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what do you guys think about it.
is it ugly business and distasteful, or normal and accepted?
whose fault is it? the 3rd party, or the straying husband, or the possibly cold wife?
would you support the adulteror or support the wife?
i was reading this blog by an air stewardess who is a 3rd party now with a pilot who is married with kids... she justified herself by condemning everyone else saying that everyone else also watch porn etc anyway, so how are they any better enough to judge her?
and i felt that, just because everyone else watch porn.. doesn't justify that what she did was alright. =/
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
what do you guys think about it.
is it ugly business and distasteful, or normal and accepted?
whose fault is it? the 3rd party, or the straying husband, or the possibly cold wife?
would you support the adulteror or support the wife?
i was reading this blog by an air stewardess who is a 3rd party now with a pilot who is married with kids... she justified herself by condemning everyone else saying that everyone else also watch porn etc anyway, so how are they any better enough to judge her?
and i felt that, just because everyone else watch porn.. doesn't justify that what she did was alright. =/
A thief also can justify why he steals.
A murderer will also justify why he kills.
A rapist will justify why he rape.
A robber will justify why he robs.
A prostitute will justify why she sells her body.
Does it makes what she did all right ?
And pweess ok ? Not all stewardess are airheads like her.
The only justification is that she is too stupid that's why she willingly becomes a mistress.
Edited by jojobeach 11 Jun `08, 8:54AM
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For the record, it's spelled as 'adultery' :p
It's not a 'business' cos there's no $$ transaction. If there's money involved, things will be much easier!
Can't discuss much cos never read that blog.But curiosity and sex is something we all have and need. Most guys are more sensitive with their physical (sexual) needs and may allow that to overrule their emotional and moral obligations. Especially for a peelot who spends his time with his crew more often than his family.
And not to put down air crew, but the smart ones dun stay there for long. What's left are the pretty one and those with different goals in life.
Breaking it down further, if you enjoy a conventional good o' family life, you won't stay as an aircrew with erratic schedule for long. That said, aircrew have a certain demogrpahic pattern.
- They are open-minded cos of their exposure and peusdo
understanding of world cultures during the course of their
work.
- They have financial freedom that gives them a false sense of
power.
- They started young and are not grounded (no pun intended) by conventional ethics - maybe they know what service is but there's no sense of long term ownership of a project or responsibilty. Pretty much individualism and upmanship.
- They have queer working culture (the SQ senority culture) that toughen them the wrong way and define what's right and wrong to them.
Now, it's fun to bed an aircrew for the fun of bedding an aircrew if I have no family or other commitments or social responsibilities, and possess a huge bed with long wooden poles for me to carve my scores and a huge brimmed hat for me to plant my feathers. It's a common guy fantasy.
The question is, how to align my fantasy to responsibility and morality?
With all due respect, I have many friends who are/were aircrew and there are exceptions to what I had said above. Just for our discussion.
Screw them. The sky's the limit.
- They are open-minded cos of their exposure and peusdo
understanding of world cultures during the course of their
work.
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i dun watch porn, and as for adultery, it is mend for adults only, got nothing to do the teenagers and childrens. Maybe the air stewardess is still a teengers, so no adultery.
As for those damn Man who are married, please dun disturb we single gals and mess our life. As a reponsible married Man, you can tell any gal off by saying that you are married and loyal to wife and family. We gal will understand you. But sad to say, most damn uncles like to sex with us and cheat us and later regret over it. Hell,.damn men just cannot be satisfied.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
i dun watch porn, and as for adultery, it is mend for adults only, got nothing to do the teenagers and childrens. Maybe the air stewardess is still a teengers, so no adultery.
As for those damn Man who are married, please dun disturb we single gals and mess our life. As a reponsible married Man, you can tell any gal off by saying that you are married and loyal to wife and family. We gal will understand you. But sad to say, most damn uncles like to sex with us and cheat us and later regret over it. Hell,.damn men just cannot be satisfied.
Lol...i like the word 'us'! :)
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Originally posted by angel7030:
i dun watch porn, and as for adultery, it is mend for adults only, got nothing to do the teenagers and childrens. Maybe the air stewardess is still a teengers, so no adultery.
As for those damn Man who are married, please dun disturb we single gals and mess our life. As a reponsible married Man, you can tell any gal off by saying that you are married and loyal to wife and family. We gal will understand you. But sad to say, most damn uncles like to sex with us and cheat us and later regret over it. Hell,.damn men just cannot be satisfied.
who dun like sex with nubiles
but i hate paedopiles! 
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The sad and weak part about adult women here is that they seem to be easily conned by conmen, they fell into their sweet talks and believe in everything they said, then after a few round of sex, these women ask for love, marriage and have a family, kind of normal women dream. Then the men start to say i got family but i still love you, we just be sex partners all those pathetic stuffs, these lead to pain and suffering for women. Very unfair.
Adultery happen in women when
1. they feel old and lonely and like no one love
2. Good career advancement
3. if married, husband keep working or are lame type or flirting type that neglected them.
4. When she need money and protection.
5. Damn horny type
as for Men
1. looking for new love with free sex
2. Got tire of sex with wife
3. wife become plump and old, not knowing the he himself is old
4. wanted women money
5. boring at home
6. cannot tarhan the office woman sitting opposite
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Originally posted by ChiBet:
is it still adultery if it is a threesome? the pilot+wife+air stewardess
ya, cos the pilot never call the co- pilot to join in..and the wife never inform her husband that the steward wants to join in too. And finally the air stewardess did not invite the air steward. Adultery is a very messy issue.
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