Who wisHes to bE a YounG paRenT?

• ahkico

  29 Jan 07, 15:40

  Hehe..
  
  People around mi.. Esp this few yrs.. Either i'm hearing news of them gettin married.. Or havin kids on the way..
  
  I'm not tat old... Neither R they! All in early 20s.. (Not even 25!)
  
  Okie.. The baby 2 my 20yr old friend is an accident.. They gotten married & now their bAby boy is 1mth old!
  
  The maternal instinct ragin inside mi.. Wish i got baBy of my own to loVe & cherish.. Hehe..
  
  But nah.. I'm still not ready for marriage.. Kids.. Etc..
  
  Still adaptin to steppin out in the society to work..
  
  Is beiN a youNg paRent greAT !?!
  
  So coOL! Imagine urself in few yrs time to come, & wOaH! Ur child is big!
  
  
• Agenda

  29 Jan 07, 15:41

  Really need to type in big and small meh?
• noahnoah

  29 Jan 07, 15:51

  Married young good also
  
  in case your gf run away
  
  Married late good also
  
  in case you find out that
  
  your gf not suitable still
  
  can find one more
  
  babies are very cute but
  
  when they start to grow up
  
  get out of hand,, you will have a
  
  hard time looking after them
  
  
  
  I have a baby girl at home too
  
  call dougnut
• spinsugar

  29 Jan 07, 15:51

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  Really need to type in big and small meh?

  Goo-goo-ga-ga. She will get along very well with babies
• The Den

  29 Jan 07, 15:56

  Parenting is cool
• TYING

  29 Jan 07, 16:48

  i will give birth to a child if the child nv grow up and remain as cute as before.
  
  Since u adore children so much, go and adopt one la!
• Bontakun

  29 Jan 07, 16:55

  Originally posted by ahkico:

  Hehe..
  
  People around mi.. Esp this few yrs.. Either i'm hearing news of them gettin married.. Or havin kids on the way..
  
  I'm not tat old... Neither R they! All in early 20s.. (Not even 25!)
  
  Okie.. The baby 2 my 20yr old friend is an accident.. They gotten married & now their bAby boy is 1mth old!
  
  The maternal instinct ragin inside mi.. Wish i got baBy of my own to loVe & cherish.. Hehe..
  
  But nah.. I'm still not ready for marriage.. Kids.. Etc..
  
  Still adaptin to steppin out in the society to work..
  
  Is beiN a youNg paRent greAT !?!
  
  So coOL! Imagine urself in few yrs time to come, & wOaH! Ur child is big!
  
  

  Responsibility is key to raising the kid. It doesn't matter how old you are when you have one. The thing is: are you ready?
• rainee

  29 Jan 07, 17:21

  wait till u see them when they are crying, pooping, messing up the whole house, when they are sick...
  
  think u mite change ur mind
• Deportivo

  29 Jan 07, 17:24

  Originally posted by rainee:

  wait till u see them when they are crying, pooping, messing up the whole house, when they are sick...
  
  think u mite change ur mind

  or you can see your titties and nipples great bigger and darker.
  
  
• hegu

  29 Jan 07, 19:24

  it's nice to think that when your kid grows up you will look like his/her brother/sister
• martin_lim85

  29 Jan 07, 21:00

  1st u have to get ur typing right and proper 1st
• cAr|n

  30 Jan 07, 00:16

  it's good to give birth when you are younger, cos u have more energy to take care of kids and can retire early.... by the time u are 50, ur kids will be grown and working, no need to worry so much liao
  
  having said that, i agree that what matters most is if u are ready... some youngsters may not want to give up their freedom so early to be tied down by kids.... having kids is a great responsibility and requires a lot of time, money, and effort
  
• Cool-gal

  30 Jan 07, 02:36

  my ideal marriage age is 24, but think i got to postponed it...
  
• Ito_^

  30 Jan 07, 02:44

  not bad oso. i wonder will my kids take after me..
  
  .....
  
  quite scary. but still think kids are great.
  
  but looking at my situation, its close to impossible.
  
  sigh.
• Darkness_hacker99

  30 Jan 07, 09:14

  No $$ = No Marry
• CM06

  30 Jan 07, 09:47

  gain experience...become a baby sitter!
• gerrykoh

  30 Jan 07, 09:53

  Most cannot afford to start family early- got to earn $$ first, pay education loan, buy house, support parents.
  
  Now not cheap to bring up a kid- u have to pay for tuition & schooling to Uni.
  Even childcare is expensive, some charging $800 upwards!
• noahnoah

  30 Jan 07, 09:55

  
  Think i marry at 35 years old
  
  Still want to enjoy my freedom life
  
  and hope to earn tones of money
• missqi

  30 Jan 07, 10:01

  i wld love to be a young mom NOW, at 17....
  but looks like society will make me an old mom...
  prolly at 27 or 28...
  
• SpecOps87

  30 Jan 07, 10:50

  Think its impt. to have a gd strong family background for kids.Quite a fair bit of my poly friends are in broken homes, they are about my age 19-20+ and their parents are like 42-46. They don't hold high-paying jobs and my friends sometimes have to go work even when classes end at 7.
• Darkness_hacker99

  30 Jan 07, 11:09

  Originally posted by missqi:

  i wld love to be a young mom NOW, at 17....
  but looks like society will make me an old mom...
  prolly at 27 or 28...
  

  wah, missqi finally reveal the secret age..
• LifeIsWonderful

  30 Jan 07, 12:08

  Originally posted by ahkico:

  Hehe..
  
  People around mi.. Esp this few yrs.. Either i'm hearing news of them gettin married.. Or havin kids on the way..
  
  I'm not tat old... Neither R they! All in early 20s.. (Not even 25!)
  
  Okie.. The baby 2 my 20yr old friend is an accident.. They gotten married & now their bAby boy is 1mth old!
  
  The maternal instinct ragin inside mi.. Wish i got baBy of my own to loVe & cherish.. Hehe..
  
  But nah.. I'm still not ready for marriage.. Kids.. Etc..
  
  Still adaptin to steppin out in the society to work..
  
  Is beiN a youNg paRent greAT !?!
  
  So coOL! Imagine urself in few yrs time to come, & wOaH! Ur child is big!
  
  

  I read that studies shown that having a child actually reduce happiness in a person's life, which is funny, because alot of people believes that kids bring happiness... hmmm... From what i see in my family, kids are a nightmare
• Bontakun

  30 Jan 07, 12:10

  Originally posted by missqi:

  i wld love to be a young mom NOW, at 17....
  but looks like society will make me an old mom...
  prolly at 27 or 28...
  

  How about adoption...?
• Bontakun

  30 Jan 07, 12:11

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  my ideal marriage age is 24, but think i got to postponed it...
  

  Awww dun worry there will come a time when you will get it.
• noahnoah

  30 Jan 07, 12:12

  Originally posted by LifeIsWonderful:

  I read that studies shown that having a child actually reduce happiness in a person's life, which is funny, because alot of people believes that kids bring happiness... hmmm... From what i see in my family, kids are a nightmare

  Think whehter a child will reduce happiness in a person life
  
  it depends on the parent ...one
  
  If the parent earn big bucks , own a car , stay bunglow
  
  every sunday ..family day
  
  just bring the kids go out and eat 5 star hotel food , buy watever tehy want
  
  No money one .. parents still have to work like hell thinking of about next meal
  
  how to have happines
  
  This world is very pratical
  
  no money ... no talk ..whether you like it a not