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    336 posts since May '05
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    336 posts since May '05
    • wow so very true. you must be thinking alot about this issue.

      I used to have 2 friends that went through these stage with me that you mentioned. Now we are strangers, less than friends. rather saddening case. I will rather be friends with them if I know we will end up being back to strangers.

      I also feel happier as a single. I had more sad moments than happy moments in my past relationship. I just felt extremely tired from compromising one sided always and always giving.

      Love is like a drug I am just addicted to the sweetness in the beginning, when the sweetness ended, I will still crave for it, but it will never be sweet for long and it never come back.

      For the time being, being single is the best.

      I still do believe in love though. someday~

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    336 posts since May '05
    • Do you think its tough for a Graphic design diploma to study business degree?

      I saw business degree has so many maths course, worry man! Anybody going to UNISIM Business course?

      Anybody in Bachelor of Communication? I am interested in this course if I give up on business course.

       

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    336 posts since May '05
    • They may change their mind one day if they meet the one ba. Some times they themselves may be unsure and confused what they wanted, whether is it man or woman, it feels nice and care about when with woman but at the same time thinking whether is it the wrong way of nature.

      What cause them to like the same sex could be some phobia that they develop from young e.g abusive father or lousy ex bf. They may be unable to accept the thinking of man and feel that man are unable to fulfil their emotional needs.

      My friends who are lesbian both look like girl and partner also look girly. I guess what they want is companion. As long as they are happy I respect what they choosen for their life.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • I dun think there is any problem taking loans from bank. Because you are using your own money to study. Not depending on others.

      My sis plans to take loan from bank for her study of degree as well.

      I am studying at unisim as well. There is this installment plan by citibank or ocbc credit card that has 0% interest, so I plan to try that one. If its very tedious paying monthly then I will loan from bank. No problem for me, just the loan will have interest 5. something %. Gotta depend on myself as well.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • Sign on with only O level in the airforce also no prospect right wont promote to higher rank. better to get a diploma at least.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • hmmm Many years ago I also fail O level.

      I took a full time job as Admin Assistant and I retake my maths and english. Both fail D7.

      After retake I still got Both D7.  I wanna go into design course in poly.

      And I go study designing at Lasalle which is also good. Informatics and MDIS dun sounds good to me. I think SIM, SMA, PSB Academy also better ba.

      I think u find afull  job to work also. got working experience for your future resume. after retake O level can job hop to high  prospect and at the same time with experience

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    336 posts since May '05
    • wah succeessful woman harder to find another half?

      my friend all talking about marriage also.

      I hear and some time add on about myself imagining I will get married someday also.

      Think gotta find yourself more activties that you enjoy yourself so you wont feel out of place.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • I dun see any problem at all.

      A creative person will be more think more visually as in every thought has a picture in a bubble above your head.

      It could be you belong to a left brain person and think in logical sense more in systematic form, so visualize skill is not that strong.

      You have your own strong points no need to have all kinda of power in thinking.

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    336 posts since May '05
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    336 posts since May '05
    • I also prefer to have a bf who will listen to me talk when I feel down.

      Someone who can give me emotional support, girl need to talk to feel better.

      Guys doesnt work that way. He may be feeling frustrated that u are expecting him to give you solutions on something he dun know about.

      But what you want is only support and a listening ears. Somehow he is unable to give you your emotional needs.

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    336 posts since May '05
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    336 posts since May '05
    • I have a ex bf who is a friend's ex as well.

      It feel awdward.

      But as long as you think its worth it and you have no regret just dun let it bother you anymore.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • Is this course good? Anybody in this course? Any advice?

      I wanna further study in private institute this course interest me but I am afraid of no prospect for future.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • haha maybe ur routine everyday timetable has dull down. and not knowing what to do everyday create a frustration in both of you. become a habit to meet and it dun feel like a date anymore.

      dun meet so often and try to plan the activities before going out will create more excitment and look forward to seeing each other more. doing something like cooking together also very fun. try to be busy with activities so there is no time for frustration. hehe

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    336 posts since May '05
    • you got no choice but to let go.

      married woman is already taken, she is not the one for you. can only be friends.

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    336 posts since May '05
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    336 posts since May '05
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      Gosh watching dvd and catch up in a hotel. sounds like a very wrong place. This is a very awkward and wrong thing to happen with friend. its better to stop contact with this friend.

      Its really terrible to be cheated on. But why must u do the same thing?

      Gotta get some responsibility for your marriage. think of why u wanna marry your husband in the first place. All the love you all have for each other and in the ended cheated on each other.

      Have good talk with him calmly and know what is he thinking. And your feelings for each other, is it still there?

      If u still want this marriage to survive I guess it best to go for marriage counselling. I have friends who went before and find it works for them.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • yeah looking at girls dun be too obvious. Even as a girl I also like to look at pretty girls at times. but not too obvious one quick glance is enough.

      Imagine if u are looking at a person who view chiobus like u do, surely he appear abit pervertic to u  too.

      Its not right to be so forward to your viewing of girl body parts although no wrong but u are making them uneasy. u wouldnt feel easy if a girl keep staring at ur body part right. sure will feel disgusted and irritated and u may feel she is a desperado girl.

      make a quick glance then continue to look at the face to make conversation.

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    336 posts since May '05
    • Originally posted by browniebaobao:

       

       

      无奈.. 看到别人幸福时, 不禁感叹自己的幸福渺茫。


      this is what I am feeling also.. haha

      but dun worry we never know when we will bump into happiness.

      be happy, being happy yourself then with all the positive energy around you, it will like a magnet that attract happiness to come to you! icon_wink.gifV

  • Tier's Avatar
    336 posts since May '05
    • Thanks everyone haha. today I feel better today already.

      I guess it really happen on occasions.

      Cheer up~ Ed11790 today its friday~! We will get it over soon! icon_biggrin.gifV

       

  • Tier's Avatar
    336 posts since May '05
    • Thanks everybody for replying to me hehe.

      haha actually generally not about flowers ba.

      yesterday just suddenly got this self pity thought. guess is a after break up sydrome that happen on occasions.

      like "why am I so unlucky never met a good and kind guy in my life. then all around me their bf so sweet  and nice. boohoo.."

      I will get well soon~

      I gotta open my eyes big big next time!!

      Anyway today is friday Yay! Enjoy your weekends! icon_lol.gifV

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    336 posts since May '05
    • Originally posted by angel7030:


      Aiya, what to do, we nobody want one most act ourselve mah, if nobody send u valentine card, buy one and put in your own postbox, then when family members open, they become bewildered, and said"" OMG..wow! wha! angel this type of rough gal also have lover.""

       

      At least save me some face...


      hahaha! Angel couldnt be rough ba.

      yesterday I lao yu sheng!

      I just treat it as another day and play game and sleep very early hehe

  • Tier's Avatar
    336 posts since May '05
    • Originally posted by angel7030:

      go buy a flower yourself and go home sleep


      wow haha thats a very gross thing to do. like hua chi.

      Ok I guess I am feeling better now~~