Pity for a Lian~
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Well just stating something that i saw these few days........
Exams coming for me, and i actually went out to study in the evening everyday. B4 going home everynite, mostly 11pm + or past midnite, will drop by the nearby arcade for a game or 2 to relief some stress.
Everything is normal in the arcade, but then somehow a very beautiful girl, abt the age or 18-20 caught my attention (well guess its just normal for a guy to look at gers, esp beautiful one :p). I considered her as a lian, though not those hardcore 1. Well at least she didn't dyed her hair red or green or wear till very skimpy.
I really kinda felt pity for her, i mean she look really great, abt 1.65 or so, long beautiful hair and a nice figure, but just don't understand why she hang out in this place at such hours with her bengs friends (well she's the only ger ard) ......
Its really a pityful sight to see such a beatuiful ger mixing ard with the bengs .....i mean with her look and everything, she can easily be a model and make a name for herself soon. Why must she waste so many nites hanging ard, doing nothing bascially (except playing games maybe). Oh yes, forgot to mention, tonite is the 3rd straight nite i saw her in the arcade.
I dunnoe really, just something that i feel. Maybe she should be more 'zhi ai'. If she's my sister, i am sure she's gonna to get it from me. Or maybe ...... its her family's fault. I really dunnoe. What u pple think? Just felt pity for her ...... -
atti> ah lian "sia suai" meh ?
even if their are bengs or lians, what you said there is very stereo-typed... you should think of what you said.. and if the "chio lian" was some short ugly girl, i believe many here will think differently...
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Atti,
does it mean that if the girl is ugly then it's not a pity? -
er...no offense..but..u said she's wasting time 3 straight nite there...how about u??
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Up to her, as long as she likes it.
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Maybe she does have a day job modelling. You might want to consider that. She could just enjoy the arcade just as you do.
For all you know, she may even be a doctor. I have a friend who's a dentist that is quite pretty, makes tons of money and occasionally hangs out at arcade because she likes arcade games. Don't be so quick to judge. Maybe if you got to know her better, you may find out why she goes there.
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What you have seen are just the outside of her,have you bother to go and talk to her?Maybe she is not as lian as you think she is.Just because she goes to arcade and hangs out with bengs don't automatically qualify her as a lian.Maybe she could be studying for a degree or something else for that matter
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consider that those bengs are humans too! So I see nothing wrong with it. If she was your gf and she was with u at that time it is all right?
Double stnadards I see -
Maybe, she's was study in the day and was just relieving stress at nite!
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Electric ....... well like i say in my 1sy mail, i just dropped in after my study for a game or 2......just spend abt 15min there b4 i left ...... if that's consider a waste of my own time, then i got nothing to say......
Lees, quarzimodo ....... if shes short and ugly......well its still a pity, but then guess normal guys like u and i won't notice her in the 1st place, haha...... dun u think so?
GoonDu ...... maybe u r rite abt her, but then judging from the groups of bengs she is with, think most of us can tell that she can hang ard there for hours those type. Its not hard to tell...... anyway, i don't really enjoy arcade that much till can hang there for hrs........ just a short while maybe.
Moose ......guess u r rite that i only see the surface ......of cos i can't go up to talk to her, of 2 reasons, 1st i dunnoe how to appraoch a person, 2ndly, with all her bengs friends there, a fight is sure to outbreak if some1 approach her, jealousy spark fire mah....... again, og cos those who mix with bengs might not be lian but she's definitely not those so call 'guai guai' ger........ its weekdays, and staying out so late everynite .....
Maestro, well in the 1st place i dun see much things are wrong lor, but then just felt kinda pity that she should get a future for herself...... or maybe she have 1 and i am just pitying her for nothing, i dunnoe...... and fyi, if i have a gf, i wun't frequent the arcade at such hrs 1 lar. So i dun think its double standard. I won't criticise or pity some1 that i will be in his/her shoe. -
But that doesn't mean that all girls who stay out late everynite are not guai mahOriginally posted by Atti:og cos those who mix with bengs might not be lian but she's definitely not those so call 'guai guai' ger........ its weekdays, and staying out so late everynite .....)) -
Lain or Lian
makes no difference la.
Pity or not is not up to us to say look at u guys and gals sitting down posting ur post to the forums they r just like u people in here. maybe some of u guys or gals here came from a nice family so even ur friend r not ah bengs so u will not become a Bengs.
