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  • Catknight
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    • 16 Mar `08, 6:13PM

      Sometimes life can be cruel...I think I've a crush on a married woman in my church group..and the group leader may be her spouse..

      Do you guys think it's wrong to hold such thoughts about a married woman?Feel like confessing my sins to the priest..

  • Catknight
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  • Daisuke-kun
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  • Catknight
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  • Lorry`
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  • Catknight
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    • 16 Mar `08, 6:34PM

      Lol...I just don't think it's right to have a crush over a married woman, especially if she's the wife of your church group IC

  • Medicated Oil
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    • 16 Mar `08, 7:02PM

      Just accept it and move on.

      It is normal to be attracted to some ladies in your life.

      Even if the person is married or attached.

      There is nothing sinful about having emotions, just dun carry it further.

  • Catknight
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    • 16 Mar `08, 7:15PM

      Thanks guys ,it seems that calling from saigon is getting stronger..just don't have what it takes to make it into the list of
      SG women...what to do?angel.png

      Edited by Catknight 16 Mar `08, 7:15PM
  • Deino
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    • 16 Mar `08, 11:11PM

      no wrong in holding such thoughts....besides, you're only human....

      wot may be worng is wot you might do.......

  • GHoST_18
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  • Resentment
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  • rlsh07
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    • 16 Mar `08, 11:26PM

      it's a crush meaning u are infatuated with her? because of her looks or wat. i mean it's ok to have a crush on someone but then pls do not take action because ultimately she is someone else wife so ultimately you just have to move on n find another one

  • kengkia
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  • dumbdumb!
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  • rlsh07
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    • 17 Mar `08, 1:51AM
      Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

      having a crush isn't a sin. but lust is.


      haha i tot u go to slp le?

  • pigsticker
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    • 17 Mar `08, 1:55AM
      Originally posted by Catknight:

      Thanks guys ,it seems that calling from saigon is getting stronger..just don't have what it takes to make it into the list of
      SG women...what to do?angel.png

      i think shanghai is nicer icon_mrgreen.gif

  • dumbdumb!
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    • 17 Mar `08, 2:04AM
      Originally posted by rlsh07:


      haha i tot u go to slp le?

      procrastination okok going now

  • Alucard101
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    • 17 Mar `08, 2:50AM

      As long as u keep it to urself,shudnt be a problem.Most likely will pass away like it began.

  • mancha
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    • 17 Mar `08, 3:08AM

      There is nothing wrong.

      Just keep it to yourself, and admire her from a distance.

      Don't for get to pray for her.angel.png

  • bryanw
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  • Hello Kitty
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  • sand king
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    • 17 Mar `08, 8:43AM

      Nope. it isnt. Acting on that crush is a sin. Ect asking her for sex (when you already know shes married).

  • Beyond Religion
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    • 17 Mar `08, 8:52AM
      Originally posted by Resentment:

      what if next time some ppl have a crush on ur wife? think abt this.


      Happened to me a few times. I think my wife is very average looking but somehow guys around her seem to have a tendency to develop crushes on her.

      My reaction? Strangely, I feel flattered. confused.png

       

  • angel7030
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    • 17 Mar `08, 9:25AM
      Originally posted by Beyond Religion:


      Happened to me a few times. I think my wife is very average looking but somehow guys around her seem to have a tendency to develop crushes on her.

      My reaction? Strangely, I feel flattered. confused.png

       

      True, same, my married aunt told me, average looking married women also hv a crush on other men.

  • angel7030
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    • 17 Mar `08, 9:27AM
      Originally posted by Catknight:

      Sometimes life can be cruel...I think I've a crush on a married woman in my church group..and the group leader may be her spouse..

      Do you guys think it's wrong to hold such thoughts about a married woman?Feel like confessing my sins to the priest..


      What crushes?, orange or strawberry crush?

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