do you want to have children when you are married?

• Peppermint

  29 Feb 04, 03:55

  if yes why?
  
  if no why?
• www

  29 Feb 04, 04:05

  maybe yes, till the day i convince myself that the equation of children=joy holds higher weightage than children=$$$...
  
  ...considering singapore's living cost and lifestyle.
• En'

  29 Feb 04, 04:20

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  if yes why?
  
  if no why?

  I'll see my child as a legacy of me and the man I love. It'd be wonderful to hold love's creation, bond with them, nuture them and watch them grow up... but... I'll have them only if i can spend ample time with them.
  
  No sense giving birth and then letting some sitter or maid take care mah, the bond is not there at all. Then the child would grow up feeling like an obligation, or uncared for... Then what's the point?
• FireIce

  29 Feb 04, 06:37

  yes....
  maybe a couple of years after marriage.....
  
  children makes a famiy complete....
• nismoS132

  29 Feb 04, 06:39

  yes.
  
  so i can conquer the world.
• _attitude_

  29 Feb 04, 07:19

  haha yes.. if not married for wat ?
• Danisdead101times

  29 Feb 04, 08:25

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  if yes why?
  
  if no why?

  yes...becas i like kids...!! simple...
• BrUtUs

  29 Feb 04, 09:02

  no, i dun wan my kid to hate me for bringing him to this stressful place...
• I-like-flings(m)

  29 Feb 04, 09:41

  yes.... 2 or 3 maybe lor.. see how many i can afford lor.. they are so cute.. hehehe........any chio bu here want to help mi?? hehe
• cAr|n

  29 Feb 04, 09:46

  yes... maybe 2 or 3
  
  kids so cute... and they make a family complete lor... plus u grow old liao got someone take care of u.. hehe
  
  
• I-like-flings(m)

  29 Feb 04, 09:56

  Originally posted by cAr|n:

  yes... maybe 2 or 3
  
  kids so cute... and they make a family complete lor... plus u grow old liao got someone take care of u.. hehe
  
  

  huh why u say almost the same as mi??? are u my ms right?
• cAr|n

  29 Feb 04, 10:07

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  huh why u say almost the same as mi??? are u my ms right?

  u think too much liao
  
  
• edLow

  29 Feb 04, 10:08

  yes i wanna have kid...
  
  but i'm living in s'pore. haha... tat's another story.
• wuming78

  29 Feb 04, 10:39

  wondering if i wil get married in the first place...
• Illegal Operation

  29 Feb 04, 10:49

  siao ar. kids are the root to all evil.
  
  Every new kid that breath, there is less oxygen and more carbon dioxide.
  
  Please hor.. dun waste. Let the foreign talents give birth. Foreign kids dun breath as much oxygen because they more clever, scientifically proven.
• I-like-flings(m)

  29 Feb 04, 10:58

  Originally posted by Illegal Operation:

  siao ar. kids are the root to all evil.
  
  Every new kid that breath, there is less oxygen and more carbon dioxide.
  
  Please hor.. dun waste. Let the foreign talents give birth. Foreign kids dun breath as much oxygen because they more clever, scientifically proven.

  ya ya foreign TALENT eat less, sleep less, cost less, more productive right?? haha so good meh?? anyone know where to find this USA/EURO maid...since they are so good... haha
• Illegal Operation

  29 Feb 04, 11:08

  Totally agree! And more clever somemore!
  
  Go neighbourhood school also get so many A1.We all Singapore also cannot fight. give birth for what.
• I-like-flings(m)

  29 Feb 04, 11:22

  Originally posted by Illegal Operation:

  Totally agree! And more clever somemore!
  
  Go neighbourhood school also get so many A1.We all Singapore also cannot fight. give birth for what.

  can study dun equal to can work.. u know. haha..
  can study dun equal to clever ok..
  can work dun equal to getting rich ok...
  so they happy i happy lor.....
  
  i got no problem with foreign TALENT one as long as they can prove themselves.. but till now never see any.. except for those at geylang lor.. according to their FR they are really GOOD. haha maybe they can apply for the S permit ... since their pay more than $1800. haha....but mamasan.. pls take note hor.. cannot be more than 5% of your whole force work ok. haha. thanks you
• nww16

  29 Feb 04, 11:25

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  wondering if i wil get married in the first place...

  i want to have children but dun wan to get marry can??
• wuming78

  29 Feb 04, 11:26

  Originally posted by nww16:

  i want to have children but dun wan to get marry can??

  adopt one lor. or if there is such a thing, get a surrogate mother, and do artificial insemination. o cos there r more obvious options but i dont think we wanna trod tt slippery path..
• PaulSmith

  29 Feb 04, 15:26

  yes, 1 max will be 2...... s'pore too Xpensive to have more. lot of things to consider
• jolin80

  29 Feb 04, 15:34

  yes.... maybe 1
  i will give him/her the best
  total care n concern...........
  the one n oni (child)
• sgboy2004

  29 Feb 04, 15:39

  hi Peppermint...long time no c u liao
  
  
  
  BTW, I have a new name...Croco
  
  
  _______________
  Baby sgboy2004
  
• Bochupi

  29 Feb 04, 15:43

  dont think so cause expensive to have baby in singapore, but who knows...might misfire someday....
• Honeybunz

  29 Feb 04, 17:40

  Kids are nice to look at, fun to play with. But taking care of them is a different matter. Expensive, time consuming. All my married friends tell me that they have no life after having the first child.