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A SG male divorcee cited:
Having stupidly married a Singaporean woman – seven years of monotonous robotic accents, mechanical sex and mind-numbingly repetitive conversations about Lee Kuan Yew, Singapore’s “superiority” over other Asian nations and how Singapore had become “first world” thanks to hard work and “discipline,” I can confirm that Singapore is the last place you should look for female company.
The idea of svelte Asian honeys with a decent education and adequate English skills looks great – on paper. (Much like Singapore itself, where the theory is far more attractive than the real thing.) But Singaporeans have taken the worst of all worlds, and created a uniquely charmless national character that is all their own.
The experience of being married to one of the island automatons was so bad that the idea of suicide seriously crossed my mind on literally dozens of occasions.
The day of our divorce – the happiest day of my life so far – coincided with her birthday. To this day, I make sure to send her a big bunch of roses every year on this most auspicious of anniversaries.
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Increasing numbers of Singaporean men are marrying foreign women who are viewed as more demure and accommodating, a report said yesterday. Malaysians currently form the bulk of the foreign brides but Vietnamese and Chinese are gaining ground. Men queried by The Sunday Times said they want a woman who will put family and husband first, instead of demanding condominiums, cars and credit cards. Figures showed 6,520 males and permanent residents married foreign woman last year, a quarter of all marriages -
Edited by Catknight 09 Mar `08, 11:13AM
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Don says: Was once in China (Shenzen), not that many ladies, went to this bar/nightclub and alas sitting on the bar counter were some attactive looking women, I did the man thing and went over to say howzit. After the introductions sure enough they asked for a whole bottle of tequila and sure enough they were from Singapore with their as if western accents. When she says she’s from singapore …run don’t walk.
Edited by Catknight 09 Mar `08, 11:17AM
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Originally posted by Catknight:
Don says: Was once in China (Shenzen), not that many ladies, went to this bar/nightclub and alas sitting on the bar counter were some attactive looking women, I did the man thing and went over to say howzit. After the introductions sure enough they asked for a whole bottle of tequila and sure enough they were from Singapore with their as if western accents. When she says she’s from singapore …run don’t walk.
The problem is with men, they love and choose girls becoz of their look......blind love i would say.......know who you are marrying before marrying them......if you marry, have sex, then comlpain that they are very demanding, then its your fucking problem in the first place.....dun blame sg women....blame yourself for not knowing better
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It really depends on the type of marriage you're looking for.
Isn't it a blessing to have a wife who can discuss politics and current affairs with you? My girlfriend is a tremendously intellectual person who has unique opinions on many issues, and this is probably one of the reasons why I'm so in love with her.
The guy featured in the article seems more interested in sex which isn't "mechanical".
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Li says: A female colleague of mine once remarked that the reason why Singapore men went for China girls was because we couldn’t handle the high standards of Singapore women. I had to bite my lip hard (MD was a woman) and not tell her that the only difference between the Singapore girl and her Chinese counterpart was PRICE. The China girls may have been materialistic but they were at least good looking and had the ability to make a decent and educated conversation, which their more educated Singapore counterparts could not.
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Originally posted by Deino:
i see the same type of thread millions of times over.....
sgwomen too demanding
does prayer help
questions about existance
very irritating.....history here literally repeats itself
The thing is down here in SG you can't talk race, religion and politics OB markers so you talk realtionships loh...
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after having chased after a few girls in singapore during my teens and early 20s, i say marrying a singaporean woman is not worth it...
what u pay is not what u get...
i have travelled to many countries, i must say the women there are simply more gorgeous
and the price u pay for them is well worth it...well some o them u dont even need to pay
a price....they come for who u are not yr wallet
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Originally posted by Melbournite:
after having chased after a few girls in singapore during my teens and early 20s, i say marrying a singaporean woman is not worth it...
what u pay is not what u get...
i have travelled to many countries, i must say the women there are simply more gorgeous
and the price u pay for them is well worth it...well some o them u dont even need to pay
a price....they come for who u are not yr wallet
you're making it sound like they are electronic goods.......
you can go to every corner of the world and find women who are as you say not worth it......
like i said a dozens of times, dun complain of the women here.....do some research on her before you marry her......lucky this is not japan...if not all those men who divorce or kena divorce will die with so much dishonour
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Probably a universal phenomena for men and women alike.
Met some korean guys who reflect they'd never go for women their own kind. Reason being they're ugly, need to go under the knife, cannot even cook etc.
American guys and some Vietnamese colleagues born and bred in Oz and Nz prefer Korean women who are petite, gorgeous and more demure.
Irish and Australians prefer Asian women.
English men say too many of their own kinds like to 'up' themselves, are way too cocky for their liking.
Female ang moh expats mock at their own kind for 'going local' here in Singapore.
The list goes on.
Edited by soleachip 09 Mar `08, 2:08PM
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Originally posted by Uncertain:
Fcuk la, CatKnight... U got nothing better to do than whining go and get a prostitute to fuck. U mindless maggot.
U only know how to complain but dun know how to improve yourself.
I won't say all sggirls are good, at least there is one out there for me.
can u tell him how e can improve himself when
in singapore that is extremely difficult here. Simple reason - the environment we live in.
