Do you believe in ''click'' and ''frequency''?
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Have u ever experienced a feeling that u can ''click'' better wif a stranger whom you have juz held a conversation with for 5 mins than someone (friend or acquaintance) whom you have known for months or even years? Do you believe in such a thing called ''frequency'' in which you feel more comfortable toking to him/her without having to venture out of your comfort zone? While there are some ppl whom despite knowing him/her for years, just doesnt provide you wif the same level of comfort during the convo?
Or do you believe that u can hold a conversation wif anyone regardless of his/her type? Its just up to one's ability to be sociable and adaptable to diff kinds of ppl -
this is so true..
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sure mah, new grass and new flower and new experience mah,...people are bound to new stuff, new friends, new colleage, new cars, new house, new gf, new bf, etc etc...then after awhile, they get bore again and look for new stuffs again.
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if u speak with someone for only 5 mins, definately alot of things to talk about coz the person is somewhat new to you.
But u cant possibly talk about personal stuffs with a person whom u met only 5 mins ago what.
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I mean its not abt the topics we tok abt. Its abt the way we hold our conversations...some ppl's style of conversations suits u more than others...
For eg. u tok about sports to person A and B. Both are equally knowledgeable about the topic...but somehow A appeals more to you in the way he talks about it...anyone get wad i mean? Or am i only the one who feels this way? lol
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Yes, of course, there are such things as "click" and "frequency". No frequency with anyone, then we it is "hua bu tou ji ban ju duo". Click, this is chemistry.
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u can talk to anyone. whether u like it or not is a different story. but sure can hold convo one la.
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U have to be careful. There are such things as hypnosis, mental manipulation techniques, mind/body control techniques etc
They are not hocus pocus stuff but based on extensive clinical research in the west.
In Sg, they are not promoted by our govt, psychologist or psychiarist. But they are available in the open market. And there are 'masters' walking around plying and working their trades. -
I once read a book written by a Master on mind/body control techniques.
He was a specky, ordinary looking-guy. In his book, he discribed how met a tough, hardened, tattoo, ex-prison looking guy, (the type you see in show like the prisonbreak) in a single bus trip. They had nothing in common.
The author discribed the techniques he used to manipulate this tough guy (a total stranger) until this stranger became like a puppy and best buddy to him.
All this only in a single bus trip. -
Hmmm...subjective....but let's face it...we can click with some and we can't click with some...
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of course have....
some ple right, talk to him/her for 5 minutes you know you all can click 1.. same frequency
and for some right.. talk for 5 hours also nothin much to talk 1.. nothin in common.... no frequency
tested and proven.
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I agree on the click & frequency thingy..Some pple jus manage to let u wanna tell them everything abt urself. Perhaps it's already in the subconscious mind tat u kindda like tis person & want him/her to know more abt u - all in the 1st meeting.
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definitely true la. maybe because its a stranger andso happens that you both have the same frequency, nd that you both are new to each other, of course there will be curiousity and interest in wanting to know the new fella better. it's only natural. some people tend to mistake this as love at first sight/talk, lj la.
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However, if you are already married, you will get into trouble if you click and then connect into the wrong socket ;)
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Originally posted by Passive Income1:
However, if you are already married, you will get into trouble if you click and then connect into the wrong socket
Not really, if only you know when and where to connect and click it. I got an Uncle whose wife only know he got another son 18+ thai national in thailand after his death.