Most of u all here r in poly or finish studying in poly but for most these Beng and lian could came from a broken famliy they don't feel happy at home. Only this Bengs and Lians can give them the kind of happiness they dun found at home. To pity? I think the one should is those in jail, boys town or gals town they went for a gang fight BAng BANG baNG anf kill someone end up in Jail so do u think this people wanna get in jail they r just young listening to their older Bengs friend and follow what they do... sad sad
{ sob... sob...) {not me! the Lians)
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well pple mix around with the company of pple they are comfortable with..and not all bengs are as bad as wat you think.. I personally find nothing wrong with it.. if she got self discipline..whoever she mixes with will not alter what her actual character should be..
so please dun have the impression that girls who mix with ah beng or lianz are labelled as 'bad Girls'..
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atti> i dun think you got what i was saying, but nevermind..i'm sick of it myself.. pehapes i did not get what you were saying either.. anyway.. i was just trying to tell ppl not too judge too quickly.. when you said it was a pity, (sour grapes perhapes?)
you might just meant it in a amusing way...anyway, sorrie if i've offended you in anyway...
to ppl here> just becos they are bengs or lians don't make them any more inferior then you.. you are just luckier to have more responsible parents..
dun bother..i won't come back to this topic anymore... too tired...
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quarzimodo ....... wonder if u will be back to this thread, but just let me tell you that i am not offended in anyway, not to worry .....i mean in the 1st place i start this topic for discussion, thus every1 can share their point of view. gotto admit.....sometime our english and typing here really not up to standard yet, haha ..... cos misunderstanding easily.
well here's another qns for all, just wanna see if i have diff view or are my thoughts normal........ even if one doesn't have a happy family, i am sure they can find love and care elsewhere....or should i say companionship esle where.....doesn't meant they have to hang ard everyday ...... okie.....dun meant to criticise any1 but then i am sure most beng have much rooms for improvement...... just like now, i just came home, and at my void deck theres these few bengs who i am sure are under 18 are smoking.......
well living in this world for over 20 years ......i did only come across a few person who doesn't have a happy family but r handling well in life. They work and study p/t ...... they really care for themselves as they know that if they themselves don't do ,nobody will..... i mean, if they can do it, i am sure most pple in life can do it. Just that most pple in this world like to escape, including me sometimes ...... they will give excuses like 'i am not cut-out to study', 'if now dun enjoy wait till when?' kind of attitude. Still believe that its the person himself/herself who control what they wanna be.......
Okie hope i have pass down my view clearly ...... all views are welcome ...... being it criticising or comment ....... Well that's what this forum are for anyway, rite?
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well, its like it takes just 3 days to become bad and 3 years to become good...
its like this 'lian' chose the way herself, can't really say its a pity or what, (i'm not saying she deserve it either) just that everyone of us hangs out with different ppl u noe... and each and every one of us has their own way of having fun... well its like what u describe ' she's the only gal in her beng group' definetly she enjoys ULTIMATE attention from her friends(known as ah bengs to u) there will be ppl who try to 'sian' her ,ppl to treat her things and so on lor.
so its like, perhaps its a real pity, but then what can we outsiders really do anyway? unless we want to create trouble or what because that's what i think others will be thinking rite?
But then perhaps u (atti) might want to follow her then strike up a conversation when shes alone or something , then hey she might think finally theres someone who is of better quallity and fall in love with u or something leh.... its like 'yin sion jiu mei'
kinda impossible hor???
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poor thing...
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Well wat makes u think that she wasting her time & do u have the authority 2 judge + dictate on wat she suppose to do despite her beauty & your analytical judgement presume tt she should be a model. Well well looks like u r the one wasting time on thinking wat she ought 2 be. So enjoy your game & dun be distracted on that lian. Cuz everybody has thier own wild side especially u. So think abt it.
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orh, so pretty eh ah lian then is a pity? ugly eh ah lian then go Zhi Shen Zhi Mie?? muahahahahaha
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just because they stay out, colouered hair, smokes, speaks hokkian and be class as ah bengs?
when my classmates are in the poly year 3, they smokes, stay out late, coloured hair, speaks hokkian, some with ang kong too, but they are not beng at all, just being fun n playful, so more female classmates tends to join us more often, and they are not lian too. -
Siao, being beng and lian is a style, it's obvious your friends are bengs and lians...
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It's like saying my friends wear baggy panks, spike their hair and listen to crazy music and pierce their bodies but are not punk... really!
Siao, styles cannot be avoided... it's like saying a lion is not a cat... -
It's like saying my friends wear baggy panks, spike their hair and listen to crazy music and pierce their bodies but are not punk... really!
Siao, styles cannot be avoided... it's like saying a lion is not a cat... -
this topic is like ermmmm 3 years back !!!
wah who go dig out one ???
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