http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 en-US 60 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Catknight:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Only God knows the way of men..sigh</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Men themselves also know.... <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="icon_lol.gif" /></p> Sun, 11 May 2008 13:22:10 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8077919 Devil1976 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>~YAWN~</p> Sun, 11 May 2008 13:20:25 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8077915 Devil1976 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>One wife is trouble. Two wives is double trouble.</p> <p>Who wants to add to his misery?</p> Sun, 11 May 2008 13:13:27 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8077896 SingaporeMacross http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>In the old arabic times, those whose "Brothers" are killed in Battle will swear to take care of the Wives &amp; children of those who are killed.</p> <p>So in a certain sense. The Women in the family are given status and treat the Master as their saviours.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Sun, 11 May 2008 12:09:49 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8077790 OH-FF http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>Its ok to have more than 1 wife if its for love. Its not ok if its for lust.</p> Sun, 11 May 2008 11:56:58 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8077777 shade343 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>Homo Sapien is&nbsp;a manogamy species... which is a fact</p> <p>why?</p> <p>Males produce sperms which are cheap and abundant. It would greatly benefit the spreading of their genes in the human gene pool to have more sex with as many partners of the opposite sex as possible.</p> <p>This leads to the tendency to "cheat" on the opposite sex because raising a child require resources. A male can fertilise the female and leave. Females on the other hand are stuck with the child. As the only way females can spread their genes is by having offspring of their own, all the resources needed to raise the child would end up coming from the female.</p> <p>To prevent males from spending minimal resources(sperms) and having their genes spread like wild fire in the gene pool. Females are stricter in chosing a male partner who will share the cost of raising the offspring together. Having multiple female partners means a particular male have to spread out his resources among more females. This would certainly favour the males over females.</p> <p>Hence females perfer manogamy. And it is because of this humans have become a manogamy species. Males will always have a tendency to cheat... hence they will prefer polygamy.</p> <p>It all has to do with the amount of your genes in an offspring and the amount of resources you put into raising the offspring.</p> <p>Polygamy will not come back cos it is not an evolutionary stable strategy</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Sun, 11 May 2008 11:28:20 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8077751 MeepokBoy http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by LatecomerX:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>Hmm. How will you feel if you enter your bedroom and see your wife fucking with another man, and she turns around to say to you, "Husband No. 4, I'm having a good time with Husband No. 2 right now, can you leave us for a moment?"</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Sian sia...Wife No.1 to Wife No. 14 all not free. Think it's time for me to get another wife liao...</p> Sun, 11 May 2008 10:48:36 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8077722 annoy-you-must http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>You really can manage your wife?Teach them to ur fellows on how to.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>It's still practised in Arabian countries.</p> Sun, 11 May 2008 00:25:35 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076922 Alucard101 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Catknight:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>I just dunn get it, our forefather do it and it helps lower single motherhood and foster a healthier society with big families..</p> <p>I don't want to feel guilty of having to love another woman outside of a marriage so why can't I marry her and bring her home to make her No.2?I 've a strong feeling monogamy do not work in a real sense ..why so many men have mistresses outside not only big towkays and taxi drivers too across malaysia lao</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> go back to the bible and check wat it says then</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 21:58:01 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076501 rlsh07 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Catknight:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>I just dunn get it, our forefather do it and it helps lower single motherhood and foster a healthier society with big families..</p> <p>I don't want to feel guilty of having to love another woman outside of a marriage so why can't I marry her and bring her home to make her No.2?I 've a strong feeling monogamy do not work in a real sense ..why so many men have mistresses outside not only big towkays and taxi drivers too across malaysia lao</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Hmm. How will you feel if you enter your bedroom and see your wife fucking with another man, and she turns around to say to you, "Husband No. 4, I'm having a good time with Husband No. 2 right now, can you leave us for a moment?"</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 20:51:33 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076368 LatecomerX http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>i'll be direct.</p> <p>this is all fucking nonsense.</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 20:24:50 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076330 kopiosatu http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Catknight:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>I just dunn get it, our forefather do it and it helps lower single motherhood and foster a healthier society with big families..</p> <p>I don't want to feel guilty of having to love another woman outside of a marriage so why can't I marry her and bring her home to make her No.2?I 've a strong feeling monogamy do not work in a real sense ..why so many men have mistresses outside not only big towkays and taxi drivers too across malaysia lao</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Hahaha...you want double trouble?</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 20:23:48 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076328 oxford mushroom http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>TS like to give so many excuses...fate lah, more fair to wife lah, it's God lah, stop husband from straying lah...<img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt= "icon_rolleyes.gif" /></p> Sat, 10 May 2008 20:13:43 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076306 annoy-you-must http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by cuddles:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>more than one woman in life, is not two at the same time. should be one after another.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> nice :D</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:41:24 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076255 tinuviel07 http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>more than one woman in life, is not two at the same time. should be one after another.</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:21:17 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076226 cuddles http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>That's life lah..sometimes fated to have more than 1 woman in life</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:18:32 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076219 Catknight http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>crazy. if one woman "gao bu ding" still "geh kiang" go get more just to get headache?</p> <p>somemore if really can get so many wives, there won't be the decency to be faithful liao.</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:12:29 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076208 cuddles http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>be fair.</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:10:13 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076207 Rejected http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>sometimes more wives also headache but it helps to keep the husband from straying since since energy and money spent at home</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:09:01 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076205 Catknight http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>go malaysia lah</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:06:38 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076201 kopiosatu http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>culture conformed us to practice monogamy. men and women was barbaric, so that time, polygamy was norm.</p> <p>deep down we're still after all humans, thats why the lust and affairs comes in. temptations etc. It has always been around.</p> <p>there's no way it's going to happen for men to have a few wives. one family quite siong liao.still want so many..</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:06:05 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076199 cuddles http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>Only God knows the way of men..sigh</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:00:16 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076193 Catknight http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>The traditional family unit model is one husband and one wife with the marriage vows being sacred. Humans are mammal afterall,&nbsp;with feeling kept inside our conscience. To reproduce by polygamy is not an&nbsp;agrumentative and supportive reason to begin with.&nbsp;</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 19:00:05 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076191 TooFree http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>I pray to know whether does heavenly father allows sons of Adam have multiple wives..till now no answer leh</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 18:58:54 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076189 Catknight http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093 <p>if can shiok lor.. most important is it help the char bor to think it's acceptable lor.. u know those char bor one lah... always think so much about no face... or how others think of her...</p> Sat, 10 May 2008 18:50:23 +0800 sgforums.com:8:317093:8076178 I-like-flings(m) http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/317093