http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 en-US 60 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Stucktoes:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>For once, I do understand what you mean. I have some good-looking female friends. And whenever I make any new friends in the army, there will always be a few horny ones who "intro leh, she damn hot, I wanna bang her!".</p> <p>I mean yeah, we are all horny, me too but thats not the way isn't it? And of course, them girls being my friends, of course I wouldn't say yes to my army friends. I mean, why should I let them fark my friends for fun? They are my friends, girl or not girl, hot or not hot, is also my friend.</p> <p>Then I got "discriminated", saying that all guys are horny, why I must be different and all that nonsense. Basically I couldn't get along with some guys simply because I do not want them to fark my female friends and play with them.</p> <p>And it comes to a point that I started wondering if its even worth all the effort.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Perhaps, you should be asking if your friends are worth keeping.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>If I have to choose between keeping those ju peng gou you and living with a conscience, I'd rather choose the latter.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Tue, 06 May 2008 04:24:15 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8064903 jojobeach http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Stucktoes:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>For once, I do understand what you mean. I have some good-looking female friends. And whenever I make any new friends in the army, there will always be a few horny ones who "intro leh, she damn hot, I wanna bang her!".</p> <p>I mean yeah, we are all horny, me too but thats not the way isn't it? And of course, them girls being my friends, of course I wouldn't say yes to my army friends. I mean, why should I let them fark my friends for fun? They are my friends, girl or not girl, hot or not hot, is also my friend.</p> <p>Then I got "discriminated", saying that all guys are horny, why I must be different and all that nonsense. Basically I couldn't get along with some guys simply because I do not want them to fark my female friends and play with them.</p> <p>And it comes to a point that I started wondering if its even worth all the effort.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>thanks for sharing.</p> Mon, 05 May 2008 18:48:43 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8063509 qlqq9 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by jojobeach:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Yah.. they see their own kind commit atrocities..they only know to keep quiet.</p> <p>&nbsp;Because they have no guts to stand up for what is right.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>For once, I do understand what you mean. I have some good-looking female friends. And whenever I make any new friends in the army, there will always be a few horny ones who "intro leh, she damn hot, I wanna bang her!".</p> <p>I mean yeah, we are all horny, me too but thats not the way isn't it? And of course, them girls being my friends, of course I wouldn't say yes to my army friends. I mean, why should I let them fark my friends for fun? They are my friends, girl or not girl, hot or not hot, is also my friend.</p> <p>Then I got "discriminated", saying that all guys are horny, why I must be different and all that nonsense. Basically I couldn't get along with some guys simply because I do not want them to fark my female friends and play with them.</p> <p>And it comes to a point that I started wondering if its even worth all the effort.</p> Mon, 05 May 2008 18:45:33 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8063502 Stucktoes http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by angel7030:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Hello, for you info, they can't even take our comment not to mention -vely.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The traditional asiatic culture of male chauvanism still exist in many of them.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Sad, but it is reality, what to do.&nbsp;&nbsp; Just ignore them lah.&nbsp;&nbsp; Once you spot anyone of them interested in you and they have attitude, ego problem just try to escape asap.&nbsp;&nbsp; ha ha ha, sometimes this is easier said than done right?&nbsp;</p> Mon, 05 May 2008 14:26:22 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8062908 qlqq9 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by angel7030:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Hello, for you info, they can't even take our comment not to mention -vely.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The traditional asiatic culture of male chauvanism still exist in many of them.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Yah.. they see their own kind commit atrocities..they only know to keep quiet.</p> <p>&nbsp;Because they have no guts to stand up for what is right.</p> Mon, 05 May 2008 14:06:07 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8062873 jojobeach http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by qlqq9:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>In this thread, me for the moment reserve my comments about local men.&nbsp;&nbsp; I find that majority of the local men take comments negatively.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Hello, for you info, they can't even take our comment not to mention -vely.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The traditional asiatic culture of male chauvanism still exist in many of them.</p> Mon, 05 May 2008 14:01:04 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8062859 angel7030 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <p>In this thread, me for the moment reserve my comments about local men.&nbsp;&nbsp; I find that majority of the local men take comments negatively.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p> Mon, 05 May 2008 13:36:45 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8062804 qlqq9 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by jojobeach:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p><br /> Actually, I don't get this Eastern vs Western thing.</p> <p>Back in the 50s, the western male holds the same kinda MCP mentality as eastern male.</p> <p>The only thing different now, is that the western males.. has moved beyond that self serving MCP mentality to accept their partner as their equal.</p> <p>I'm baffled at why the Eastern&nbsp;male&nbsp;refused to progress beyond&nbsp;the traditional mindset ?</p> <p>It's not like we want the SG males to idolize the west.</p> <p>Its&nbsp;about progression as a human being ?</p> <p>You know.. like we used bullock carts back then.. now we drive gasoline vehicles......??</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Beats me too. Some people can't think for themselves and use it as a crutch. *Shrugs*</p> Mon, 05 May 2008 13:26:56 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8062782 Kuali Baba http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <p>NO Ma'aM !</p> <p><br /> National Organisation of Men Against Amazonian Masterhood !</p> <p>Join the Neo Mens Rights Movement</p> Sun, 04 May 2008 08:33:27 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8059870 BadzMaro http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Kuali Baba:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>What's this "westernisation"? The women's rights movement? Beyond a woman's ability to walk away from a relationship, it has nothing to do with divorce rates.</p> <p>Or is it greed and self-centredness? No culture has a monopoly on virtue or vice.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Actually, I don't get this Eastern vs Western thing.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Back in the 50s, the western male holds the same kinda MCP mentality as eastern male.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The only thing different now, is that the western males.. has moved beyond that self serving MCP mentality to accept their partner as their equal.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>I'm baffled at why the Eastern&nbsp;male&nbsp;refused to progress beyond&nbsp;the traditional mindset ?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>It's not like we want the SG males to idolize the west.