Sometimes life can be cruel...I think I've a crush on a married woman in my church group..and the group leader may be her spouse..
Do you guys think it's wrong to hold such thoughts about a married woman?Feel like confessing my sins to the priest..
Anyone of you guys have that expereince and done a confession?
yes.
having to crush any woman is a sin
Oh well...maybe the ring in her finger may be for adornment...but unlikely
if thats the case, i've committed countless sins then. ![]()
Lol...I just don't think it's right to have a crush over a married woman, especially if she's the wife of your church group IC
Just accept it and move on.
It is normal to be attracted to some ladies in your life.
Even if the person is married or attached.
There is nothing sinful about having emotions, just dun carry it further.
Thanks guys ,it seems that calling from saigon is getting stronger..just don't have what it takes to make it into the list of
SG women...what to do?![]()
no wrong in holding such thoughts....besides, you're only human....
wot may be worng is wot you might do.......
it's ok..
many ppl are doing it in SB...
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what if next time some ppl have a crush on ur wife? think abt this.
it's a crush meaning u are infatuated with her? because of her looks or wat. i mean it's ok to have a crush on someone but then pls do not take action because ultimately she is someone else wife so ultimately you just have to move on n find another one
no....u not...having a crush with fifi then is a sin...
having a crush isn't a sin. but lust is.
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:having a crush isn't a sin. but lust is.
haha i tot u go to slp le?
Originally posted by Catknight:Thanks guys ,it seems that calling from saigon is getting stronger..just don't have what it takes to make it into the list of
SG women...what to do?
i think shanghai is nicer ![]()
Originally posted by rlsh07:
haha i tot u go to slp le?
procrastination okok going now
As long as u keep it to urself,shudnt be a problem.Most likely will pass away like it began.
There is nothing wrong.
Just keep it to yourself, and admire her from a distance.
Don't for get to pray for her.![]()
it shows the woman u have a crush on is still of value though married. ![]()
it's a sin lah.
Nope. it isnt. Acting on that crush is a sin. Ect asking her for sex (when you already know shes married).
Originally posted by Resentment:what if next time some ppl have a crush on ur wife? think abt this.
Happened to me a few times. I think my wife is very average looking but somehow guys around her seem to have a tendency to develop crushes on her.
My reaction? Strangely, I feel flattered. ![]()
Originally posted by Beyond Religion:
Happened to me a few times. I think my wife is very average looking but somehow guys around her seem to have a tendency to develop crushes on her.My reaction? Strangely, I feel flattered.
True, same, my married aunt told me, average looking married women also hv a crush on other men.
Originally posted by Catknight:Sometimes life can be cruel...I think I've a crush on a married woman in my church group..and the group leader may be her spouse..
Do you guys think it's wrong to hold such thoughts about a married woman?Feel like confessing my sins to the priest..
What crushes?, orange or strawberry crush?