She is so jue ...
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i think she did the rite thing!!!
My gf didn't do that and they end up hugging together!!
You see how upset i was!!! and she still claimed she loved me and ask for another chance.... -
We feeling the same. But my has passed quite long but i still feel the ache now and than.
Broken off with my Ex 3 yrs and 1/2 back le. She is my first gf and so it leave quite a deep impression for me, more ever we have been together for 5yr plus before she left me.
Last time, i was spoil, childish and unreasonable. But she stay with me for 5yrs before deciding that enough chances has been giving to me and in the end left me for another guy. Never ever blame her, as i knew i was not a good bf to her in the past and this new guy could provided her with the care and concern she needed.
Ever since we broken off, we never contact with each another until recently about 1 or 2 mth back.
She say finally she saw the changes in me. i'm more mature compare to last time and more understanding.
This is the 11th christmas since i knew you. And it always at christmas that my ache for her come back. Remember in the past, whereby we promise to company each another for every christmas together. But whenever i think back and think of the words and that i'm spending christmas without you. My heart ache..
Thank you for being part of my life and teaches me lotta of stuffs and mostly make me a better person.
Lastly wish you all the best in your love, career and your life. Take care. -
Just broke off with my gf of 1 yr+ on the eve which is yesterday. It was a long dist r/s. She say its all her fault n she cant handle anymore. I dont wanna further eleborate but i will remember on every eve of xmas that i lost someone whom i love and someone who used to share dreams togethre.
Merry xmas everyone. -
em hello again
firstly i would like to say a big *xie xie* to the wonderful ppl here who give me lots of pat pat, hugs,wishes, and ur pm encouragement, and em pillows with air refreshner?
Secondly i would like to apologise to those who seems to misread my thread, coz i just read all the replies and there are several conclusion like
Some think i dump her
Some think i broke up with her 4 yrs already
Some think she found a bf b4 we broke up
maybe i nv write properly thus the misunderstanding.. paisei, my english is not that good
but just to clarify ba
We are together for exactly 4 yrs together b4 we broke up in may 2006
She did not know the guy till late may (in work)
She initiated the break up, not me
Actually after our break up, there was a couple of weeks cooling period b4 we date each other again, though we nv patch back.
Den around the time before my birthday, she gave me a condition for patching up lor, that is to train up lor, to achieve half of superman chest, as that time i was very skinny. She promise to wait for me. My bmi is only like 18, and i m quite tall than most ppl here.
However i had a really tough time as i got a part time waitering job and sch, beside training in the gym. Due to the eagerness to achieve fast results, i overtrain and therfore after each session, i will be so freaking tired and muscles sore for days, and my underpaying waitering job is devoing me of my energy.
2 weeks later, which is around one week after my birthday, i just could not mentally cope le. I ask myself why she cant accept me for who i am, she has being with skinny pierre for 4 yrs le, nw suddenly cannot stand the old myself. When she commented why am i so skinny in april, i was really hurt though i keep it to myself.
i replied to her by sms, that i am letting her go, i am giving up on training.
Great sia, a few days later, she go steady with this quite fit guy like marco_simone size, and is younger by 2 yrs than her. Also recognise that it was the same guy with her for the part time job she got during her holidays in may
I blame myself, why am i so Bu Shan Jing
Why do i give up a person who basically is the person who understand me the most, she noes what am i thinking even though i nv say anithing
I am angry at myself
So i began go to gym again, the fuel that keeps me going is a chance to see her again, to impress her for a last time. Even if alone, i also go myself without my fren who gave up halfway. It goes abit out of hand that i started going on the 1st opening hours like 7am, 8.30am once every 2 days.
I resist ani chance to contact her ever since she del me on msn. I told myself until i achieve some results, i wun see her.
I lost a lot of frens in the meantime, coz mostly i kept to myself, and pretty quiet too.
It has been around 4 mths le. my bmi is close to 22 le. Though i think i am considered only as lean, still manage to put a shock look on my uni classmates faces as i gain like 10 kg, thus looking like a before and after pic.
I have been patiently waiting for a chance to see her again in the old me with a new body. Nw my dreams are shattered. And my stupid brain is nt giving me a break, on average i dream of her once a week.
Tell u one funny thing, there was once i dreamt of her 3 times in a row in the same nite (i woke up 3 times)
To love someone is to let her go.
I am not going to kick a fuss or criticise her or act anithing like a sore loser
Rather i am wishing her to be always happy and hope her bf treats her better than me.
I am a lousy bf who take things for granted last time, always quarrelling with her over stupid thing
honestly she deserved a lot better. She is not to blame for our breakup, i accept the fact that i am just not gd for her.
