Do you need courage to be happy..??

• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 May 08, 12:47

  .....a friend asked me this question, my take is happiness do not require such a heavy word to achieve. Happiness is just a simple matter of choice. Either you choose to be happy or sad..

• Ferret

  17 May 08, 12:51

  sometimes... it takes courage to make that choice. 

• TehJarVu

  17 May 08, 12:52

  courage?
  eat sashimi with sake only what what is so hard?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 May 08, 12:55

  Originally posted by Ferret:

  sometimes... it takes courage to make that choice. 

  
  .....some examples?

• Fatum

  17 May 08, 12:57

   

  humans are inherently masochistic .....

• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 May 08, 13:07

  Originally posted by Fatum:

   

  humans are inherently masochistic .....

  
  .....you mean?

• Fatum

  17 May 08, 13:09

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  
  .....you mean?

  literally ....

• angel7030

  17 May 08, 13:20

  happiness come naturally, courage or choosing is not required.

• MyPillowTalks

  17 May 08, 13:21

  need to force urself to think u are happy

• thehappybunny

  17 May 08, 13:23

  some decisions have to be made if you seek happiness.

  and in some scenarios, courage is needed to make those decisions.

• angel7030

  17 May 08, 13:29

  if u force or make a decision inorder to be happy, your happiness is short lived and also not true. In our life, we cries and cheers out of pure emotion in us. It better to let all these emotion come naturally and be true to oneself. If i found that i love you, i  said i love you, the emotional love is true, not force nor make a decision, it comes naturally that i love you. 

• Midlusionz

  17 May 08, 13:41

  What kind of happiness u are talkign about? If its about r/s .. then u need courage to make the  choice and endure thru it.

• Daisuke-kun

  17 May 08, 13:47

  no.

  you gotta sing a song.

  a happy song.

• cuddles

  17 May 08, 13:48

  it's like you're in the office and you read some funny things on forum.. it takes courage to LOL. :P

• angel7030

  17 May 08, 13:49

  Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:

  no.

  you gotta sing a song.

  a happy song.

  
  if u happy and u know it clap your hands....clap!! clap!!

   

   

  The more we get together, together, together, the more we get together, the happier we will be...yeah!!!

   

  hmmm..happy songs

• FireIce

  17 May 08, 14:44

  if u need courage to be happy, it's actually quite sad.

• angel7030

  17 May 08, 14:53

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  if u need courage to be happy, it's actually quite sad.

  
  ya, i will rather say quite pathetic indeed

• rlsh07

  17 May 08, 15:11

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....a friend asked me this question, my take is happiness do not require such a heavy word to achieve. Happiness is just a simple matter of choice. Either you choose to be happy or sad..

  it's a choice n a decision to be made. you can find happiness even in the simplest things, in things that you took for granted for, in things that you often neglect

• Lorry`

  17 May 08, 16:08

  for certain things/decisions, you need courage....
  

  for certain goals, you need to do something to achieve it, and to do that 'something', you need courage.
  

  im not talkin bout eating sashimi

• rlsh07

  17 May 08, 16:09

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  for certain things/decisions, you need courage....

  for certain goals, you need to do something to achieve it, and to do that 'something', you need courage.

  im not talkin bout eating sashimi

  
  hmm.. so you were talking abt sashimi in the first place?

• Lorry`

  17 May 08, 16:26

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  
  hmm.. so you were talking abt sashimi in the first place?

  ................................

• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 May 08, 16:34

  Originally posted by Midlusionz:

  What kind of happiness u are talkign about? If its about r/s .. then u need courage to make the  choice and endure thru it.

  .....anything, not just r/s

• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 May 08, 16:35

  Originally posted by thehappybunny:

  some decisions have to be made if you seek happiness.

  and in some scenarios, courage is needed to make those decisions.

  
  .....can you think of one?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 May 08, 16:37

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  if u happy and u know it clap your hands....clap!! clap!!

   

   

  The more we get together, together, together, the more we get together, the happier we will be...yeah!!!

   

  hmmm..happy songs

  .....to sing this song you need courage

• Patrik

  17 May 08, 16:37

  Being happy is to take the risk of losing that happiness.