Wierd female colleague !
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I am working in an office, I am nice to this female colleague of mine who give me a good first impression and looks pretty, 22 years old.
All i know is that she is from girls ( pri and sec ) school. I tend to treat her good all times. I knew that she got a boyfriend who is serving NS , so i treated her as a friend. we went back home together for like 2 months together after work.
Then people starts to gossip abt us. She knew that people is gossiping abt us.. but I think she dun mind. I am quite worry by then.
then suddenly one day, i went over to her cubicle for work stuffs she touched my biceps for like 5 seconds .. then i take it as nothing happened.
The next 2 or 3 days later .. i went over for some work stuffs again.
She lie her head on my shoulder for like 10 seconds saying that she is tired, I was like quite stunned and still continue to do my stuff as normal.
2 days later , she totally ignored me. Btw i got no girlfriend before.
At first her character is like so good and innocent type .. after this incident there's a sudden change in her character ..
The best thing is that the last week of my job before quiting , she take it like nothing happened .. and trying to show that she is happy ..
I am feeling frastrated .. cant explain this type of feeling .. just that she had a boyfriend already .. why is she doing this ? any ideas girls out there ..? Is she playing with me -.-
To add on, we ignored each other for like 1 month and i quit my job to concentrate study ..
her contact is still on my msn ..
we never delete or block each other
I also never ask her abt it -
r u gay ?
anywayz. aunt agony pls. -
The bf is in NS, so maybe she doesn't get enough affection from him, maybe she is having some problems in her relationship, and she is looking at you as someone who might be able to take her out from it?
Are you interested in her? If not, put an end to her action... -
she got the need la...her bf in NS..help her lo..
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lucky assOriginally posted by SquarePants:I am working in an office, I am nice to this female colleague of mine who give me a good first impression and looks pretty, 22 years old.
All i know is that she is from girls ( pri and sec ) school. I tend to treat her good all times. I knew that she got a boyfriend who is serving NS , so i treated her as a friend. we went back home together for like 2 months together after work.
Then people starts to gossip abt us. She knew that people is gossiping abt us.. but I think she dun mind. I am quite worry by then.
then suddenly one day, i went over to her cubicle for work stuffs she touched my biceps for like 5 seconds .. then i take it as nothing happened.
The next 2 or 3 days later .. i went over for some work stufs again.
She lie her head on my shoulder for like 10 seconds saying that she is tired, I was like quite stunned and still continue to do my stuff as normal.
2 days later , she totally ignored me.
I am feeling frastrated .. cant explain this type of feeling .. just that she had a boyfriend already .. why is she doing this ? any ideas girls out there ..? -
x2Originally posted by Mr.BullShyt:she got the need la...her bf in NS..help her lo.. -
well i dun envy the "ignored" part.Originally posted by Deino:lucky ass -
yay, got people agree with me.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:x2
if she pretty, y not? -
I think the reason why she started ignoring you is because you ignored her when she obviously made a move by resting her head on your shoulder.
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it may seemed lucky , but she is not a simple girl ..Originally posted by Deino:lucky ass
and we are totally from different world..
I am the decent type not bad looking ..
but she is the havoc type
and to add on i am not a gay ..
I just cannot react to such situation as no one have done this to me -
Are you spongebob and lives in the pineapple under the sea?
Cheers.
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Don't think too much, girls can get really touchy to their good friends but those actions may not mean anything.
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Gosh ferret ought to be shotOriginally posted by Ferret:r u gay ?
anywayz. aunt agony pls.
Anyway ts dont think too much. She might be thinking of her boyfriend bicep. -
play along la.
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i think of my mother then go squeeze ur gf's boobs?Originally posted by dbowie:Gosh ferret ought to be shot
Anyway ts dont think too much. She might be thinking of her boyfriend bicep. -
thats how girls are they ignore you becoz they want you to do something about it.....you dunno ah? i got gf also i know.....very easy to read people body language wanOriginally posted by Ito_^:well i dun envy the "ignored" part. -
er .. btw i dun have a girlfriend before .. lolOriginally posted by Pitot:play along la.
how to play along with someone's girlfriend =.= -
She is prolly just touchy. some girls are like that.Originally posted by SquarePants:er .. btw i dun have a girlfriend before .. lol
how to play along with someone's girlfriend =.=
after awhile it should die down. If it dosent. you should prolly make it known to h er that you wish for this to stop. -
be her friend and do wot friends are supposed to do.....if she like you then you talk to her about it....if you dun like then to bad lor.....tell her you can only be her best fren lor....i know.....if i were you i would want to take people's gf wan......is as good as back stabbing people......its like no guts liddat.....Originally posted by SquarePants:er .. btw i dun have a girlfriend before .. lol
how to play along with someone's girlfriend =.= -
Yeah .. after that we ignored each other for like one month .. and i quit my job to concentrate study ..
I only know her for 3 months .. since she newly joined -
wot? a month? then you quit somemore? why bring it up if it came to that?Originally posted by SquarePants:Yeah .. after that we ignored each other for like one month .. and i quit my job to concentrate study ..
I only know her for 3 months .. since she newly joined -
i bring it up cos i cannot get my answer ?
I wanna get some feedbacks on what people think abt this
her contact is still on my msn .. she never delete or block me or scold me .
I never blame her also -
you quit ur job edi, no more contact liaw.
come here whine for fcuk? -
Where got wierd ???
If society permits, I will touch female colleague's hand for 5 secs.
Then , rest my arm on female colleague's shoulder on the bus...
But too bad, society doesnt permit
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Originally posted by DC+:you quit ur job edi, no more contact liaw.
come here whine for fcuk?