If you have a disabled child
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Got a curious question to ask..
Suppose you are a girl and you are preganant and the doctor told you that your child is disabled meaning that he/she will be born disabled either physically like being blind etc or mentally disabled.
What will you do?
Suppose you are the guy and the doctor tell you and your pregnant wife that your child is disabled meaning that he/she will be born disabled either physically like being blind etc or mentally disabled.
what will you do or tell your wife to do? -
man i dont know...
if the baby is being born, the baby will suffer, and so do the parents... imagine the burden...
if dont give birth to the baby, it's like killing your own child...
but bo bian, imo, i'll take option 1. If not both side will suffer.. -
therefore best not to have
children at all
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sometimes it is not as simple as that..Originally posted by noahnoah:therefore best not to have
children at all
whenever I see parents with such children, I often take a closer look at the parents for they really deserved my respect.
They did not take the easy way out and just try to stay in their hole.
Instead they bravely took the bold move and embrace life.
These children also have their own lives and are God's children.
However, I strongly believe that sometimes, you get a door shut, but you get many windows open. -
It depends on the medical condition. If this is just an exception and the next one will be healthy...
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you talk like a christianOriginally posted by iceFatboy:sometimes it is not as simple as that..
whenever I see parents with such children, I often take a closer look at the parents for they really deserved my respect.
They did not take the easy way out and just try to stay in their hole.
Instead they bravely took the bold move and embrace life.
These children also have their own lives and are God's children.
However, I strongly believe that sometimes, you get a door shut, but you get many windows open.
are you one ? -
i agree.Originally posted by iceFatboy:sometimes it is not as simple as that..
whenever I see parents with such children, I often take a closer look at the parents for they really deserved my respect.
They did not take the easy way out and just try to stay in their hole.
Instead they bravely took the bold move and embrace life.
These children also have their own lives and are God's children.
However, I strongly believe that sometimes, you get a door shut, but you get many windows open.
i believe that they deserve a chance to live too. its not your right to choose if someone lives or die. -
well said! Ah puiOriginally posted by iceFatboy:sometimes it is not as simple as that..
whenever I see parents with such children, I often take a closer look at the parents for they really deserved my respect.
They did not take the easy way out and just try to stay in their hole.
Instead they bravely took the bold move and embrace life.
These children also have their own lives and are God's children.
However, I strongly believe that sometimes, you get a door shut, but you get many windows open.
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it depend on when u know ur child will be disable ba.. if the later stage.. den better not ... but if just like less than 2 month.. she can make a decision... but.. still cruel wor
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i dont knw man,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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there is only one choice left....
just let the child be born......
if less than 4 month old than maybe can eject......
if not i would consider it murder...... -
if it's meant to be like that, then i have to accept it
im sure the child is gifted in some way -
wah from the pragmatic fipig!!!Originally posted by FireIce:if it's meant to be like that, then i have to accept it
im sure the child is gifted in some way
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Kill it...
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Depends. Yes everyone deserves to live. But if you know the child gonna feel constant pain for life till he/she dies, then i rather have he/she abort.
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this is a v gd qns...
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haha..Originally posted by TehJarVu:wah from the pragmatic fipig!!!
pragmatic..
hmm, me.. i will choose to abort..
i can't stand the though of the kid suffering..
and my partner feeling sad and blaming herself -
Your parents must have said that to the doctor but he or she must have misheard themOriginally posted by Herzog_Zwei:Kill it...
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tell me the truth............ do u miz me?
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are you ditzy???Originally posted by 0ut of P0int:tell me the truth............ do u miz me? -
either ways, it's still a hard decision.
you ask me to imagine, simple. i will stop imagining. =) -
Lord of battle I pray on bended knee
Conquest by the rising sun
I will wait for thy command with flame and blood at hand
Glory and a broken sword.
I am the master of the world I have no fear of man or beast
Born inside the soul of the world
Riding hard breaking bone
With steel and stone
Eternal might I was born to wield.
Let us drink to the battles we have lived and we have fought
Celebrate the pain and havoc we have wrought
Great heroes charge into the fight
From the north to the south
In the black of night
The clash of honor calls to stand when others fall
Gods of war feel the power of my sword
Fierce is my blade fierce is my hate
Born to die in battle
I laugh at my fate
Now pay in blood when your blood has been spilled
You are never forgiven
Death is fulfilled !
The clash of honor calls to stand when others fall
Gods of war feel the power of my sword
The clash of honor calls
I will stand when others fall
Open magic doors
The will know the power of my sword
There is blood in my hands
There is blood in my eyes
With blood in my voice
I scream as you die
Thirsting for vengeance and mounds of the slain
Shaking the forest onto the plain
Fierce is my blade fierce is my hate
Born to die in battle
I laugh at my fate
Now pay in blood when your blood has been spilled
Youre never forgiven death is fulfilled !
The clash of honor calls to stand when others fall
Gods of war feel the power of my sword -
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Perform euthanasia and abort the abberration. Many people'll refuse to accept him due to these deficiencies he possesses....
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Who will care for the child after you pass away?