you dont feel lonely? Its starting to get to meOriginally posted by mistyblue:0 and I am proud of it.
when you get older, people go in their directions. essentially you are left with yourself even if you have a thousand friends - especially women when they get married, they call you when they need your help or money, never to find out about you.Originally posted by Jimi_Goh:you dont feel lonely? Its starting to get to me
wow u r back!Originally posted by Ferret:why all so lonely T.T
me too. well, i'm not exactly proud of it but ya know, real friends are a bit hard to find right?Originally posted by mistyblue:0 and I am proud of it.
glad to make you feel better.Originally posted by Jimi_Goh:Sg forums alot of loners. Im glad im not the only one
yeah just home T.TOriginally posted by NPNT:wow u r back!![]()
What you said is very true. I also like to be alone and my own space, but sometimes it would be nice to be close to a few.Originally posted by mistyblue:when you get older, people go in their directions. essentially you are left with yourself even if you have a thousand friends - especially women when they get married, they call you when they need your help or money, never to find out about you.
I am lonely, but I do like the solitude to let me think and be myself. I don't think friends solve loneliness at all. But if you feel they do, lots of people in sgf are willing to be friends.
Its when there is nothing to live for when loneliness strikes the hardest. Try to find something to do.
I am mostly a loner. Don't like crowds but like to have people around once in a while. I am weird, so don't take me as example.
I think the problem with me is my character. I am a honest person and I cannot stand fake people.Originally posted by tut4nkh4m3n:me too. well, i'm not exactly proud of it but ya know, real friends are a bit hard to find right?
Originally posted by Ferret:yeah just home T.T
life sucks.
life sucks even more when u r a working ferret who had to battle with 300 spartans in order not to get cooked while working ot till 1230 am. T.T![]()
find the right activity and the right people will come along. You can make friends out of activity partner.Originally posted by Jimi_Goh:What you said is very true. I also like to be alone and my own space, but sometimes it would be nice to be close to a few.
what sorta activities are recommended?
If you are happy with who you are, why care about others ?Originally posted by mistyblue:I think the problem with me is my character. I am a honest person and I cannot stand fake people.
Its hard to find true friends. Its easy to have lots of people who hang around just for company and to fulfill social needs and some herd instinct.
I have come to accept I am a loner. Not much of a talker. Hard worker and no nonsense person who really deliver value. Apparently, I live in th wrong country in the wrong century and in the wrong field. Because in sg, only people who make use of other people and network socially, do the social chit chat to "know" the boss better get to climb.
Anyways, I like to keep my life uncomplicated