dude, do put yourself in their shoes. how would you like it if your mum was the butt end of an ugly rumour?Originally posted by newcomer:
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:dude, do put yourself in their shoes. how would you like it if your mum was the butt end of an ugly rumour?
like she prostituted herself to raise her kids etc.
and even though she didn't do it, but everywhere she goes, old uncles and aunties whispering to each other, updating each other about this false information, thinking that it was the truth.
really man, you guys seriously suck if you think everything you say is funny and life is fun and games.
nope. i don't really enjoy their worship. and it doesn't have the warm warm family feeling there. my church is just above chc's current locationOriginally posted by noahnoah:dumbdumb from chc?
X 2 .....Originally posted by dumbdumb!:its not about making you look like a bad guy, or a mad guy or whatever.
its about pointing something out to you which you may not be aware of. rumours do harm people.
and that phrase about conscience being clear is rubbish.
false information still spreads around, and people are going to believe them because its so delicious. even if your conscience is clear, your reputation is still going to take a hit, and its just ugly la.
i mean, suddenly someone got bored and decide to say something like "sun ho was caught in adultery" with no basis of evidence or truth. its going to hurt her reputation EVEN if she didn't do it. and with people like you spreading rumour without checking for truth.. and adding bits and pieces to make the news even juicier..
please la, you're not a kid, grow up and think before you speak.
yeah. God will deal with them ever so severely if they are being bad stewards. after all, we all have to give an account to Him in the end.Originally posted by Mid9Sun:X 2 .....
Alot of ppl underestimate the damage vicious rumors can do even tho it is false...
Its similar to when a innocent guy who is accused of molest/rape. Even tho he may be cleared by the court but it may be too late.
As for Sun Ho.....I dont agree with what she and her hubby doing, but let karma (or God) deal with them in time........
I am ex chcOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:nope. i don't really enjoy their worship. and it doesn't have the warm warm family feeling there. my church is just above chc's current location
and i don't like sun ho's new image too, just to set things straight.
but i really don't condone spreading rumours just because you don't like someone.![]()
i went there like 4 times. 2 christmas shows and 2 service.Originally posted by noahnoah:I am ex chc![]()
How can owning 30 apartments be ugly? Unless you are suggesting that Sun Ho and his husband have used church money for their personal investment.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:its not about being a sinner or not, its just very ugly business to have to explain yourself even though you're innocent.
and surely you're not as naive to believe that as long as your conscience is clear, one day the truth will be out? imagine if one day someone spread rumour said your mum was a prostitute etc, and you know that its not true. can you say that "if you're not a sinner, nothing to be afraid?"? even if your conscience is clear, people will still look at you with a dirty look, and its an unpleasant feeling, no matter how you know that its not true. it just sucks to be in that position la.
anyway it still doesn't give you an excuse to spread ugly rumour when you have no idea if its true or not.
spreading rumour is wrong and ugly, and nothing can justify it
I was in chc for 6 yearsOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:i went there like 4 times. 2 christmas shows and 2 service.
its alright la, but i prefer a family church. where everyone's a father, mother and sibling to you.
i like their christmas shows.![]()
if it isn't ugly, it wouldn't have been worth your effort to post it. come on la. you know very well that you didn't create this topic just to share with us your insights on the property market.Originally posted by Gazelle:How can owning 30 apartments be ugly? Unless you are suggesting that Sun Ho and his husband have used church money for their personal investment.
lol why? because you own an oversized boat?Originally posted by noahnoah:I was in chc for 6 years
I am a WANTED person there![]()
Forgive him that he do not know what he is doingOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:if it isn't ugly, it wouldn't have been worth your effort to post it. come on la. you know very well that you didn't create this topic just to share with us your insights on the property market.
and another thing, there isn't any news which said ANYTHING about them owning 30 apartments, or them being investigated.
you probably spun this tale yourself. and that's the ugly part. i used the word probably, because i'm usually not updated about current affairs. until there's a written news report about them getting investigated, then i'll be more forgiving to your reckless comments.
lolOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:lol why? because you own an oversized boat?![]()
that's why i find it hard to accept. because he's not a retard and he's not a child.Originally posted by noahnoah:Forgive him that he do not know what he is doing![]()
that's why got extra big parking lot mah.Originally posted by noahnoah:lol
too big cant fit inside the church![]()
Lets wait for the news loh...Originally posted by dumbdumb!:that's why i find it hard to accept. because he's not a retard and he's not a child.
a retard sprouting rubbish can be forgiven because he really doesn't know any better. and kids sprout rubbish because they're kids, they too, don't know any better.
but people like newcomer and gazelle, they aren't kids anymore, and they certainly aren't retards. how do i accept such stupidity from them?
exactly, if its not in the news, then where did you hear this news about them owning 30 apartments and being investigated from?Originally posted by Gazelle:Lets wait for the news loh...
Give me a break dude...Originally posted by Freedom Fighter:the money should be handed over to the SAF and more funds should be used to make more camps and such a a mighty force would be cause even the biggest troops to tremble in fear.
the day we go to war, let no enemy have hope ever, and no light to be seen for them because we are the very best.
SAF: THE DECISIVE FORCE
lol, so randomOriginally posted by Freedom Fighter:the money should be handed over to the SAF and more funds should be used to make more camps and such a a mighty force would be cause even the biggest troops to tremble in fear.
the day we go to war, let no enemy have hope ever, and no light to be seen for them because we are the very best.
SAF: THE DECISIVE FORCE