does look really matters to find gf/bf or husband/wife?
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it seems that society getting more n more obsess about outside beauty... i've read a lot of ppl's comments on how they want a pretty girl or a handsome man to be their gf or bf... but seriously man how long will that beauty last?... for me i rather go for 100% personality... nvm if my partner dun look great but it's the sincerity and the TLC that counts...pretty faces dun last long no matter how u alter them because as you age is that wrinkles that adds up to the real beauty...it's the heart n the sincerity that matters man... that's why until now it's hard for me to find the right person becos everyone's just obsess with looks and not the personality n the feelings... society is just getting shallower n shallower...
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its for the genes to mate for the best offsprings.
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Hanor.
From looks to money.
Society is teh suxorz.
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money and looks is a bonus...
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initial stage = looks.
moving on = character n personality
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therefore, without the initial stage there'd be no progress?
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biologically healthy speaking... its for the offsprings' sake.
its wired this way even for humans. but just we think sub-conciously... -
who says yan dao & chio bu cannot have good personality & characteristic?
dun any anyhow "yuan wan" ppl hor....
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when making love just cover the face luh..
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Initial Dating Stage - Money
Final Dating Stage - Still Money
Marriage - Again Money
Divorce - Half your Money
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This is a subjective topic. Some go for looks, some go for $$, some go for talented bf, some go for chemistry, some go for the heart, some go for intelligence.
Beauty is skin deep. A beautiful heart is more lasting.
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Looks help.
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Beauty fades with time. A beautiful girl will get less pretty as she ages, true. But then so will a not-so-beautiful girl. So that's why everyone wants a beautiful girl.
Geddit?
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you buy apple also will look for decent looking, not dented, looks fresh ones what..
don't say about humans.. lol
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Can't blame humans for that.. Looks is the first impression so ya..
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Looks always matter lah.
You see those yan dao actors like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise?
All married to chio bu.
Well, except maybe Keanu Reeves.
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Originally posted by akin_9:
it seems that society getting more n more obsess about outside beauty... i've read a lot of ppl's comments on how they want a pretty girl or a handsome man to be their gf or bf... but seriously man how long will that beauty last?... for me i rather go for 100% personality... nvm if my partner dun look great but it's the sincerity and the TLC that counts...pretty faces dun last long no matter how u alter them because as you age is that wrinkles that adds up to the real beauty...it's the heart n the sincerity that matters man... that's why until now it's hard for me to find the right person becos everyone's just obsess with looks and not the personality n the feelings... society is just getting shallower n shallower...
U cannot tahan just havin a 100% personality person as partner de...
Trust me.
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I would still say that looks and money are bonuses.
I've seen pretty girls with *not so handsome* guys before, so to TS, its not completely true.
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Originally posted by Plastic Bag:
Looks help.
Can;t deny this fact. Looks help even for searching for jobs.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Hanor.
From looks to money.
Society is teh suxorz.
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Originally posted by akin_9:
it seems that society getting more n more obsess about outside beauty... i've read a lot of ppl's comments on how they want a pretty girl or a handsome man to be their gf or bf... but seriously man how long will that beauty last?... for me i rather go for 100% personality... nvm if my partner dun look great but it's the sincerity and the TLC that counts...pretty faces dun last long no matter how u alter them because as you age is that wrinkles that adds up to the real beauty...it's the heart n the sincerity that matters man... that's why until now it's hard for me to find the right person becos everyone's just obsess with looks and not the personality n the feelings... society is just getting shallower n shallower...
bimbofication of society. -
Originally posted by deathmaster:
bimbofication of society.
nonsense. there are plenty of people who are ugly and stupid, just as there are people who are good looking and smart. the whole personality over looks argument was started by ugly people -
Originally posted by charlize:
Looks always matter lah.
You see those yan dao actors like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise?
All married to chio bu.
Well, except maybe Keanu Reeves.
They yandao and got $$ mah
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just face it la, its the same everywhere, not just in sg. you'll always have an edge over everything and everyone if you're a little better looking/hotter/prettier than the next person. that's the way society judges, no matter how much they say personality is tops, right at the back of their heads lie a tiny subconscious thought, "I still go by looks". just walk into the train during peak hours. see how many ppl look up and analyse you up and down. they're doing the judging even though they don't realize it.it's just going to get worse.
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we all know there is only one reason why donald trump gets to do it with supermodels.
so guys, its not all hopeless.