shd i be mad with him...
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Originally posted by aixuan:sometimes, it takes time, effort and lots of hard work to build a relationship. If you treasure him, and the relationship, you should think carefully.. maybe he worked too late last nite. Maybe he really overslept..
ya it take alot of time n hard to build a relationship so u treasure it alot but did he?
seem to me he not really care leh once in a while late is acceptable but not every time
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c even Yunhaier agree.Originally posted by Yunhaier:You chose to accept him as your boyfriend - there is little you could do as to accept the way he is and maybe gradually make him improve certain aspect. Trying poking his ego a little - not too much, to explain/enlighten him.
Even if you get mad with him, he is already late and the fact remain that he didn't buy vday gift (by the way - *definitely* must buy ar?), so whats the use?
Cheers
There a chinese saying "long pain why not short pain"
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he obviously has no respect for you n expects you to put more effort into the relationship than he does.......he's a piece of crap..... he will put in minimium effort and if you do get married.....he will rather sleep than help you with the house chores.....he's not really worth the effort....so i will go along with the rest of the people here and request you stop dating this jerk.
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if u really love him u will have 2 accept his bad points...instead sit dwn n ask him truthfull y he's late.......buying a gift anot is not impt....serious 2 mi i aso think so lah........bt then maybe he's tired after a day's work lor...if u wana be mad juz tell him straight that u r mad.....n he will ask u y then u all can tok abt it.maybe he wil make amends?some guys r like tt.not romantic at all lor and dun take things seriously....bt once we gals choose thm we have 2 accept them and not get mad wif them without getting things cleared 1st...
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saw this on a book somewhere.....
A gal can have a million and one excuses to love a guy
but she does not need any reasons to hate a guy..... -
Some guys are just a bit 'careless' just like me...
I'm a blockhead....