Opportunities are limited
High cost of living
unstable economy
Killing entrepuenership
what u can really do in singapore
1) contend with some minor 1st world comforts
2)Pay for a service called education which gives u a piece of paper stating yr meritocratic worth
3) worries after worries about yr future even if u are educated or not educated at all
Its easy to shoot him, but giving solutions is not easy. Both men and women from singapore emigrate
whats left are people who cant do the above due to their own limitations. In other words, whats left are scraps
Edited by Melbournite 09 Mar `08, 2:19PM
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Originally posted by Melbournite:
can u tell him how e can improve himself when
in singapore
Opportunities are limited
High cost of living
unstable economy
Killing entrepuenership
Its easy to shoot him, but giving solutions is not easy. Both men and women from singapore emigrate
whats left are people who cant do the above due to their own limitations. In other words, whats left are scraps
Even if what's left are scraps, that doesn't mean the leftovers should be limited to 'narcissistic, ill bred, monotonous, mechanical and charmless' Singaporean women.
Where shall they start?

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Originally posted by Melbournite:
can u tell him how e can improve himself when
in singapore that is extremely difficult here. Simple reason - the environment we live in.
Opportunities are limited
High cost of living
unstable economy
Killing entrepuenership
what u can really do in singapore
1) contend with some minor 1st world comforts
2)Pay for a service called education which gives u a piece of paper stating yr meritocratic worth
3) worries after worries about yr future even if u are educated or not educated at all
Its easy to shoot him, but giving solutions is not easy. Both men and women from singapore emigrate
whats left are people who cant do the above due to their own limitations. In other words, whats left are scraps
Does it mean that Singapore has no hope for improvement given so many courses to upgrade yourself?Are u suggesting that all sggirls are so materialistic that if u are a beggar means confirm no wife?
Being a beggar turns gals off, not because they are poor is because they dun have the motivation to provide the gals with BASIC NEEDS. They just want to waste their life.
I also nv get a sggirl as my gf before but did i condemn them? NO. We can say that sggals are materialistic or what, but are all of them like that? Some are pure jerks, u just have to learn to identify those before u suffer.
Catknight deserves scolding because he always post MEANINGLESS AND MINDLESS thread about sggals are how bad, how materialistic. But look at him, he is NOT DIFFERENT from the local gals he asserts. He is just as demanding as the local gals, if he just wants a wife, get an average one also can what, why must be hot and chio?
Worst still, no $$ no look no brain still want sggals to pity him? All humans got expectation about the other half, the only thing u can do is to satisfy it. The gals can live without u, can u do likewise? If so, stop posting this kind of damn thread.
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Originally posted by Uncertain:
Does it mean that Singapore has no hope for improvement given so many courses to upgrade yourself?Are u suggesting that all sggirls are so materialistic that if u are a beggar means confirm no wife?
Being a beggar turns gals off, not because they are poor is because they dun have the motivation to provide the gals with BASIC NEEDS. They just want to waste their life.
I also nv get a sggirl as my gf before but did i condemn them? NO. We can say that sggals are materialistic or what, but are all of them like that? Some are pure jerks, u just have to learn to identify those before u suffer.
Catknight deserves scolding because he always post MEANINGLESS AND MINDLESS thread about sggals are how bad, how materialistic. But look at him, he is NOT DIFFERENT from the local gals he asserts. He is just as demanding as the local gals, if he just wants a wife, get an average one also can what, why must be hot and chio?
Worst still, no $$ no look no brain still want sggals to pity him? All humans got expectation about the other half, the only thing u can do is to satisfy it. The gals can live without u, can u do likewise? If so, stop posting this kind of damn thread.
agreed. x2
me sarpot uu
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Originally posted by Uncertain:
Does it mean that Singapore has no hope for improvement given so many courses to upgrade yourself?Are u suggesting that all sggirls are so materialistic that if u are a beggar means confirm no wife?
Being a beggar turns gals off, not because they are poor is because they dun have the motivation to provide the gals with BASIC NEEDS. They just want to waste their life.
I also nv get a sggirl as my gf before but did i condemn them? NO. We can say that sggals are materialistic or what, but are all of them like that? Some are pure jerks, u just have to learn to identify those before u suffer.
Catknight deserves scolding because he always post MEANINGLESS AND MINDLESS thread about sggals are how bad, how materialistic. But look at him, he is NOT DIFFERENT from the local gals he asserts. He is just as demanding as the local gals, if he just wants a wife, get an average one also can what, why must be hot and chio?
Worst still, no $$ no look no brain still want sggals to pity him? All humans got expectation about the other half, the only thing u can do is to satisfy it. The gals can live without u, can u do likewise? If so, stop posting this kind of damn thread.
see the parts in REd...Let me tell ya Hope is a dangerous thing...Hope mostly works when positive signs have shown..U cannot base on Hope when nothing is in sight, Blind Hope that is
1st red Part : Yes u can upgrade all u want but there is something fundamentally wrong with our society economically and politically eg. liberal FT policy, disruptive NS activities correct those problems first..
2nd red part: SG women dont want Basic needs, what they really want are EXCEEDING NEEDS like CARS< CREDIT CARDS< CONDOS.
Besides both men and women have problem meeting daily ends meets let alone retirement ( refer to the 1st part on why)
Edited by Melbournite 09 Mar `08, 3:21PM
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