sg women like this?
"John Tan died in Feb 2005 of renal failure, aged 48. He was an engineering graduate from NUS and began his career with JEL (later known as JTC) working his way up to chief engineer. He married a fellow graduate from NUS and they had 2 sons. John spent his entire life slogging for a better life for his family. John was retrenched a few years back and after being unable to find another job, became a taxi driver.
He worked long hours as a cabby and it took a toll on his health 2 years later. He was diagnosed with kidney problems and required dialysis. John did not have to work so hard as he was financially well-to do but he still continued to slog for the well being of his "family". After being on dialysis, John always felt tired so one of his sons suggested donating a kidney to him. The whole family then went for medical testing to find out whose kidneys is compatible with John's. That was a decision John regretted. He discovered that the blood types of both his sons does not match him. Further DNA testing confirmed his fears.
Imagine finding out after all these years that your wife had been cheating on you and the 2 boys you brought up were not your sons. (the older boy is an NUS graduate while the younger is in 3rd year at NTU)
John became so depressed that he did not carry on with his dailysis nor take his medication. One month later, he passed away.
John had cash savings of about 280k, his insurance payout was 350k, had 600k in his cpf, hdb mansonaitte vld 550k (fully paid upon his death). All this $$$ went to his widow (except for 300k in cpf which went to the sons). That bitch is now living in John's house with the man who fathered the sons, enjoying life with John's hard earned money."
Poor John, GOD is fair, there will be retribution for the guilty ones....RIP -
My sympathies go to John. How did his wife react?
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Sad story... well... God is fair, there will always be payment for whatever you have done...
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Yr story sound bogus. It means the singapore govt graned birth certificates without verification? t means the system has a flaw
Next time every baby should go for DNA test to prove its roots. -
Whoa.
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anyone still wants to be rich??
that guy is rich but marriage has problems. -
Question should be "anyone still want a wife?"Originally posted by Mr Fugue:anyone still wants to be rich?? -
not everyone's marriage palace is dark one mahz...........Originally posted by philia:Question should be "anyone still want a wife?" -
fathers here hands up ... do you know the blood type of your kids ? ...
find it a bit hard to swallow that he doesn't know even the blood type of his kids after so many years ....
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ceh..i tot the wife poisoned him or sth.
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But if you are rich and single and lead a playboy life then I guess it would be funOriginally posted by Mr Fugue:not everyone's marriage palace is dark one mahz........... 
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Depends lar... but it's hard to look through some girls, they can pretend so well... unlike guys...
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Originally posted by philia:Question should be "anyone still want a wife?"
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if u think bout it, it dosent matter who the real father is. John has been more of a father to the kids than the other guy.
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true .... it's one thing if you knew it from the onset and decide to love and bring up the kids anyways ....Originally posted by alexkusu:if u think bout it, it dosent matter who the real father is. John has been more of a father to the kids than the other guy.
but it's quite another if such a thing is revealed to you only after so many years ...
and not one, but two kids !! ......
in any case, i still find this reading too much like a drama script .... -
But hor, in a drama script, the dog couple surely will suffer some ending worst than death....Originally posted by Fatum:true .... it's one thing if you knew it from the onset and decide to love and bring up the kids anyways ....
but it's quite another if such a thing is revealed to you only after so many years ...
and not one, but two kids !! ......
in any case, i still find this reading too much like a drama script .... -
Kinda reminds me of Me, Myself and Irene (Jim Carrey)...Originally posted by Fatum:true .... it's one thing if you knew it from the onset and decide to love and bring up the kids anyways ....
but it's quite another if such a thing is revealed to you only after so many years ...
and not one, but two kids !! ......
in any case, i still find this reading too much like a drama script .... 
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Ending not reach yet mar...Originally posted by seow:But hor, in a drama script, the dog couple surely will suffer some ending worst than death.... -
As far as I know, a mother can name anybody as the father to put in the birth certificate. This applies for all newborns, whether born in or out of wedlock.Originally posted by Alfresco coffeeshop:Yr story sound bogus. It means the singapore govt graned birth certificates without verification? t means the system has a flaw
Next time every baby should go for DNA test to prove its roots. -
similar to the tsu. tragedy/other tragedies >> r they being judge fairly or
just that they r not the Chosen Ones (though they r poor innocent victims) so
[red=color]FAir?[/ color] Nauseaus -
who with the right mind will go and do DNA testing on ur newborn child without any reason?Originally posted by Alfresco coffeeshop:Yr story sound bogus. It means the singapore govt graned birth certificates without verification? t means the system has a flaw
Next time every baby should go for DNA test to prove its roots.
of course there's no verification for who the child's father is when granting birth cert, how to verify? anyway there's nothing wrong if the father named on the child's birth cert isn't the biological father... so why would the govt even care. -
Oh my god...this is really atrocious...
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yeah, the palace got disco lights instead of darkness...Originally posted by philia:But if you are rich and single and lead a playboy life then I guess it would be fun -
Actually, i am not surprised. This is very often... A report once mention as high as 10% of men are raising children not theirs...
Think b4 you get married. -
Sometimes with those marriage vows and dedication (once you have tied the knot of course), things become so complicated. To sign a divorce letter would demand a splitting of assets...Originally posted by yuppy4life:Actually, i am not surprised. This is very often... A report once mention as high as 10% of men are raising children not theirs...
Think b4 you get married.