Given you this problem what will you do?
You get to know "A" first in IRC. You know she is the one. You know you are close to make her your gf but suddenly she gave you a cold shoulder. You are dispress and decide to leave for China
In China you met someone better and nicer than A which is B. Relationship is stable and soon planning for marriage.
Come back Singapore, work a few months and finally met A again.
Still find have some feeling for A.
What will you do? Dump B and go for A? or Continue with B and dont tell A about it.
B cause she didnt treat u nicer
Originally posted by antoh:Given you this problem what will you do?
You get to know "A" first in IRC. You know she is the one. You know you are close to make her your gf but suddenly she gave you a cold shoulder. You are dispress and decide to leave for China
In China you met someone better and nicer than A which is B. Relationship is stable and soon planning for marriage.
Come back Singapore, work a few months and finally met A again.
Still find have some feeling for A.
What will you do? Dump B and go for A? or Continue with B and dont tell A about it.
Well, why did you leave for China merely because A gave you the cold shoulders?
Anyway i think A is better ; like u said, u2 click better
I personally feel that no one in fact can answer on your choice. That's your own decision.
However i'm just curious, you mentioned you have plans to settle down with B, and why is the re-appearance of A so easily affecting you? If that's the case, guess maybe B is not what you wanted. Perhaps you should ask yourself your choice of a companionship or a desired love?
easy, kill yourself.
this thread is not simple
mayb u will turn gay
u wait for C to appear
...or D
Originally posted by Zarks:...or D
...or E
become a gay
wah TS, so confusing ar u love life
Originally posted by huzane89:wah TS, so confusing ar u love life
one glance at the thread and you know that this guy is not serious about love
Make A Singapore wife and B China wife
ps - make sure they never meet
Originally posted by angel7030:
...or E
...or F
take B
but keep A as mistress ![]()
Find out why A initially gave you the cold shoulder first.
really have to think wat u really really one... Think for the next 80 years to come...
Originally posted by sjj1991:...or F
...or G
Originally posted by angel7030:
...or G
If he don't know why people reject him, give him HIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ also no use.
thats very true.
and i am very grateful to my wife.
during the days in china, without her i think i could have been sleeping along the streets.
without her i wont come back to make a living and survive.
Dont dress it up as a lingering desire and confuse yourself.
those that slipped your hands will always make you gian one lah.
human nature.
Curious ma. All the what might have beens.
You get to know "A" first in IRC.
Talk is cheap. Talk is frivolous. Talk is superficial.
You know she is the one.
Base on IRC, and my definition of 'talk', you can't really know if she's the one.
You know you are close to make her your gf...
Close to MAKE her your gf? Have you asked her? And a relationship based on your IRC?
...but suddenly she gave you a cold shoulder. You are dispress and decide to leave for China
Gave you cold shoulder cos you do not quite fit her bill?
In China you met someone better and nicer than A which is B. Relationship is stable and soon planning for marriage.
Good for you. But you sound fickle-minded.
Come back Singapore, work a few months and finally met A again. Still find have some feeling for A.
Ok, confirmed fickle-minded.
What will you do? Dump B and go for A? or Continue with B and dont tell A about it.
Some gals here will call you a jerk. But I'll break the norm. I'm a guy and I'll still call you a jerk.
P.S. Jerk
no la
of coz not we spend quite a few months together