i was chatting with my mother then she said that when a girl and a boy are very close friend, there will at least be a little BGR type of like... there cant be any pure friendship that has only purely friend-type of like...
ah i noe i talk a bit wierd... dunno how to express my tots.... if dunno pls clarify...
and pls dun say itchy then scratch!
Thanks
IA
dun scratch. later scratch liao hand smelly.
hehe. nar, jkjk.
but.. wad do u wan us to do? is u dunno and want us to clarify or isit if we dont know, ask so you can clarify?
how come it's always the guys who think this way but not the gal?
sometimes the gal is juz taking u for a ride.. dun think that once she gets close she likes u.. sometimes it juz aint gonna happen.
Originally posted by SBS7484P:sometimes the gal is juz taking u for a ride.. dun think that once she gets close she likes u.. sometimes it juz aint gonna happen.
u mean like taking a bus ![]()
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i dont think gals that scheming la.. i mean, i do have plenty girl the friends around.. and we're just friends
platonic frenship
yes, possible.
Originally posted by FireIce:platonic frenship
yes, possible.
most of the time its like that.
Originally posted by ifish:
u mean like taking a busi dont think gals that scheming la.. i mean, i do have plenty girl the friends around.. and we're just friends
diff.. cus take a bus, after the journey u get down u still got some shiok shiok feeling of the bus la.. but if all the while u think a zhabor like u cus she's close to u, and one day she says no point waiting for her cus she has no feeling for u.. that isnt very shiok i think.
aiyo why must be i like girl then can ask?
i asking that issit true that friends between girl and boy must have BGR de like...
issit true that friend between girl and boy wont have pure friendship but with some like at least...????
asking only then u all tot i like someone then say dun wait for her... zzz
Yes they can be friends if the girl is fat.![]()
You just want a reason to touch her.![]()
Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:i was chatting with my mother then she said that when a girl and a boy are very close friend, there will at least be a little BGR type of like... there cant be any pure friendship that has only purely friend-type of like...
ah i noe i talk a bit wierd... dunno how to express my tots.... if dunno pls clarify...
and pls dun say itchy then scratch!
Thanks
IA
Your Mum is correct.
yes.
it's true.
it's how u control it.
make it worst or better, up to u.
Originally posted by ditzy:You just want a reason to touch her.
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mummy is always rite......unless u r gay ![]()

Some of my best friends are female.
Close but purely platonic friendships between members of the opposite sex are totally possible.
but we all talk dirty ![]()
lol?
can what... haha.. I have lots of friends who are boys. Just purely friendship... haha
but yup.. mothers are always right... because they think that they are always right. it's just a matter of perspective
i also pure frenship...but secretly.....
can one tell??
...and if my best gal fren dress tua kong....we guys dun get hard meh??
Some of my best friends are guys, i don't look at them in that way
well...
my conclusion is nothing is definite... yeah?
IA
its definitely possible. and quite healthy oso wad
for the girl it is possible but not for the boy
if a boy is interested enough to be a 'friend' to a girl, he wants to bang her else there will not be any interest at all - no such thing as 'friendship' interest
should watch this old movie "when harry met sally".
Harry and Sally meet when she gives him a ride to New York after they both graduate from the University of Chicago. The film jumps through their lives as they both search for love, but fail, bumping into each other time and time again. Finally a close friendship blooms between them, and they both like having a friend of the opposite sex. But then they are confronted with the problem: "Can a man and a woman be friends, without sex getting in the way?"
Originally posted by ifish:how come it's always the guys who think this way but not the gal?
Cos guys got two heads to think, whereas we gal only got one head