Do i still love her? i guess so ba but it will be just a feeling in a corner of my heart. But i m not going to be a third party in their relationship, and i wun want to see them quarrel over me either.
I am not ready for any relationship yet, to be truthful, i am rather scared to be hurt again. Give me more time to recover ba
=)
feels a lot better nw le.
xie xie for listening to my whinings
omg why a guy so luo suo one
Dun worry i am ok le
yea yea
I dun have a blog so sometimes i make sgforum like a personal blog, i noe some ppl complaining already haa -
*pat pat*
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for those of you who are upset that ur ex-es have moved on with their lives and you have not, just be glad that at least you had a girlfriend. ppl like me, almost 24 yrs old, still a virgin, no real steady girlfriend before, everyday stay at home, no social life, spend my christmas, new year, chinese new year and birthday alone at home. haha! i'm like the ultimate loser, but so what? life goes on.
best wishes for 2007 -
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just remind me of i having a crush on my friend. damn long liao lor. but too many guys are nuts over her. so...
pm me if you dont understand.
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that's an unusual condition for patching up...Originally posted by pierre^^:Den around the time before my birthday, she gave me a condition for patching up lor, that is to train up lor, to achieve half of superman chest, as that time i was very skinny. She promise to wait for me. My bmi is only like 18, and i m quite tall than most ppl here. -
If your ex-gf is happy with her current situation, just let her be happy...
I hope you'll find a better girl in the future. Merry Xmas!
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I will say u and yr gf are childish and a stupid reason for patch up....
But I think u will be wiser next time and find a better gal. Merry Xmas and happy new year! -
Guys.. cheer up for those who are really low.. Juz induct yourself in other activities..sooner or later u will find your someone.. or forget someone.. past is past juz take it as learning experience..
For me i can say im a loser also..gf break with me juz a yr plus ago( at that time another guy was on her heels..) when i was in army... 4 yr relationship also.. but now im still ok... -
kudos to you kayabread. all the best
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u still love her
if u loves that person, wad she do affects you. u did alot for her liao lo. from wad isee here, i tink just let her go, cos u cannot like make her wid u becos she may not be happy deep deep. my POV onli hor
*rubs pillow on pierce^^* -
Originally posted by Gackt247:Where's my Ms Right no.101?
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Time to let it go dudex. She has found a one whom she love, whatever u do now has no more meaning to her. Cruel but it the fact. Cheer up, one day u will find someone who apperciate the "skinny you".
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hMz...why bother if she has finally found her true love or whatsoever....becoz how the h3ll u know he's the one for her? No one knows...so, no need to console yourself with the lame reasoning that she has found the right one for herself...
Just be known to yourself that one has to bear the responsibilties and face the consequences when a decision is made.... -
this kind of gal.Originally posted by pierre^^:broke up with my gf of 4 yrs around half yr ago
she was my 1st and my only one
it was a mistake to let her go.
she has since found a bf who is gd to her
thought i still hope we could at least be frens
so on this xmas i wish her well with her bf and maybe meet up for a chat or sumthing
this is wad she say to me in the sms
"We are doing great, my bf does not want me to keep in contact with u. he's very important to me so sorry but we cant be frens"
i realli got nuthing to say except to reply her
"i m rather disappointed, but i will respect your decision, take care and i wun bother u ever le
thank u for all the wonderful memories u have gave me, i will always treasure that. I noe u wun be reading this as u dun come forums one but from my heart, i wish u happiness, always.
sigh
pierre^^ wishes everyone a merry xmas
and hope u all treasure ur loved ones
dun always quarrel over small things
sometimes give in is better
just feel like writing out my feelings
i hope u all dun mind as it makes me feel better
forget it man -
kanashimi no mukougishi ni hohoemi ga aru to iu yo
On the opposite coast of sadness
is something called a smile
tadoritsuku sono saki ni wa nani ga bokura o matteru?
But before we can go there,
is there something we're waiting for? -
Dwell in sadness dont change anything......treasure the memories....and move on....Cheers
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*hugs everyone*
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hmm actually it is better for both of u when she did this...cos it will help u to let go. There are worst girls, who just dangle and lead you on...
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cheers mate, i feel for ya. life goes on man. be happy for her, and be happy for yourself too. no worry, it will take some time b4 u meet a new love maybe a better one. Memories are just for you to keep and learn from it and grow stronger ya.
almost everyone of us have went tru such time b4. ya...we just look back and frown and move on ya. -
i understand la.Originally posted by toyota-corolla:just remind me of i having a crush on my friend. damn long liao lor. but too many guys are nuts over her. so...
pm me if you dont understand.
1 point u scare that if u confess to her, u 2 friendship will fade.
another point is she have a lot of suitors and u think u no chance nia.