Bananaman, Ruthie... I dunno both of u very well and I know I ain't fit to make any commentz abt both of u. But juz listen wat I've gotta say, keep quiet for a little while, chill out and talk it out slowly on the phone or in person - both of u.
Bananaman, being jealous is in every guyz blood. To have yur girlfriend thinking of her ex almost everyday (or occasionally) would certainly make u dubious abt the relationship btwn both of u. The green-eyed monster lurkz in everyone of us, but u have to suppress tat monster if u really love her.
Both of u ask yurself this question, during these past few monthz (or weekz) both of u have been together, how do u treat each other??? Deep in yur heart, do u love each other deeply??
Ruthie, thinking back of the past will only bring back sad memories, there'z no point in thinking again. Occasionally some thingz or incidentz may remind u of the past, but why brood on the past when u've got a wonderful future???

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Look ahead, Plan ahead.
Wang Shi Zhi Neng Hui Wei
