anyone's parent has no house?
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anybody whose parent has nvr own a house ?
used to rent from hdb, then stay in other pples' home..now son got house, so must seek refuge with son ?
it nvr trigger them tat the son might not welcome them, or the son find it stressful ..cos they both retired, not working..
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it is every childs son to support the parents in old age whether they did provide for them when they are young it not.
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never forsake ur own parents...pleaseOriginally posted by tutu2:anybody whose parent has nvr own a house ?
used to rent from hdb, then stay in other pples' home..now son got house, so must seek refuge with son ?
it nvr trigger them tat the son might not welcome them, or the son find it stressful ..cos they both retired, not working.. 
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were your parents the sort to spend unnecessarily.
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i m not talking abt forsaking parents..just want to know whether got such people exist..nvr plan for the worst..plan for their own life. they nvr take care of their parent bcos of financial problem but expect their children to do so..provide & support them financially....the son's financial also so so ..so the son dun dare to have children now..
what if the son turn out to be bad apple..then how?
i mean they pin all their hope on the 2 sons..one already forsaken them..by not allowing them to stay with him, not visiting them. So the only one left is so stRessEd..wonder did this ever hit their mind
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sounds terrible.....
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i am not talking abt my parents..heheOriginally posted by cApitaland:were your parents the sort to spend unnecessarily.
nope, they are rather thrifty..just lazy..cos stop working..dun like to go out unless got car..everyday watch TV at home..at least..mayb 12hour TV ? -
u mean who is terrible ? the son (A or B) or parents?Originally posted by de_middle:sounds terrible..... -
Stressful also must support. Who supported you while you are young and not working at all?
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i just want to know whether got this kind of people exist..they have totally no savings at all..pin all hopes on the sons..i mean they are taking a very HIGH RISK
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i already say is no ME..hahaaaOriginally posted by caleb_chiang:Stressful also must support. Who supported you while you are young and not working at all? 
i still haben got an answer
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of cos got every kind of human in this world.
if not, there wont be poor ple oredi.
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the situation, glad i'm not in such a situation....for myself i rather be financially independent rather than depend on childrenOriginally posted by tutu2:u mean who is terrible ? the son (A or B) or parents? -
that mean in this forum there is no such personOriginally posted by Cool-gal:of cos got every kind of human in this world.
if not, there wont be poor ple oredi.
its life.
only the couple i mention..wah, they champion !!
btw, the son who stays with them wants to downgrade and sell house due to financial stress...but dunno where to house them..so he stuck..have not yet tell them his plan..so poor thing -
My In-laws has no house. They do not think about future and along with staying in my house, my MIL disallow me to decor it as I want, declare she's the queen of the house and if I want to move out, I should continue to pay for the mortage to allow her to stay in my house and lastly, she demanded payment of 300 from me every month because she felt I make a lot of money as a easy life of an office worker and therefore I am obligated to pay her money to enjoy herself and pay for her eldest son's children.
I have only 1 thing to say. Good people die early. Bad ones hang around and make life a living hell for others. -
hi misty blue..
ur mil sound worst..do u hv any children? why dun she stay w her elder children ? does she has any saving ? if yes, u can ask her buy her own flat .
how abt ur fil ? what abt ur hb? why did u allow them to stay with you in first place? -
duno good or bad news, the evil dil is pregnant,hopefully pil dun brg her bb here
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the least anyone can do for their parents are to support them when they are old...
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I am worse my parent own a house but rather go relative house stay.Originally posted by tutu2:anybody whose parent has nvr own a house ?
used to rent from hdb, then stay in other pples' home..now son got house, so must seek refuge with son ?
it nvr trigger them tat the son might not welcome them, or the son find it stressful ..cos they both retired, not working..
Own house let it empty and rufuse to rent out...
You are lucky your parents are staying with you my parents are staying with relative and I have to rent my own room outside... -
i was just thinking...
let's say there's this guy who is now 30 years old...he worked hard and in the end, became the VP of a very successful bank.
However, his childhood is the worst u ever heard. He got sexually abused by his dad up to 5 years old but he kep quiet about it.. During his primary school, he never had his own textbooks but he persevered by staying back after school and revised using his teachers' materials. he had an irregular allowance in primary school with the most he can get was $1 for three days... He tried to supplement his allowance by collecting cardboard and tin cans when he was free and selling them to the karung guni.. But his parents caught him and took all of his "income" and spend it on booze and cigarettes.. Secondary school was worse, he got abused and beaten up by his parents when they were in drunken stupor... he never had allowance...and is reduced to eating his classmates leftover or "dont wants" during recess.. Drinks are just melted cups of ice water or plain water with ice... Again, he had no money for textbooks or other exam materials or even stationery.. getting stationery, he had to resort to freebies such as "free pens" in a promotion or road shows... He never had the chance to date as his free time will be in the library revising or working.. He worked his 4 years in secondary school to supplement his income..sometimes working up to 15 hours..again, his parents took most of it...he saved the rest in a savings account which he kept from his parents...
Then after sec sch, he got into a good jc..good jc means using up more and more money.. luckily for him, he made an "adopted mother" in the form of his civics tutor who found out about his background and paid up most of his education...When he stayed over his adopted mum's place for a few weeks, his parents couldnt care less and didnt ask about him...
Now he's 30 reaching 31..earning almost 30-35k per month..he found out his adopted mum was down with stage 3 cancer and requiring much of his attention.. the worse part was that his real parents are also down with stage 3 cancer and they begged him to pay for their treatments because THEY ARE his real parents...
now what should he do? when he told me his story, i teared because he's 30 plus and good looking, he never had the chance to enjoy life's pleasures such as dating..he didnt even buy a car...now he's torn between two parties..his adopted mum told him to ignore her and care for his real parents for they are his real parents... but his real parents didnt even care for him abit ever in his life...
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My parents have no savings. They did not have high education but worked their ass off to support my brothers and I through school. I am glad to be able to support them in return now. Not sure what you are trying to say with this thread...Originally posted by tutu2:i just want to know whether got this kind of people exist..they have totally no savings at all..pin all hopes on the sons..i mean they are taking a very HIGH RISK -
sounds like the situation tht might happen to me...
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which situation are u referring ?Originally posted by cApitaland:sounds like the situation tht might happen to me... -
i mean dun you find them pitiful that they do not have any savings, house. if both son dun want them, how?Originally posted by Kachui:My parents have no savings. They did not have high education but worked their ass off to support my brothers and I through school. I am glad to be able to support them in return now. Not sure what you are trying to say with this thread...
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single parent low income. den move in wif mi later. has no thoughts about the future now. barely managing as the days go by. no insurance. probably has no retirement funds.Originally posted by tutu2:which situation are u referring ?
parents moving in might happen la in the future wen i get finish ns, clear bond and get a job.