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  • monkeynut
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    • 14 May `08, 3:14PM

      just wondering arh,

      EXAMPLE : u are 16(male) u are with a 20 year old female is it odd?

  • Ferret
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  • noahnoah
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  • Ferret
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    • 14 May `08, 3:17PM
      Originally posted by noahnoah:

       

      20 years too much

      maybe max 7-8 ba

      i LOL at this. 

  • lenore
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    • 14 May `08, 3:19PM

      if you two don't mind, then it doesn't matter at all. as long as your mentality is on par with each other i guess.

  • monkeynut
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    • 14 May `08, 3:20PM

      i mean not like take care of xiao didi meh?

      yup, the mentality not alot of difference meh?

      Edited by monkeynut 14 May `08, 3:22PM
  • bluejuice
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    • 14 May `08, 3:21PM
      Originally posted by monkeynut:

      i mean not like take care of xiao didi meh?

      and is like aiyah i dont know how to say sia like alot of difference in alot of things, no meh?

      depends on both maturity level mah..

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    • 14 May `08, 3:23PM

      this is personal rite?
      if it bothers u then it bothers u
      if u dun think it matters then it does not matter

  • Gosu.
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    • 14 May `08, 3:24PM
      Originally posted by monkeynut:

      i mean not like take care of xiao didi meh?

      and is like aiyah i dont know how to say sia like alot of difference in alot of things, no meh?


      Depends whether on the state of mentality and maturity of the guy, if the guy can care for her and has his aspirations, then he would make a good investment even at the age of 16. 20 year old girls are probably studying for their degree or are already working so their state of mentality might be different and for them to be persuaded to get together with a 16 year old, it would take alot of courage and belief.

  • monkeynut
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    • 14 May `08, 4:07PM
      Originally posted by Gosu.:


      Depends whether on the state of mentality and maturity of the guy, if the guy can care for her and has his aspirations, then he would make a good investment even at the age of 16. 20 year old girls are probably studying for their degree or are already working so their state of mentality might be different and for them to be persuaded to get together with a 16 year old, it would take alot of courage and belief.

      yup, i know this friend 17 years old and his girlfriend is like 22 and they can seldom meet up due to projects and stuff, wont the r/s be faded

  • RedizAlertz
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    • 14 May `08, 4:46PM

      4 yrs difference onli...will not make any diff..'cept maturity.

      The 16-yr-old is very much matured than the usual 16yr olds, then mayb it wll work fine.

      But then again, it is very much relyin on one's preference & mindset.

  • Miss Tiny
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    • 14 May `08, 4:53PM

      As long as both are comfortable with each other, age is not really a problem bah..

      U can be with a person with the same age or older than u, but he/she can be childish in terms of mentality.

       

  • monkeynut
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    • 14 May `08, 5:05PM
      Originally posted by Miss Tiny:

      As long as both are comfortable with each other, age is not really a problem bah..

      U can be with a person with the same age or older than u, but he/she can be childish in terms of mentality.

       

      yah, but usually not childish alr larh.

      those childish one are like 12-15 at most

  • ChiBet
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    • 14 May `08, 5:07PM

      If you are around 16-20, its normal to want a more mature woman. Once you reach 30-40 years old, you will start to crave for 16-18 year old girls

  • sebosebo
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    • 14 May `08, 5:12PM

      im 20 now, and looking back...i was totally different when im 16. im trying to say that theres definately a difference in mentality and maturity. but if say ur 28 and shes 32...then there wun be much difference i presume.

       

  • monkeynut
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  • Jezmeister
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    • 14 May `08, 5:14PM

      i think you'll find there's a large number of 40 year olds after 80 year olds, assuming the latter is ill and has a healthy life insurance policy...  not condoning... just saying

  • Miss Tiny
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    • 14 May `08, 5:14PM
      Originally posted by monkeynut:

      yah, but usually not childish alr larh.

      those childish one are like 12-15 at most

      I once had an ex bf who's 22 and I'm 17. And I left him because I can't stand his immaturity.

  • Zarks
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    • 14 May `08, 5:17PM

      lol some guy of course will act childish one.. pity cuz this kind of guy never grow mentally u know

  • monkeynut
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  • Miss Tiny
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    • 14 May `08, 5:26PM

      Just that u have never met one before. I've met several guys with this age and with this kind of mentality.

  • sebosebo
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  • angel7030
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    • 14 May `08, 7:38PM

      wow! me 20 yo liao, but i prefer guy older than me lah, cos 16yo too small, even the below also small small and//.....may not hv hair///eee so i still prefer older, but not unkers and ah peks please

  • Daisuke-kun
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