lunching with my ex gf tmrw...

• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 14:42

  Was my first gf 5 years ago, broken up. We haven't met up since, only an occasional sms like 2-3 times a year.
  
  Due to events, we came into contact again, and will be meeting for lunch tmrw.
  
  Her office in the next building.
  
  I don't know what to think now. I'm attached to someone else now. I believe it will be a normal lunch tmrw. But for some reason, I'm very excited deep down inside I donno why.
  
  Do you have this kind of experiences?
• de_middle

  24 Jul 07, 14:53

  keep calm & remember your current GF......
• Aaron8209

  24 Jul 07, 14:55

  
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 14:57

  definitely. I mean there is nothing going on between both of us. I luv my current gf, and we're rom-ing next year.
  
  But I just feel terribly excited meeting my ex.
  
  Maybe I should cancel it after all.
• qlqq9

  24 Jul 07, 15:00

  Originally posted by forforman:

  definitely. I mean there is nothing going on between both of us. I luv my current gf, and we're rom-ing next year.
  
  But I just feel terribly excited meeting my ex.
  
  Maybe I should cancel it after all.

  still exciting meeting your ex! you still like her lah! Like when my ex met up with me, he still has liking for me leh!!!
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 15:03

  Originally posted by qlqq9:

  still exciting meeting your ex! you still like her lah! Like when my ex met up with me, he still has liking for me leh!!!

  but is he attached then, and are you attached then?
  
  My case, I think my ex is not seeing somebody at the moment.
• eagle

  24 Jul 07, 15:07

  What's wrong with meeting for lunch only?
  
  You scared then bring your gf along lor...
  
  Why read so much into a simple lunch...? Can't friends just meet for lunch/dinner?
• qlqq9

  24 Jul 07, 15:13

  Originally posted by forforman:

  but is he attached then, and are you attached then?
  
  My case, I think my ex is not seeing somebody at the moment.

  he was attached and I was not. Kept trying to get me to tell him the truth if I am attached. He was playing his old trick to con me into falling in love with him again. Once bitten, twice shy! I just ignored and babodoh!!! Sickening low class man, attached still wanna "play". His gf unlucky to have him as bf!!
• Aaron8209

  24 Jul 07, 15:14

  maybe she became very fat within 5yrs..i suggest u better dun go..i replace u help u go see..and eat with her...
• eagle

  24 Jul 07, 15:16

  Originally posted by Aaron8209:

  maybe she became very fat within 5yrs..i suggest u better dun go..i replace u help u go see..and eat with her...

  There's always kiss29
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 15:18

  Originally posted by eagle:

  What's wrong with meeting for lunch only?
  
  You scared then bring your gf along lor...
  
  Why read so much into a simple lunch...? Can't friends just meet for lunch/dinner?

  ya, you're right. It's not like anything can happen. She's a main part of my life during my varsity days. If I were to write my autobiography in the future, she'll definitely be in a chapter. My current gf too.
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 15:25

  Originally posted by qlqq9:

  he was attached and I was not. Kept trying to get me to tell him the truth if I am attached. He was playing his old trick to con me into falling in love with him again. Once bitten, twice shy! I just ignored and babodoh!!! Sickening low class man, attached still wanna "play". His gf unlucky to have him as bf!!

  lucky you sharp. hoho.
  
  Think that is the reason why some of my female friends shut off all contact with their ex.
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 15:30

  Originally posted by Aaron8209:

  maybe she became very fat within 5yrs..i suggest u better dun go..i replace u help u go see..and eat with her...

  hoho. She is not the head turner kind, love japanese food, is a fitness and sea sports nut. And she speaks jap fluently.
  
  thanks for your help anyway.
• qlqq9

  24 Jul 07, 15:31

  Originally posted by forforman:

  lucky you sharp. hoho.
  
  Think that is the reason why some of my female friends shut off all contact with their ex.

  anyway, he was kind of fed up cos things not happening according to his way. He is not a good keep for even a normal friend. A irresponsible soul! After our meeting, the next time we saw each other in Orchard, he saw me and walked towards me, I turned my head away.
  
  Good luck to you, hope you have a good time meeting your ex. Do u think she still like u?
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 15:39

  Originally posted by qlqq9:

  anyway, he was kind of fed up cos things not happening according to his way. He is not a good keep for even a normal friend. A irresponsible soul! After our meeting, the next time we saw each other in Orchard, he saw me and walked towards me, I turned my head away.
  
  Good luck to you, hope you have a good time meeting your ex. Do u think she still like u?

  Deep inside there's definitely this hope that she'll still like me. I'll be lying if I say otherwise. But I wouldn't know. She always have this independent streak in her. Even if she is/is not, I don't think I can find out unless she choses to let me.
• qlqq9

  24 Jul 07, 15:40

  Originally posted by forforman:

  Deep inside there's definitely this hope that she'll still like me. I'll be lying if I say otherwise. But I wouldn't know. She always have this independent streak in her. Even if she is/is not, I don't think I can find out unless she choses to let me.

  so do u think you wanna find out? does your current gf know about the meeting tomorrow?
• de_middle

  24 Jul 07, 15:41

  Originally posted by forforman:

  definitely. I mean there is nothing going on between both of us. I luv my current gf, and we're rom-ing next year.
  
  But I just feel terribly excited meeting my ex.
  
  Maybe I should cancel it after all.

  still need to exercise control.......ROM so what, u ever heard of last minute back out
• de_middle

  24 Jul 07, 15:42

  Originally posted by eagle:

  What's wrong with meeting for lunch only?
  
  You scared then bring your gf along lor...
  
  Why read so much into a simple lunch...? Can't friends just meet for lunch/dinner?

  nothing wrong, we can't tell from here...only TS knows
• alleggerita

  24 Jul 07, 15:42

  I also always very excited when I know I'm going to see my ex girlfriend..don't ask me why..maybe because she was my first love..
  
  But anyways, me and her are single..so I don't feel guilty feeling "excited" when I see her..
  
  Added: And I'm actually in kind of active contact with her even after breaking up for about one year already..maybe will go woo her back..
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 15:51

  Originally posted by qlqq9:

  so do u think you wanna find out? does your current gf know about the meeting tomorrow?

  mmmm... you ask tough questions..... I don't have an answer to the first one yet...
  
  Answer to the second one is yes.
  
  
• qlqq9

  24 Jul 07, 15:54

  Originally posted by forforman:

  mmmm... you ask tough questions..... I don't have an answer to the first one yet...
  
  Answer to the second one is yes.
  
  

  oh oh!! so now think you are "aimei" with your ex, oOr!!!! but serious, you must know where you stand and be prepared, if she wanna you back, you must think what will u do.
• Viper`

  24 Jul 07, 15:58

  I admire your courage.
• forforman

  24 Jul 07, 16:09

  Seriously I don't think that's what she wants. But if she really wanna come back together, I'll tell her it is not possible now. That is the only thing that can happen.
  
  Thanks for the comments people. Gotton go meet my boss now. Maybe I'll be back in here when I'm home.
• FireIce

  24 Jul 07, 16:13

  if it's so awkward, why bother to agree to the lunch?
• NYPD^blue

  24 Jul 07, 16:16

  It's just lunch, besides time, what do u haf to lose?