how to prove to a gal u like her?
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i have been trying for sometime now... tried being nice n always being around but so far mixed response.... leave me puzzled....can eeryone tell me about how u touched e person u like so that u become a couple???do romantic things?? wait for her at workplace or school everyday?wat?wat?wat?
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touch her with ur sincerity
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hard to say... depends on individual......
most impt is the heart.... n feelings...
if she can feels it... n she like u.... wat ever u do she will b touched... if not u r juz irritating her -
I can't feel it leh........
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tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....Originally posted by FireIce:touch her with ur sincerity
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey.... -
ppl serious here n u acting like a .......Originally posted by larren:I can't feel it leh........ -
i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while???Originally posted by thhong22:hard to say... depends on individual......
most impt is the heart.... n feelings...
if she can feels it... n she like u.... wat ever u do she will b touched... if not u r juz irritating her -
hmm.... possibleOriginally posted by harryryan:i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while??? -
Cos he is not referring to u mah...alamak...*kokz yr head*Originally posted by larren:I can't feel it leh........ 
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or time not ready ...yet?
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so i guess perhaps the prob is with herOriginally posted by harryryan:tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey....
she is always insecure and afraid tt guys might cheat her or something
so u have to be less lecherous.......give her assurance that u can give her good life and u are are trustworthy -
than plz kill me cos i really like her alot...Originally posted by thhong22:hmm.... possible -
Did she act in any special ways? How does she treat u?Originally posted by harryryan:i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while??? -
It's as bad as it sounds now. Least now she opened up jus abit of her heart and said that she's afraid of your sincerity. Least she felt that u ahve tried. Least she did not reject u outright. Continue to be yourself and talk to her more harryryan. She could have a bad relationship u didn't know? That's y she's afraid to open up to a relationship. Yes, talk to her more on the phone.Originally posted by harryryan:tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey....
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well... It takes time to prove ur sincerity. There is no short cut. Juz be urself n move her slowly. No point finding a quick way. That's what sincerity is all abt. She may not recover from her previous r/sOriginally posted by harryryan:tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey.... -
See, u have to get to know her more. Likewise, she needs to get u better too. Pay yan gan ching mah then the sparks will... explode!Originally posted by harryryan:i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while??? -
long story but things got better.... she does not reject me as much now.... we go out every week n i bring her supper as n when she needs it.... hope our relationship continues to improve.... but she kind of don't believe me when i praise her....n oh yeah...she tells me alot...even about guys in school who r after her...Originally posted by elmoloveyou:Did she act in any special ways? How does she treat u?
confused where our relationship is heading sia.... -
gan qing shi bu ke yi mian qiang de.....Originally posted by harryryan:than plz kill me cos i really like her alot...
n it cannot b rush..... don seem too despo to the gal.....
reali will make things worse.....
gals wanna noe how sincere a guy can b b4 she can commit....
many guys can't..... they juz disappear when the gal told them not now.... cos more understanding is needed
then the guys switch target to another.....
*phew* luckily nv choose those...... -
ps....previous is not past tense if ya knoe wat i mean....Originally posted by xian89:well... It takes time to prove ur sincerity. There is no short cut. Juz be urself n move her slowly. No point finding a quick way. That's what sincerity is all abt. She may not recover from her previous r/s -
Quite true.Originally posted by thhong22:gan qing shi bu ke yi mian qiang de.....
n it cannot b rush..... don seem too despo to the gal.....
reali will make things worse.....
gals wanna noe how sincere a guy can b b4 she can commit....
many guys can't..... they juz disappear when the gal told them not now.... cos more understanding is needed
then the guys switch target to another.....
*phew* luckily nv choose those...... -
yup but prob is i might die anytime soon....Originally posted by thhong22:gan qing shi bu ke yi mian qiang de.....
n it cannot b rush..... don seem too despo to the gal.....
reali will make things worse.....
gals wanna noe how sincere a guy can b b4 she can commit....
many guys can't..... they juz disappear when the gal told them not now.... cos more understanding is needed
then the guys switch target to another.....
*phew* luckily nv choose those...... -
got feel?
u feel she no feel = no gd u feel she also feel = gd, duno she feel or nt? ask her. she duno n u still wana persist then take tings slowly...dun rush her.. if after 6mths still duno got feel or nt, then move on! 
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Originally posted by harryryan:yup but prob is i might die anytime soon....
..dun commit sucide leh..... -
sometime, its not just urself....maybe the ger dont wanna fall in love at the moment? maybe the ger is troubled in her thoughts, tey to be a gd friend loh. the ger will always know when a guy like her, when it is so obvious, so dont give the impression of 'pushing' her to love you or going into a r/s loh.
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...dun rush her..Originally posted by dysFunk:got feel? u feel she no feel = no gd u feel she also feel = gd, duno she feel or nt? ask her. she duno n u still wana persist then take tings slowly...dun rush her.. if after 6mths still duno got feel or nt, then move on!
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