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Its&nbsp;about progression as a human being ?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>You know.. like we used bullock carts back then.. now we drive gasoline vehicles......??</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Sun, 04 May 2008 08:30:29 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8059868 jojobeach http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Prorated38:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>I think the problem is that Singaporean women are westernising in thinking at a much faster rate than their male counterparts. Westernising create higher divorce rate, more arguments and less tolerance and committement to maintain a relationship.</p> <p>Dating angmor does not mean that the relationship do not mean that they will end up marrying.</p> <p>This is why more Singaporean men ended up marrying woman from Malaysia, China etc. And more Singaporean men and women ended up single or divorce.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>What's this "westernisation"? The women's rights movement? Beyond a woman's ability to walk away from a relationship, it has nothing to do with divorce rates.</p> <p>Or is it greed and self-centredness? No culture has a monopoly on virtue or vice.</p> Sun, 04 May 2008 01:54:02 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8059500 Kuali Baba http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Miracles&amp;Prophecies:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Does the mag have friendly advice for local Sinagporean ruler?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>In case you haven't figured it out, it's 'Masculinity For ("4") Dummies'.</p> <p>But hey, one of them had big-enough gonads to marry a Mister Sister. <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/teeth.png" alt= "teeth.png" /></p> Sun, 04 May 2008 01:41:33 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8059466 Kuali Baba http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Stucktoes:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Did, the "male" includes me.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Kudos to you. <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess/thumbs_up.png" alt= "thumbs_up.png" /></p> Sun, 04 May 2008 01:33:30 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8059425 Kuali Baba http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Miracles&amp;Prophecies:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Does the mag have friendly advice for local Sinagporean ruler?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Good one. but beware, arrows may come pointing at you determining you're changing topic/shifting responsiblities whatever nots. Worst, you're not allowed to defend yourself at all, cause you're stereotyped, and you're are not taking it with a pinch of salt. However, you will be labelled inferior as compared to your expats counterpart who voices his thoughts out.</p> <p>Then again, the fact that people are complaining proves that there's unhappiness felt towards our local chaps. Time to reflect, those false- / un-awared.</p> <p><br /> Now i offend both parties.</p> Sun, 04 May 2008 00:48:30 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8059248 YUII http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Kuali Baba:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>And that's why we have the waiting game and nothing happens...why not give up your seat as a decent human being, and then as a man make a mental note not to date any of those sour faces?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Did, the "male" includes me.</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 17:08:21 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057911 Stucktoes http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <p>Does the mag have friendly advice for local Sinagporean ruler?</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 17:04:55 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057906 Miracles&Prophecies http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <p>Thats why he is HOT!! ma.</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 16:40:57 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057864 seow http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by hisoka:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p><br /> Not sour just pointing out the fallacy of the argument. for some reason a few isolated cases was taken as a reason and justification for soemthign else. doesn't make sense. The post was too illogical to pass up</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>SPG wat. lol.</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 16:20:03 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057820 dumbdumb! http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Hello Kitty:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>y u so sour.</p> <p>dis is her own choice.</p> <p>her words hold sum truth.</p> <p>i knw coz i hold doors for all.</p> <p>n few men hold the door for others.</p> <p>not to say gentlemanly anot bt&nbsp;dis is an act of courtesy.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Not sour just pointing out the fallacy of the argument. for some reason a few isolated cases was taken as a reason and justification for soemthign else. doesn't make sense. The post was too illogical to pass up</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 16:18:12 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057813 hisoka http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Hello Kitty:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>not lealli credit lah.</p> <p>more like neutraliser.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>haha i still don't get it. cuz u refered to some ppl who come in give casual remarks, and those who come in the defend their honour and ego, and those who shift blame to women. but all of them dun give credit in other threads?</p> <p>this part i don't get. what other threads? and what credit or neutralizers?</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 13:46:20 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057470 dumbdumb! http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by elindra:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>As usual, the truth hurts</p> <p>Like in the other threads, you know who takes it personally by the way they post <img src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="icon_lol.gif" /></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>as someone once said. There were 3 cavemen, they see another caveman armed with a spear, screaming bloody murder, one fight, one flees, and one invited him into his cave for some chocolate fondue. the 3rd one didn't live long enough to procreate.</p> <p>so natural human response, fight or flee lor.</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 13:44:10 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057461 dumbdumb! http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <p>not lealli credit lah.</p> <p>more like neutraliser.</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 13:41:43 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057452 Hello Kitty http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Hello Kitty:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>u all realise smtg?</p> <p>in dis 1st thread to men, u can c so many random ppl cmin in to make casual remarks (i.e. defendin demselves).</p> <p>sum &nbsp;说来说去 stil is say demselves good.</p> <p>sum will go on sayin the sayin the same goes for women.</p> <p>but u neber&nbsp;c these same ppl&nbsp;givin us such&nbsp;credits in the other threads.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>what kind of credit are you refering to? <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_question.gif" alt= "icon_question.gif" /></p> Sat, 03 May 2008 13:40:41 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057449 dumbdumb! http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <p>who?</p> Sat, 03 May 2008 13:17:01 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057394 Hello Kitty http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086 <p>As usual, the truth hurts</p> <p>Like in the other threads, you know who takes it personally by the way they post <img src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="icon_lol.gif" /></p> Sat, 03 May 2008 13:12:35 +0800 sgforums.com:8:316086:8057389 elindra http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316086